College girls don't want to fuck me because i'm 24 and look 12

thr1289 · 2018-11-02T13:04:36+00:00

You definitely don't look that young for your age.

masteryimain34 · 2018-11-02T13:44:29+00:00

You do NOT look 12.

josski32 · 2018-11-02T13:45:55+00:00

read models by mark manson.

SexistMcAwesome · 2018-11-02T14:48:08+00:00

You have a lot going on on your head, and I don't want to add to your neurosis, but I can almost guarantee you that if women are regularly asking how old you are it is because of how you handle yourself, not because of your youthful glow. You are VERY sensitive about this issue and have blown it all out of proportion.

I am not a psychologist, but if I was I would ask you if it seems reasonable that one of your great regrets in life is not having sex with a waitress? Or with a high school girl who was looking for alcohol? I would ask you to seriously think about other possible causes for the moments in your life that you attribute to looking too young.

I'm also not your doctor or dad, but cool it on the weed. I think you have reached the point where it messes with your head.

My advice for getting sex? Look less homeless (at least shave ffs) and smoke less pot. Act like an adult who has nothing to fear from guys who say "chief," and when women say you look young tell them it is better than the alternative and move past it. Or just say thank you like a reasonable adult who has an ego that isn't made of glass. Practice in the mirror...

Waitress type girl: how old are you?

24 year old looking guy: 24

WTG: really? You look younggggggg.

24YOLG: thank you. I used to look a lot older but I shaved off my homeless guy beard.

WTG: Oh. Too bad. I think beards are sexy.

24YOLG: You're in luck, it grows back. Wanna see my sheets?

Sidenote: that barely legal girl knew you were at least 21. And who cares why she wanted to have sex with you. Build some confidence.... 1 Use protection. 2 Get consent. 3 Have sex. Figure out why she was interested later. Or don't. Who cares? You will eventually deduce why she was having sex with you when she explains why she isn't going to have sex with you anymore. (Spoiler alert: it won't be because you look too young).

Have fun out there, Chief.

Whosedditt · 2018-11-02T14:05:40+00:00

This feels familiar...ah good old freshman, sophomore year. Good news many people and I have been down a similar path and I’d totally believe you’re 24!

As for actual advice, this isn’t a magic cure or quick fix but some ideas, discovers and prose gives that helped me.

Go outside and get some fresh air. Take some deep breathes and while the anxiety turbine of your mind might be spinning use all your energy to focus and refocus on your breath.

Hopefully you’re more calm if you followed the above if not then realize screaming into the void for attention our parents never gave us(more on that later :) ) won’t help better our circumstances.

Game (I.e. being charismatic) alone “can” get you women but a lack of fundamentals won’t keep and often result and the women you do attract being low quality and infrequent.

Being stylishly dressed, having positive energy, being physically fit, socially savvy, having and pursing goals ect are the fundamentals which make women and men attractive.

Would you want to date a girl who just sat around the house, looking scubbly, getting high and crying about not being able to find a good man on the internet. Probably not.

If you’re looking for some near instant improvements you can make.

Get a haircut and DONT go back to whoever did it last time. Find the best rated barber/salon in the closest metropolitan area and go to them and go with the best person you can afford. If you feel you’re paying too much and look douchey, you’re not.

Chill out on the pot, you don’t have to go cold turkey but it’s becoming a crutch and fucking up your life. it’s fun and helpED get your mind of crap but now it’s probably just helping you focus on pointless bullshit and make you feel tired and anti social. If you’re going to smoke go outside and appreciate the world

And...I got shit to do to be continued

urtrashkid58595 · 2018-11-03T06:19:24+00:00

NGL you look like you're late 20's. Sorry white people don't age well.

Bluelord · 2018-11-02T13:37:56+00:00

I'm unsure if 'being young' is a negative. But for one your picture looks like you're early to mid-20s.

The reason why people might say that is how you act or dress as well. I think next time this happens to you, don't take it as a negative but rather build onto the conversation. You've obviously experienced stuff college girls haven't, so don't get in a negative mindset and have fun.

DestroyedByLSD25 · 2018-11-02T14:43:55+00:00

Shave, get a nice haircut, wear clean, fitted clothes.

RedVelocitiy · 2018-11-02T14:33:46+00:00

Dont feed the troll

2018-11-02T14:35:16+00:00

You do not look 12 at all, you do look young but you look more 19 or early 20s young, not boyishly young. It does sound like your main issue here is your confidence and self esteem. I don't know you personally so I can't speak for your personality, but I'm going to guess you might be the type who is defeatist and might self-sabotage. At the end of the day confidence and personality tend to go hand in hand, as you improve your confidence you might find your personality starts to become more attractive. Knowing how to make people comfortable is also a huge part of personality.

In terms of looks I'd say you're average at worst. Looks do play a part but they can only get you so far. I know guys who I'd consider above average attractiveness yet they still struggle with girls. I know guys who wouldn't be considered the most attractive in the world but they still manage to get girls. One guy is balding, Asian (not that his race matters), round/baby faced, has a pretty soft voice, and is shorter than average, but despite all that he's a pretty confident guy who has no problem holding his own with the ladies. In terms of your own attractiveness, well put it this way: you managed to attract the attention of at least a couple girls, so you must at least be attractive to someone right? Try to take it as a blessing instead of a curse.

Grooming wise I think you could be doing better, but you definitely have potential there for sure. Your beard is kind of patchy but it also looks like you have a bit to work with. Look up your face shape type and look at beard styles that go well with your face type, and find a style that you think would work good for you and don't be afraid to experiment a little until you find what works. My suggestion would be trimming your beard to make the length seem a bit more even. From your picture it seems like you have a bit of a longer face, but its hard to tell unless its a straight from the front picture. For your hair I'd suggest increasing the length of the top relative to the side.

As for looking young, instead of being self conscious you can just as easily embrace it and turn it into one of your greatest strengths. I look around 4 years younger than I really am but it never stops me. When people say I look young I just turn it into a joke and say something like "Yep, when I'm 32 I'll still look like a 24 year old stud". Also think of it this way, if you go back to school then you won't look like a creepy older mature student, you'll probably look more like you fit in.

And as others are saying, take it easy on the weed. A little doesn't hurt but if you're smoking it to numb yourself from shit happening in your life then its definitely a sign that you have an issue you need to work on. Getting high to forget something doesn't make it go away, it just makes it invisible and an invisible problem can still harm you.

PuroPincheGains · 2018-11-02T17:54:32+00:00

You look 24 with a neckbeard. Groom yourself dude. Nobody is rejecting you because you look young. Date people around your age. Make an appoinment with a psychiatrist and then get into therapy ASAP. If you think success with women will make you happy, you're mistaken. Fix yourself, then worry about your dating life.

2018-11-02T23:03:08+00:00

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judahman8 · 2018-11-03T06:45:57+00:00

I look really young too. Started wearing nothing but suits and similar attire. People call me sir now and get little resistance from ladies of all ages. Especially older girls

Title	College girls don't want to fuck me because i'm 24 and look 12
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Date	November 2, 2018 12:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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