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Going out sober is always better, you're improving so much faster. Alcohol will slow down and hinder your seduction journey. Stop drinking, today. One of many lessons this week, week 9 of my seduction journey.

Brostory_com

January 29, 2019

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Title	Going out sober is always better, you're improving so much faster. Alcohol will slow down and hinder your seduction journey. Stop drinking, today. One of many lessons this week, week 9 of my seduction journey.
Author	Brostory_com
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	January 29, 2019 3:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/al17uo/going_out_sober_is_always_better_youre_improving/
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[–]_do_not_read_this_ 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Brostory_com[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Kennigmatic2 points 7 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Brostory_com[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I realized over time that alcohol took away much more than it gave. I had more confidence, game, fun, and learned more sober. My fitness stayed on track. Next day was no problem. It was free. Going out 3 days a night drinking isn't really viable if you have work and exercise.

So first step was realization.

Secondly I only drink when I go out. If I were you, I would stop drinking every day to start with. Check out /r/stopdrinking

Then after new years I said fuck it, no more. First time I went out sober was really rough. Music made me anxious, I could not open at all. My friend was drinking.

Non-alcoholic beer helps a lot, gives the feeling but avoids the alcohol.

In the end though you just have to live through the withdrawals. It will suck donkey dick but long term you will be so much better of.

Accept to anxiety, accept the insomnia. "Ok I have anxety, that is fine. Soon enough if I stop drinking, it will fade".

Feel the anxiety. What does it feel like? After all, it is just a feeling. Who says it is bad, who says it is anything. Start looking at feelings for what they are, just some feeling in your body. They don't mean anything.

Embrace the anxiety. It's like when you do public speaking, the first step is accepting you are nervous. Tell your audience "I am nervous" and it loses its power over you, because you accept it instead of running from it.

Once you start to accept the horrible feelings in your life, they start to lose control over you and fade.

They only have power when you run.

Also reframe "I don't drink alcohol", don't think "I'm trying to quit".

Make up your mind, make the pain and withdrawals motivate you, get it done.

// Brostory

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[–]Brostory_com[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link