Hey guys.

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So I'm not really into the whole seduction community thing, I've always been pretty successful when it comes to getting laid. But the thing that made me start reading into it is my tendency to get one girl stuck in my head.

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The reason is, like I said I can meet girls and get laid pretty easily, but I rule them out as potential dating material so quickly. 95% of relationships I see around me have me wondering why theyre even together - I'm not someone that's ever gonna settle for someone I just get on with the way everyone else seems to, they have to be special.

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So the once or twice a year I meet a girl who I don't immediately rule out, they get seriously stuck in my head. I stop caring about seeing other girls, I find myself getting a bit pushy with them etc. after just a couple of dates.

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My issue is that even though there's loads of girls out there who will happily date me, I still don't have that abundance mentality you guys always talk about because it's so rare that I find a girl that im genuinely interested in, then when they do come along I have to make a serious conscious effort not to come across as clingy and needy.

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Anyone else relate to this/got any tips?