So I had a girl round last week and I was a f*ing idiot.

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We matched on tinder, I arranged a date for 5 days later, we texted a bit in the middle (fun and flirty, sometimes subtly sexual). She had to bail (for a 100% genuine reason, she opened up about it when we met), rearranged for a few days later.

She had been crying all afternoon for the same reason she'd bailed a few days before, but wanted to meet to cheer her up. I decided not to be too pushy cos she was sad. We watched some tv and really got on, good banter from both of us and i was rubbing her inner thigh the whole time with her legs over mine, she mentioned something about fucking me, and I still never kissed her, dropped her off at like 1am.

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As I dropped her off at 1am I realised how fucking dumb I was, she 10000% wanted to fuck me. Idk why I had it in my head not to do anything - I wasn't nervous or anything, just dumb. I still cant really comprehend what I was doing.

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She texted me asking if I even liked her because she got "mixed signals" - I'm direct and cocky, but my natural personality gives a lot of push/pull (i dont intentionally implement it) and obviously I didnt kiss/fuck her.

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I asked about meeting up again (we were both seeing friends til ~10pm separately), she said shed ring me after seeing her friends and come round. havent heard from her since (3 days).

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Do you think I have a shot if I ask her to go out in a couple of days, and how should I approach it? Was just gonna do my own thing for a couple days, then ask her to do something fun.

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Not the end of the world if I don't see her again, but she was smoking hot and seemed cool. Wondered if you lot think its recoverable?