How to deal with extremely rude girls?

ezdubsit · 2018-11-03T19:09:24+00:00

I would just let it go, no need to waste your time trying to discipline her. Doesn't make you beta for walking away, you don't have to entertain rudeness.

hunterpua · 2018-11-03T20:14:57+00:00

Would you just move on and let them have the "ego win" by being disgusting towards you?

Yes.

Doesn't matter in the big picture. You only had 2 out of 15 sets behave this way. There will always be assholes in this world, some of them just happen to be hot chicks.

Would you throw in a comment as i did, and then move on, not waste any more time?

No.

I would move on but I wouldn't take a shot at them like you did because even that is too much respect for them in my opinion. The fact that you even felt like taking a shot at them means you gave a shit, if you truly don't give a shit about someone you wouldn't react at all.

Think about this, The Kardashians are some of the most famous people in the world but a lot of people dislike them. The problem is that they voice that opinion which just adds to the people already talking about them, the more people who talk about them, the more other people will know about them, the more well known they become. If you really want to make them irrelevant, shut up and ignore them. Their fame is dependent on attention, if no one gives them attention they lose their fame.

If you really wanted to take a shot against these rude girls and make it count, you should have acted like they got wiped out of existence as soon as they started being rude.

Would you stand your ground and defuse the situation?

Definitely not.

If you truly considered yourself to be higher value why would you still try to seduce a girl who has been rude to you? Reverse the situation, if guys were rude to a girl would she really stick around and try to diffuse the situation?

Your job as a seducer is not to hit on a girl, navigate obstacles and try to fight your way into her pussy. That is not seduction. That's just being a try-hard. Just look at the words themselves, "seduce" and "attract" mean you make them want to come to you, not try to finagle your way into their pussy.

You need to come at it from the mindset of being the one who is choosing so that when a girl does something you don't like that means she fucked up and lowered her chances of getting some good cock.

My friend kept telling me just to take the defeat and leave asap

Smart friend. Its not your defeat though, its theirs.

but i find it hard to let girls get away with such disrespectful behaviour

Because you care about these rude strangers too much. That's a low value behavior. Stop that shit.

If they are used to beta guys just walking away instead of being confronted with it, they will never stop doing this. I don't want to reward bad behaviour.

Its actually very alpha to walk away because you're not doing it out of fear or submission, you're doing it because you are rejecting them.

You really want to stick it to them? In a club you're in a closed venue, that means the 13 sets you did do well with are in the same place the rude girls are. Merge those fucking sets and parade them close to the rude girls and have a ton of fun with them, the mean girls can act high and mighty all they want but deep inside they'll be hurting.

Also, its not your job to correct their behavior. They haven't earned that privilege yet. Trying to correct the behavior of a stranger who's first interaction with you was a rude one is lowering yourself again because who the fuck are they for you to give a single shit about? You've never even seen them before, you don't know them, why do you care so much all of a sudden? Correct the behavior of your friends, family members, or girls who have earned the right for you to care about them.

pm_me_a_hairy_pussy · 2018-11-03T21:32:01+00:00

Why would you in the first place. Being rude says too much about the person, it's really not worth your time in any way.

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-11-04T21:14:40+00:00

sweet chin music 😊

judahman8 · 2018-11-05T07:00:50+00:00

Blow rude girls right out with a quickness unless you enjoy trying to turn the tables on them. The key is to make a valid point and be polite without allowing them to bother you at all. Call them out on there shit in the nicest way possible and then soften it up with an interesting subject change so she doesn’t even have a chance to respond. It’s usually just one girl that’s being rude and once you check her you’ll be good.

LionVenom10 · 2018-11-05T10:07:48+00:00

You dealt with both cases quite well. The fat 3 was just really jealous, she's probably crying about it now, if I was in your place I would've fat shamed the fucking shit out of her.

Daintyoaktree · 2018-11-03T19:45:31+00:00

This is how I deal with girls with a shitty attitude... I don't.

Title	How to deal with extremely rude girls?
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Date	November 3, 2018 6:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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