Hi I have a plate who is 39 years old. She has no children and if I would wan't to make her pregnant I could. I am 28. Perhaps someone thinks I'm a troll since when I talked to friends about this it was very WTF for them, but I'm not a troll, not one bit.
She is not using any contraceptives and I have already came inside of her on 2 occasions, both in the "danger-zone" of her menstruation-cykle.
First time was because I had ran out of condoms and we were horny, she said before I put it in that she was not using any contraceptives and if she got pregnant she would keep it.
After we fucked and I came we talked and I said bluntly that I would not take care of a child, because I have 3 more years of studying and then some years to start my career, she knows I am career-oriented and she respects that. I also said I don't want to pay child-support.
She then made it clear that she would expect the father to take care of her child every other week. I again told her that I wouldn't do that, and there is nothing in the law that forces me to do so. She then said the father of her child would at least have to pay child-support.
Fast forward 3 weeks and I stuck it in there again, came again and both of us saying "we really should use a condom".
Well, I want a child, very much so. But I don't think I can ever find a girl in Sweden (where I'm from) that I would want to start a family with. My plan is to get my degree and then GTFO of Sweden, but since reading TRP I start to think that finding a good girl is hard anywhere. So this is a golden opportunity.
I have thought a lot and hard about this and come to the conclusion that I really do want to make her pregnant, BUT i'm SURE there are bad things with it that I haven't thought of.
The good things:
1) I'm not a genetic dead end (big for me)
2) I get a child wich I might not otherwise
3) She seems to have good genetics
4) Great pre-selection for life
Bad things:
1) Giving my child a bad start to life
2) Giving myself an achilles heel: I would always care for the child, and sacrifice quite a bit for it. I know I would for my sisters children, so then I would for my own.
3) Demonstration of Low Value??? Not taking good care of my child
4) People always judging me for not taking care of my child??? Could this have a negative impact on my career or POSSIBLE future woman I want to make a mother???
5) Child-support beeing costly, but money-wise it's definately worth it for me.
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