In a way... Are we giving girls shit tests?

zyk0s · 2015-02-11T00:57:00+00:00

Guys give tests, but they're not shit tests, at least they work very differently. A woman issuing a shit test will do so completely involuntarily, and the way to pass the test is though either ridicule or scorn.

I can't think of anything that has both components in men's behavior. You can test a slut by pretending to love women "with experience" to see how she reacts, but that would be intentional. On the other hand, everything a guy might involuntarily test a girl on, he'll expect a straight answer for. So no, I don't think guys are giving shit tests.

If you're looking for the male equivalent of a shit test, it would be something men do involuntarily to gauge a woman's fitness as a sexual partner. And men do it one simple way: through our eyes. This is why you see women bitching about "the male gaze", "beauty standards" and the like.

Our test is a visual test, so most women don't even need to interact with us to fail it. At least a guy can practice, and polish his game before encountering a shit test, and he can relax when women are not present. No such luck for girls, they need to have hair, clothing and makeup at their top at all times.

ConcealingFate · 2015-02-11T03:56:27+00:00

Guys ''screen'' to see if she's worthy of commitment AKA see if she's crazy or not.

Cryocasm · 2015-02-10T22:44:47+00:00

The male version of a "shit test" would be a compliance test as it's known in PUA. These are only useful for the entry stages.

Our direct equivalent to a shit test is observing her objectively and acting accordingly. If she's been touchy or flirty you need to run dread game. While you physically lead her, you must emotionally trail and correct her from behind. Watch what she does and adjust accordingly to keep her in line.

Is she more of a bitch lately? You aren't holding frame hard enough.

Is the sex less? Chances are you're shittier, became fatter.

Does she suddenly want to leave the house for "girls nights"? Then it's time to run serious dread game or straight up dump her.

You trail her emotionally, don't negotiate ever. Show her you're more valuable than her and she'll come back.

Title	In a way... Are we giving girls shit tests?
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Date	February 10, 2015 10:11 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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