Buy a girl a plane ticket so she can visit?

John-lovestosposh · 2019-03-28T14:07:39+00:00

Hahaha no, don’t

Ask yourself, be honest, would she do the same ?

If you have extra cash you don’t know what to do with then I guess.

But unless she’s heavily emotionally invested, I’d rather not.

dear_doofus · 2019-03-28T14:54:29+00:00

speaking as a woman...

it could be a stunningly generous thing to do and clear way to show you're trying to make this work despite the distance. however, I think practicality is to take it step by step.

if I was on the receiving end of such an offer from someone I'd started talking to romantically, I would want to be sure that he didn't consider as a given that I'd sleep with him right off because of this. I'd need to feel safe that there wouldn't be pressure or undue expectations by doing this.

I'd also definitely offer to at least split the fare. I may or may not be able to afford decent hotels in the place you're flying me to- just making the offer first gives me a chance to thank you, check my finances and see what I can do to reciprocate or express equal commitment.

would I ever actually take up anyone on this... hm. probably never for the first visit. it's a safety thing. after you get to know a guy and that he's trustworthy, sure, you can work out what each of you can afford, will you take turns etc. right off the bat nope. but, of course... that could be just me.

JF803 · 2019-03-28T14:11:04+00:00

If you know she likes you and you guys are gonna be having sex and she’s invested, buy the ticket. If it’s some girl you barely know, no get to know girls in your area.

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-03-28T14:29:53+00:00

Ask yourself if she'd do the same then decide. I as a general rule never do it cause if she cared so much she'd buy her own ticket.

minimalistforlifeee · 2019-03-28T15:06:58+00:00

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minimalistforlifeee · 2019-03-28T15:19:22+00:00

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c4toyourdoornobeef · 2019-03-28T15:36:05+00:00

jfc this sub sometimes is so cucked

Thecrow1981 · 2019-03-28T15:59:51+00:00

No, it's all about a level playing field. If you give her money or a ticket before you are seriously deep into a relationship you are too 'needy' and give off the vibe that you value her more that you value yourself. After all, you gave up part of your life to earn that money.

oursummerskin · 2019-03-28T16:45:26+00:00

I might be the odd ball out here...but a guy bought me a plane ticket to visit once and we ended up getting married like 8 years later. 🤷‍♀️

bitcoino9 · 2019-03-28T17:47:08+00:00

dont do it

dont be a simp

if u want just go over there instead my monkia

minimalistforlifeee · 2019-03-28T14:01:49+00:00

If she wanted to see you that bad she’d buy her own. I wouldn’t buy her a ticket ever, even if there’s a fire.

Title	Buy a girl a plane ticket so she can visit?
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Date	March 28, 2019 1:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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