I lost my virginity 3 1/2 months ago thanks to the advice of this sub, and I thought that it would be easier to get laid studying abroad, but so far I have had no luck and my anxiety is starting to creep back in. This is probably not a high quality post, I just have to get this off my chest. I am in Hong Kong, people that look like me are supposed to do extremely well in the culture here, but I feel like I have next to no opportunities. Most of the other exchange students are in long distance relationships from home that they are holding onto, and the university that I am studying at here, HKUST, is known for having an extremely academic culture, not a lot of partying or anything like that. I had a chance with this ridiculously hot exchange student a month ago but I fucked it up horribly by getting sick at a bad time and not making a move. Now I am in the middle of the semester and I feel like I am meeting people at such a slow rate that I don't know if I am ever going to get laid here. I also don't know how to date in this kind of environment. Most of the advice here is to invite girls on dates and then pull them back to your place, my place is pretty much an hour away from the action in the city, so even though I go out a lot the prospect of pulling a girl home from a club makes no sense, and I feel like the same goes for pulling a girl home after a date. I feel like I don't know the general blueprint for how to get girls here.