Girl told me I need to be more of a 'jackass'

c4toyourdoornobeef · 2018-10-16T20:04:55+00:00

Ok, so I’ll use a specific example. Body language is key. It doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you make her feel. I do my best with women at dance clubs. The stage is set, and everyone is there for a good time. I go out hoping to find a pretty lady to dance with

I don’t not go up to a girl and just start taking, or ask her if I can dance with her, or anything else.

I just start dancing next to them, usually working towards one I’m trying to move on. If you are confident, and she is getting closer and giving good and receptive vibes, start dancing on/with/grinding or whatever else you’d do. Most times not even a word said.

If you make it that far and didn’t “strike out,” next you escalate. Kiss her, grab her, whatever. If she’s interested, she’ll love you taking charge.

Just be in control and make her feel feminine.

In your case, when you were sitting and talking sexually while touching, you absolutely should’ve gone in for a kiss. Also, holding her close, bringing her in, or any other dominant body language works well.

Moral of the story is: Less talk, more dominance. Just go after things, it’s your job to escalate. But the getting it down will take time, and you’ll get there. Good luck

PS. Staying at your house is a near certainty she want you to escalate. Don’t ask where she would sleep. She’s a stranger staying with you! That’s likely why she said she wants you to be a jackass

2018-10-16T21:11:26+00:00

Yeah. Stop asking for permission. Just physically do want you want ( in moderation) and pause for resistance. Yikes good luck

kcorda · 2018-10-17T09:31:17+00:00

Bruh you get a girl home you sit her ass on your bed, you sit next to her, you grab her, make out with her, and then bang her. You should be doing this as soon as you get in your room. There is no "OK I'll sleep here you sleep there" because nobody is thinking about sleeping yet.

judahman8 · 2018-10-19T06:38:12+00:00

Next time a girl comes to your place, assume she only came over to have sex. Imagine how shitty it would feel if a girl tells you to come over her place after you both show obvious interest.

Then you think you are for sure getting laid but you just end up sleeping on the floor instead of your own bed. That shit sucks. Try to remember that girls want to fuck too.

They think they have to let you be the one to make all the moves and you failed at making a move. She did her part and you failed to even just say let's fuck or do anything. You blew yourself right out.

KeepingItReal-ish · 2018-10-16T19:52:09+00:00

You should have offered her your bed and you took the mat. That seems like a pretty jackass move on your part...so she is obviously out of her mind if she didn't think you were jackass enough. Maintain your distance.

Title	Girl told me I need to be more of a 'jackass'
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Date	October 16, 2018 7:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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