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[–]LikeCaprice 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women don't typically like to move for a date irl so fast. They like getting to know someone more over a few days. It's about safety.
What would you think about your texts if you were in her position? Do you sound like someone who is just moving for dates as a strategy to hook up?
Who are you to her beyond your desire to get to know her?
[–]Justachad13 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
M8...you haven’t even banged her or seen her in person at least. Not even a hug.
I’ve gotten oneitis, but it was w a chick I was banging like 5 times a week for like 3 months. Which will always sting much more than a text buddy or a pen pal ghosting you.
See the difference? Don’t put all your eggs in a basket you haven’t even put your cock into yet.
Even let’s say you had been banging her for like 6 weeks, then she stops responding. Imagine how many texts and weird shit you’d do then.
Not bashing you or anything at all I’ve just been there before and know how the shit works. Sounds to me she’s not that interested. Definitely not getting anyone emotionally attached via cell phone.
Women’s emotions change over night. Maybe one night she was like feelin herself and into you and the possibilities, then the next she was focused on her real life and not even thinking about you. Nothing personal so don’t take it personal. Balls in her court don’t send anything else. Trust me she’s not trying to see if you’ll fight for her or send her flowers or any of that shit m8.
[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My plan is to give her a little space. I’m not gonna text back.
That is the right decision
I want her to put in some effort.
It sounds like you don't expect a girl to even put in any effort, while it should never be a one man show. If you usually have to do all the work, something is not going right.
I’m a good catch so it’s fair if she meets me half way.
I'm with you on that, but it should be in general that way.
I don’t want to chase her too hard and screw up the opportunity I have.
Wait... What opportunity? The opportunity that she doesn't put in effort until you get frustrated? The way I see it: She knows you put a lot of value into her and she can behave like she wants to, you will still pursue her no matter what. That is not sexy.
If she doesn’t respond within the next day I’ll follow up.
Wait... what?? Didn't you say you wanted to give her space? One day is not giving space. Also, what do you want to achieve? She has read you message, and decided you are not important enough to reply, do you really want to lose the last bit of self respect by chasing her like a niceguy?
If that does happen at least I waited a while to follow up.
Wait longer. Wait until she deems you worthy enough for a reply. This sounds harsh, I know, but this is a game that women play with guys they perceive as low value. You have two options now, wait it out and look for other girls. Remember: She has received your message, and therefore knows what you want. No matter how many messages you send her, it won't change things to the better. Then at one point she might reply with a big sorry and a reschedule (which would be some kind of investment), which could point to her realizing that you are not one of those needy bitches she usually has to deal with, or... you send her another text, and another, and another and so on, like a needy little bitch and lose the tiny chance of getting her on a date.
I forgot there was a third option... Wait a few weeks (two to three)!! Then engage her like nothing happened and hope that you can hold back your neediness this time.
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