I’m a 24 year old male. I’m a fairly good looking guy who is in good physical shape and I tend to be quiet when I’m in large settings. I have great conversational skills but this usually only shines if I’m speaking with someone one on one. Anyways I was in a class today and saw this girl I found attractive and at lunch I just started talking to her and it turned out she was really into me, this ended up with her pursuing me in turn. I approached with the intentions to just get to know more about her as is preached on here an it worked. I was also in a very talkative mood today and didn’t really care if I got rejected or not or if she didn’t like my story because I was goin to tell it either way. She was actually fascinated by my conversation. Before I left I told her see you in class tomorrow and she went right in to hug me.

I really need to start doing this more and get out my damn head and realize no one gives a fuck and maybe they might but I can’t make that be the reason I miss opportunities.

Thanks for all the supportive posts here guys.