I use OkCupid and one major problem I have with girls is that conversations easily die out on online dating.

I try to make my initial message funny and interesting and the response is positive. Then after the conversation starts, the pressure begins. Do I say this or do I say that.

Then I reach a state of mind where I feel like I have to keep asking a question in every message just to keep the conversation going. I sometimes choose to not do that. I sometimes just tell a girl something, and wait for her to ask me a question to further the conversation.....usually that doesn't happen. The conversation loses heat.

Does the guy have to keep asking questions or what? I feel like everything I say will bore her and I experience tension when talking to girls online.