I ask because i'm in college and I have neither looks nor money and so far even my somewhat charismatic personality has yet to even succeed in getting me laid or getting girls to spend with time with me.

It seems to be you gotta be a guy that takes shit serious, or at least looks like he takes shit serious. Girls don't take me seriously because I look like this

https://i.imgur.com/w6rwupj.jpg

and I feel that any niceness I get is a fake sort of niceness that's kinda condescending to my perceived ignorance since i look 12.

I'm also 5'6"-5'7" and under 130 lbs (weighed as high as 150 tho and i'm not exactly weak)

I wish I could change a lot of things about myself, like be taller or grow a beard or be more macho looking, because sometimes it seems like that shit is all that is stopping me because of course looks matter, anyone who says otherwise is an idiot

What do you think?