Just got out of a relationship 2 months ago for 2 years. I'm 33.

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fired up the dating apps, signed up for hinge and bumble. because of my age, I'm going out with women between 28-33.

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anyways, I've been on 8 dates in the past three weeks. first of all, the dates seem more "serious", as in I feel like I'm being interviewed or something. when I was younger (28-29), the dates were more fun/spontanous/having a good time - the girls just seemed different back then.

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Ive gotten a kiss/makout on pretty much every date, but cannot escalate past that. ive been on two dates where I ended up at the girls place and she layed down the LMR like crazy - not even past kissing.

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A few years ago, I would have sex/fool around on most of the dates I went out on, mostly on the first try.

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I'm trying to figure out if I am doing something wrong this, or if its the women this time, or its the fact that Im using hinge/bumble versus tinder etc.

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