Disclaimer: Pretty new to implementing RP. I’m an Expat in Vietnam using the in-country on-line dating site to try get additional plates (also approaching local in person and using networking to meet girls). I'm getting numbers and messaging with about 8 different girls (and growing). I met one in particular that's down in Saigon (the other end of the country, 5+ hours of travel including a $140 flight) from where I live (North). We’ve hit if off super good. We started joking around about a being in a long-distance open relationship. And it’s actually morphed into that. She knows about 1 plate I already have. She knows I’m still on the site (checks up on my profile for changes I make) and knows I’m talking to other girls. I really like her. Pros: • I like her. I can talk with her about anything. • Get the inside scoops about relationships with Vietnamese girls (that could stop if she gets the feelz). • No other girls are getting my interest like she is. I genuinely like her. • She speaks good English (unlike most of the other girls that live close to me). For example, my only current plate can barely speak English and has to use the translator for messaging. She’s super sexy and puts out every time). Cons: • It’s taking time away from chasing other girls that will be a quicker payback (sex). • Risk of oneitis. • Based on our conversations, I know I’ll get to have sex. • She may see me as beta because we spend so much time talking/messaging. • She’s not nearly as hot/pretty as some of the other girls. Last night, she said “where’s this going“, “I know I’m going to get hurt“, etc. So we’re going to talk about it. I will definitely scale back the amount of time talking to her. But I should also consider maintaining just enough contact to sex her up when I can get down there (I want to go down there anyway). My goal right now would be to plate her with minimal time investment for occasional trips to meet up.

My question is: Am I letting her get the beta emotional treatment without the return.