I'm ripped, 6'2", above average looking, and living in a decent size city, but I do far better in person than on Tinder.
In person, I generally have a charismatic presence and a don't give a fuck attitude, and people can tell that I have fairly high value. I general use sales techniques and close the deal by confirming a date with a girl after around 15-60min of conversation. These dates are confirmed and I get almost no flakes at all and very high chance of banging or follow up dates.
Every time I get Tinder, I swipe for a few minutes, and maybe I get 10-15 matches a few hours later. Then I realize that a few are troll accounts, a few are ugly, and almost all of them are too far away. I don't have a car, and even if I do, I'd never travel more than 30 min just to see a girl. I can text back and forth maybe 5-10 min and get a snap chat or number, or I just straight up troll them. But by the end of that, I'm bored and I just delete the app. Then I reinstall and repeat every few weeks. Really feel like it's a waste of time.
Are there any strategies to seal the deal efficiently using Tinder? I'm not convinced that it's more efficient than real life, even though theoretically it should be. Even when you do get a number, it means nothing; they almost never confirm for an actual date. I think 99% of them are just seeking validation and too lazy to meet up with someone who they've never met before.
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