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[–]TheXXL 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well it's sad enough that you suffered from depression, and I know what I'm talking about, depression is a fucking bitch, but as long as you are getting help you should not be scared. To the topic of rejection: it only hurts if you care. The reason you care is that you are probably lonely, grasping for any kind of relation some girl might offer you, and then you commence with picturing a perfect future fantasy of you both together. Trust me, I've been exactly there. What you should do: make clear that you only need yourself, and any girl will only be an extra to a life that you, only you, build up. If she's there or not should not have an impact on how you feel about yourself.
How can you get there you might ask? Start building yourself a life that you want to live, something that makes you happy, step by step. Then start slowly, step by step to get rejected by random girls. Those rejections bear no weight, since they are not personal. Random people don't know you and therefore cannot see your real value. If you do this will learn how little it matters if some random rejects you, since you are your own source of validation.
Someone once said: if you are naive and you trust someone, they might disappoint you, and it will hurt badly. If you are courageous though, you will trust again, even though you might be hurt, but you give the other the opportunity to show their best.
Be courageous. You can do this.
[–]cDz_27 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depression is just an repression of expression.
Move your body. Talk to someone that wants share thoughts.
Remember at the end of the day
Your -positive- thoughts / words /actions will propel you into the opportunities your seeking
[–]runningwiththebulls1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The key is to get rejected so much it can't hurt you anymore.
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