I’ve been taking more girls on dates recently than I previously would have. This of course in turn has meant more sex. It’s been fun, and met up with some pretty girls as well.

But, I’ve realised that I’ve really lost the spark & joy in taking a girl out on a date. I still remember the first time I took my first girlfriend out. I was 18 years old (a bit shy in high school). We went ice skating—I was terrible, she was going in circles around me. But I couldn’t escape the feeling of ecstasy & romance; it felt so real & genuine!

But lately, that spark seems gone. It seems so formulated—get girls #, take girl out, have drinks, loosen up, have sex if you want, possibly keep seeing each other... I keep thinking there has to be more...

Where has all the fun & excitement gone more me? How can I help her to feel what I also want to feel, and bring that spark back into a first date?