How can TRP be implemented for me?

secret_barber · 2015-02-18T14:29:45+00:00

Realize there is no reason for you to be in a committed relationship at 21 years old. You should be focused on building every aspect of your self - experiment with not only business, but also education, adventure and women. She is holding you back.

asd1100 · 2015-02-18T16:07:49+00:00

If you come from money get a job doing hard labor, NOW!

Easy money will make you the worst type of pussy. Having a LTR and having money will make you a worthless shell of a man.

Move to a different state, get an apprenticeship, make a name for yourself and then use the money to start your own company 3-5 years down the road. When you will be making money, will have time constraints get a girlfriend, and be as generous as your common sense dictates, I bet you won't have the same urge to spoil her as you have now.

Mark_D_Aardvark · 2015-02-18T22:40:03+00:00

I've been reading the comments, here's my 2 cents.

A. The reason people bring up your relationship is this thing called opportunity cost. You said you want to improve you life, well that takes effort and time. When in a relationship you have to sacrifice some of your time for your partner, it's not really about chasing tail your still young. That time spent on your partner can be spent on improving for the moment.

B. You need to improve physically, mentally, and socially. Exercise, Read/Study, Socialize/Apply learned knowledge.

C. You say you're a bit anti-social, that's not going to allow you to aim high. A lot of getting a head is knowing how to deal with people and making advantageous relations. Sometimes it's simply not what you do but who you know.

D. TRP on LTR on and Gaming is still good for you to know. First because of what I mentioned before in terms of socializing. Small RL example from not too long ago: By apply Gaming/PUA theory I made myself appealing to the girl working the register at the bowling alley. With the proper flirting I was able to get a discount. This is small but things like this happen all the time. I wasn't trying to date her or ONS. Secondly you need to make sure that your lady still values you in the correct way. Maybe things are fine now but you need to learn ways to keep your frame and have thirsty for you. I'm not sure where you are from and know cultures are different but the basics of women works the same. You wouldn't want her just to be settle with you because it's convenient and simple. You say you are well of compared to others so it's just wise to be careful. Don't let emotions steer you away from looking at possible truths. Just because you are happy with her doesn't mean you can let you're guard down. Learning from TRP can make you more attractive to your lady.

E. What you see in the comments are warnings of becoming complacent. You're father worked hard and broke out of poverty. Odds are he wasn't complacent, if not he would of stayed where he was. It's the same thing with relationships. Make sure you're not complacent it takes hard work and getting uncomfortable to achieve the best relations. If you got uncomfortable and decided to chase and learn from it, it would teach you how to do that with other things in life like jobs. Sometimes you have to quite your job no matter how comfortable it is to get ahead. It's tough. Doesn't mean you need to do any of that but it's the principle behind it that they are trying to convey.

RandallWho · 2015-02-19T00:21:41+00:00

I want to improve on my life and relationships and really aim high,

can you be more specific about what you want to improve on?

is there anyway i can implement TRP to benefit me?

Yes there are aspect that will help you, the most universal one being working on being better physically, mentally, and socially but you have do decide what that means to you.

then i think there are other specifc ideas that may help but first asl what you want to improve and how you want to improve it? then look at how TRP among other things can help

Title	How can TRP be implemented for me?
Author	Slipitinm8
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	February 18, 2015 12:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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