Getting loads of 'good reactions' in nightgame, but not pulling home?

Here are 8 tips that can help you out

1. Good logistics trumps all

I've just moved to a cottage in Chiang Mai, Thailand. It's is one-minute walk from the two best clubs in the city. Needless to say, this is insanely helpful.

If you're needing a girl to jump in a car or taxi or (god forbid) on public transport in order to be pulled, that's a much bigger commitment for her to make. You'll get a lot more objections.

It's been said that the guy with OK game but great logistics will get laid more than anyone in the community. I am now that guy!

You don't need a cottage in Chiang Mai, just your own bedroom within walking distance from a decent club...

2. Screening

Screen these women hard and screen them early.

You need to know who they're with, what their plans are, how they're getting home and how DTF they appear.

That way you can make an informed decision on whether to go for the pull or swap numbers and bounce...

I also like to screen to see if they have the personality that I find attractive, if only to make them chase...

Sprinkle these questions into every set!

3. The Pikachu frame

Once you've made a decision that you're going to try and pull, you need to commit to that! RSD Max calls it the Pikachu frame, because of "I choose you."

Don't let that girl out of your sight.

If you leave her, there's no guarantee you'll see her again. There's no guarantee that some other guy won't swoop in while you're gone. There's no guarantee she won't change her mind about you...

You're leaving too much stuff to fate here...

As a rule, don't ever expect nightgame numbers to text you back, or even pick up her phone if you lose her that night. Often, you'll be sorely disappointed.

4. Seeding the pull

The fridge in my cottage is always stacked with tins of Chang Beer.

Early in the set, I'll mention how close I live and how I like to casually sneak home to grab them.

Then, when I invite her to do that later on, it doesn't come a huge surprise.

You don't have to seed the pull with the promise of free drinks or an afterparty.

It can be anything that peaks her interest.

Most of the time she knows what's really going to happen. She needs an excuse that isn't 'sex with a random guy' so she can justify going with you without feeling like a filthy slut.

5. Dealing with the friends

Her friends will always be the main obstacle.

Many people, including myself in the past, believe that you just have to make them really like you.

This is a key step - and it can be enough for them to let you pull - but not always.

If she's in a two-set, your girl is NOT going to leave her mate alone in the club.

If your girl is a tourist in a strange city, her mates will be less likely to let her leave with some random guy.

As such, you're often better off finding a distraction for the friend.

If she's single, find her a guy to hook up with.

If she's not, you might need to merge sets and find some new friends to hang out with.

Alternatively, you need to help the friend get home safe BEFORE you pull

Whatever it takes...

DON'T be placid. DON'T count on her friends being totally fine with the pull. YOU need to take responsibility for her friends as well as her.

6. Overcome her objections before she comes up with them

This is a classic sales technique, and it's important for the pull too.

Often, successful pulls are more about making it seem like 'no big deal' than 'amazing fun'.

That's why I'm always throwing in phrases, such as:

"Your friend looks like she'll be fine with \whoever* for now."*

"It's only 5 minutes away."

"We'll be back before the club closes."

"I'll escort you back to \wherever* later."*

7. Don't stop talking

If the energy dies down during the pull, the logical side of her brain kicks in.

Suddenly, she's thinking about getting up in the morning, how long it takes to get home, not being a filthy slut etc.

So, it's your job to keep the fun going all the way home!

As long as she's still having fun, she'll remain excited about the adventure of the night out continuing into a new location.

8. Go out more!

The more you go out:

  • the more you become comfortable with going with the pull.
  • the more you get used to dealing with the obstacles and overcoming the objections.
  • the more often you stumble across those miracle 'easy pulls'.
  • the better your game gets in general, which typically means less objections from the girl because you're a fucking awesome guy!

If you live one minute from some bar, there's no reason not to go out every night. Do that and you'll be pulling multiple times a week before you know it.

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