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Approach anxiety buster

folasanmi

March 16, 2019
1 upvotes
/r/seduction

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Title Approach anxiety buster
Author

folasanmi

Upvotes 1
Comments 5
Date March 16, 2019 6:11 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b1vcwg/approach_anxiety_buster/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/approach-anxiety-buster.1464450
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Comments

[–]ljhhgkhgkhjg 7 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I really liked the first one about lowering your criteria for what makes an approach. However even with this advice I feel unsure what I could do or say. Just say "hi" and then walk off? Seems stupid. Or what does he really mean by "uttering a sound"? He doesn't give any examples. Plus even though I like the first method, you can still have approach anxiety I guess, women can still treat you like shit even though you only utter a sound.

[–]folasanmi 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

By no means is he saying this is a proper cold approach opener (although it could be depending on the context)it’s simply an exercise to get you to get over your fear of approaching. Then once you’ve gotten over the fear of simply walking up to a girl and saying something then you can advance to maybe asking for directions, then maybe a compliment.

[–]ljhhgkhgkhjg 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

“although it could be depending on the context”

He didn't say that in the video. You should learn what quotation marks are for.

[–]folasanmi 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks you for correcting my grammatical error. I should have put parentheses

[–]ljhhgkhgkhjg1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah I get that but he still didn't give examples of what to say. I can imagine myself struggling to even come up with a "sound to utter". I really hate the idea of giving attractive women the attention they want, I mean in some cases they don't want any attention at all from me but some women I feel get high off the attention I give them, it boosts their ego, even if they don't feel attracted to me, and they might smile and such because of that. It's hard to tell sometimes if they like you or just like the attention. Anyway I think I would hate to just "walk over and utter a sound" and then walk off without doing anything more because that would be like just giving her attention and nothing else. But whatever, if it works it might be worth a try, even though I think I already have tried it a little bit, but not sure I had in mind to do it for the reason given here.

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