I've lost 70 pounds. I have a better job and living situation. I dress better and have better hygiene. And I have seen no difference to Game.

maserti · 2018-12-29T05:07:03+00:00

"I don't know what's wrong with me " This. That right there is your problem. Great job doing the work to grow, but assuming something is wrong because you fixed some external things doesn't women will flock to you. There is no game. You need to work on you mindset & internals before women start noticing you. How often do you smile? Do you look approachable? how is your body language? Are you warm? Your interactions will be suck until you work on the inside.

mistermeanmistermean · 2018-12-29T04:24:21+00:00

Forget tinder. I'll bet weird approach begetting a knee-jerk reaction. What are you doing?

TheMattEastwood · 2018-12-29T08:44:30+00:00

I never read comments of others. But lets start by saying

Congrats my man. Anything you feel is improving yourself, is never time wasted. as you shall always live as you.

2ndly

Getting good as this women shit, isn't a simple change.

-Getting the ripped body

-getting the big house

-car

-designer clothes

actually means jack fucking shit, if your mentality is wrong. It sounds like you have that "Field Of Dreams" syndrome where the guys that pack themselves into the gym or work high flying jobs, see enough people that similar field get girls and assume thats it.

90% of the time it's because they are portraying very masculine traits they women actually like. Thats what you really need to work on.

You may even know a guy who lives with his mum or doesn't have a job or bad hygiene, diet etc but is still pulling these types of girls that you want. It's because of his mindset, he's displaying masculine traits despite what you think about his exterior

This is what you need to work on

bamboosamurai · 2018-12-29T09:40:14+00:00

This is why it’s ridiculous when guys cry ‘looks and money’ as what you need.

Charm and social skills. Work on those 2

injesterstrust · 2018-12-29T07:20:56+00:00

I just want to take a second and congratulate you on all your achievements thus far man. It takes a lot to make changes like these. So be proud.

Tinder is no way of measuring success. I boot it up every now and then and would only get 1 like per month, though infield says otherwise.

It seems that you don't setup a great man to women frame from the start. Your target needs to know early on in the interaction ok this guy digs me. This is done by a quick physical touch close to the elbow or even a flirt early on. The idea is to get her to polarize as soon as possible (rejecting or accepting).

If a girl tells you early on she has a bf or rejects in you in another manner ( I am here to have fun with my friends tonight etc.) Then you know you are doing something right. This was a huge sticking point of mine as well.

Also another tip I can give is to weite field rapports after each night of game. Try and see what your intentions are after every sentance you speak. Think real hard what you learned, did well and sucked at. It helps so much as you start seeing what you struggle with and also your strong point

Title	I've lost 70 pounds. I have a better job and living situation. I dress better and have better hygiene. And I have seen no difference to Game.
Author	CecinestpasProgress
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	December 29, 2018 4:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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