Help! Don´t want to cut her off but can´t seduce her

Bobbert84 · 2018-11-20T18:11:14+00:00

You are in the friend zone. Here is how you get out. The first thing that works in your favor is she keeps coming back to you for emotional support. That means she really wants you in her life and likes you.

First is to cut the time you talk to her way down. Your time from now on is in demand. You have other things you need to do in life and frankly your focus can't just be about her. No more long conversations! Not for a while. Period. Use a lot of 'I have to go', 'I'm meeting someone' or 'I'm off to the gym.' Whatever. Just don't take to her a bunch.

The next thing you need to do is start dating other women and going for other women. Maybe you get over your friend and maybe you don't. It is good to do in any case as it gives you the option to move on if you want to.

Extra points if you change your style slightly to look a tiny bit different. You want her to see the new you. When you are around her in person you need to STOP BEING HER FRIEND.

You are not her 'yes ma'am' puppet. You are a man and you are going to disagree with her, tell her shes wrong and makes demands you expect her to follow. All subtle and non-jerk like of course.

For instance: 'I think you're in the wrong. She seems like a totally nice girl and I don't see why you're bad mouthing her. I think that you're just being catty.' You need to be willing to make her a little mad and tell her she is wrong if you want to gain her RESPECT.

As far as demands this could be something as small as 'Come with me. I want to show you something. It's a surprise.' Just get her to follow your lead and show you can lead and be authoritative.

Act in this way and she will start to find you more and more attractive. Then you can make the final move on her but you need to do it soon as if you wait too long you are just being hesitant and indecisive. That is what it sounds like landed you into the friend zone in the first place.

I suggest you look at youtube videos on it as they lot have detailed instructions about how to get out of the friend zone.

LingeringGnome · 2018-11-21T10:23:33+00:00

Just invite her over for Netflix as soon as the next time she texts you. If she says yes, she's likely down for fun. If she says no, see other women.

You're making this way too complicated.

Friend-zone or not, it's a good sign when a woman texts you. Call her on her bluff like a bull elk would. But don't get upset if she says no, just give her far less of your time.

Title	Help! Don´t want to cut her off but can´t seduce her
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Date	November 20, 2018 3:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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