I don’t have a problem approaching, once I know what to say. It’s not about approach anxiety, but not knowing what to say.

I talk to women and approach often. They are friendly to me. However, that’s all they are. I never seem to seal the deal. If I try to, they reject me.

How do I avoid this? I tried to be sexual/ask her out on the spot once (after minutes of meeting her) and that just creeped her out