Shit test, playing hard to get or not interested

WIA20XX · 2019-02-13T21:52:14+00:00

Rule numero uno - when the chick is really digging you, she not only makes it easy, she is proactive. She is trying to meet up, trying to hang out, trying to make you happy. 11 on a scale of 1-10.

So if you're not getting that, she's not really into you at the 11 stage. As the Facebook meme goes, You're an option, not a priority.

If this is via messaging, her online behavior shouldn't concern you. It can mean a billion things, but you have no reliable and effective way to change the flow. Especially if you can't write.

If this is offline, haven't banged, and social circle, she's not convinced of your value proposition enough to change her behavior for you.

If this is in the moment during the pickup, you're too responsive and needy, and this is how chicks react to that. Basically you have some value to her, but your behavior is not attractive.

If you've already banged her, this is a true shit test, and she's consciously or unconsciously trying to control your behavior. She is acting weird to get you to ask her what's wrong, and she'll pussyfoot around trying to finally explain the issue.

MakingGravyInMyPants · 2019-02-13T18:52:14+00:00

Be specific about your situation.

CloudzTheCook · 2019-02-14T03:30:39+00:00

A shit test is one sentence or action in particular ("I dont have times for men like you", "I bet you will make me sad", "I won't fuck with you tonight").

If the whole thing going on is a test, you might consider that you fucked up somewhere.

Texting too much? This could be a problem, because texting is so impersonal.

Text is to be reduced to logistics, we'll never say it enough! Talking face to face is key

Title	Shit test, playing hard to get or not interested
Author	Rolekkk
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	February 13, 2019 6:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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