How to pick up a girl if she’s with a friend?

Throwaway156790 · 2019-01-26T20:06:13+00:00

Target brought the 'nottie' on purpose. No saving this one. Move on.

Side note: Why didn't one of your 'bros' pick up on the third wheel and get her out of the way? Isn't that the job of the wingman?

2019-01-26T20:24:28+00:00

I never meet girls when they suggest bringing a friend. Because if either doesn't like you the interaction is dead. It's hard enough forming a connection with one person let alone two at once

2019-01-27T01:07:25+00:00

If she brings a friend she might not be that interested in you. If she were interested she'd want it to be you two

aaveshdagar · 2019-01-26T22:52:01+00:00

Neg her friend a bit, try to give more attention to her friend so that your date feel jealous then hit the Iron when it's hot (close with a goodbye kiss and next date, it's better than getting nothing)

BigSnips · 2019-01-26T21:54:32+00:00

If you're meeting at a party a tinder girl isn't going to come alone.

So! Don't meet her at a party, take her on a date.

I know Uni/high school is different now-a-days so if you "have" to meet her at a party with a friend you basically have to entertain the troops to win over the friend.

Be friendly, talk directly to the friends while touching your girl flirtatiously, be fun and easy going, make the friend want your girl to hook up with you.

When the friend decides she wants to leave she will leave alone and convince your girl to stay. At this point you're in isolation and you are merrily on your way.

SpinPlates · 2019-01-27T05:26:53+00:00

I invited this smoking hot Asian chick I met on tinder to a NYE party and she showed up with a beta male orbiter. Dude was super nice but that's expected when you're short, fat and friend zoned.

Made him watch us make out but I still couldnt pull her back to my place because of the logistics with him in tow. She purposely brought him to stop herself from going home with me or in case she didn't like me in person.

Same with your situation. She brought the friend to cockblock herself.

In that situation I go full asshole and "self amusement" I had a lot of fun busting her balls about bringing her male friend.

Example. Female acquaintance of mine approached me and the Asian girl and introduced herself. I teased the Asian girl by saying "I just met her on tinder like 6 hours ago...Shes cute and all but she showed up with a dude unannounced" (kept it light hearted but still made it clear that I wasn't naive to what she was doing)

After midnight on NYE I straight up told her to send her beta home in an uber and come to a bar with me and she made up some bullshit about his car being inside her apt gate and blah blah blah so I went home empty that night.

I'm out of town for work but when I get back she wants to chill again. Sometimes you gotta play hardball and plant the seed for a 2nd date

Title	How to pick up a girl if she’s with a friend?
Author	Throwaway156790
Upvotes	7
Comments	8
Date	January 26, 2019 6:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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