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I don't understand the concept of oneitis quite well but I am not sure if it is my case for the simple fact that I maintained all my other relationships as usual. Oneitis is when you feel like you need this one girl. Hopefully, you were also going after other girls but this wasn't specified in your post. "It is cool how easy you could decipher the "real world me" in a reddit post. It is 100% true the part of "not being in abundance" but I wasn't aware that I made it glass clear. How could I miti…
/r/seduction21/05/19 03:56 AM
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Text a little more to set up plans but don't have deep conversation over text. Video chats work too to build attraction. Next time you hangout let her know what time of relationship you want and see if she wants the same.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:19 AM
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Burh you got oneitis for a girl you never met 😂😂 You made tons of mistakes which all stem from not being in abundance with women or at the very least not having an abundance mindset. First you should stop contacting her or responding to messages. Why didn't you set up plans to meet? If you're going to keep dating apps which I reccomend you delete because it seems you are using it as a crutch to avoid getting rejected in person. You're supposed to chat for a few days and then set up plans. And do…
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:15 AM
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The company is transitioning into a self development company rather than a pick up one. Its not a bad thing because getting your life in order in all aspects will help with game and getting a high quality girlfriend. In my experience I needed Maxe's "the natural" program. I had only kissed one girl when I bought it and didn't have a social circle of high quality friends. I had a few friends who were and still are losers just like I was. I ended up cutting them out because they became crabs in a …
/r/seduction20/05/19 02:31 AM
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I feel like she was giving mixed signals. She was fine with a massage but when I layed next to her she moved. And then when I asked her to come out and close the gate she didn't so another friend went out with me while I waited for my ride. I do t think any girl is going to kiss infront of her friends. We were all on the bedroom with bunk beds watching a movie. When I provided the opportunity to get closer like laying next to her she moved.
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:08 PM
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It's a euphemism for sex. Brutal but I do need my own place. I do have a pretty good motivation.
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:21 AM
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Her actions suggest she is a low self esteem girl. Not someone you want to date but maybe somebody to be fuckbuddies with. As far as your other concerns of being cold and inhibited, focus on general self development. I really like rsd Jullians videos and promos of transformation mastery. He does deep introspective work. Starting a meditation practice helps become more aware of what you do. If you start meditating daily and then take notice of how you act through the day, you will have a better i…
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:17 PM
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Her behavior suggests she is not high value. Getting mad because someone didn't text you for a day is really wired. Have you ever met or was it entirely over social media?
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:38 PM
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Homer Simpson says you should bottle up all your emotions and then release them at an appropriate time like when he threw a whiskey bottle at a referee.
/r/seduction10/04/19 01:53 AM
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DM me.
/r/seduction10/04/19 01:51 AM
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For me it was the buildup of getting rejected almost daily for a few months and going out to clubs and not connecting with anyone. All that dense energy needs to be released.
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:10 PM
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https://youtu.be/3xxqg4PHg3M
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:16 PM
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Introduce yourself as Jake if you really believe your name is holding you back. Your results will speak for themselves.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:40 AM
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That's awesome!
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:36 AM
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Yeah let me know how it works out!
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:25 AM
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Saying I owe you a date could be funny and work or you could just ask if she's free for coffee. If she is still into you it really won't matter which one you use. If she wants to see you she will find a way to see you.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:23 AM
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I haven't used that specific line but you could chat a little and then set something up.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:15 AM
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You don't.
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:28 AM
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If it's going well you can say you will reschedule with your friends or after 15 min just say you don't need to leave. You are missing the point of the false time constraint. It takes the pressure off her to accept the date because if it's really awkward she can leave in 15 min or sooner.
/r/seduction08/04/19 10:32 PM
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Seems like he isn't emotionally ready for a relationship but to each their own. If you are interested just ask if he's still up to grab dinner. ​ However, there is someone out there who may be better suited for you and doesn't have emotional issues so keep that in mind.
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:47 PM
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What advice did the female subreddit give? ​ I would say its the same method to pick up guys. Talk to them, physically escalate, and isolate.
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:28 PM
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In regards to the other approaches, you are being too plutonic. I don't think the girls see you as a potential sexual partner or someone to go on a date with. My recommendation would be to practice physically escalating and sexually complimenting. Also, get their contact information to set up a date via instagram or their phone number. ​ There are lots of things to learn about body language and game in general. Todd v dating, Maxrsd, and Tyler rsd all have great youtube channels. The book the ga…
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:20 PM
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No you don't. You'll just keep pushing it back until you feel ready which you never really will. Just go for it and know you will get blown out a lot. It necessary to start flirting and physically escalating. I started out talking to dudes at my gym because I couldn't approach a girl. It saves you so much time to start flirting.
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:12 PM
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Im not sure what you mean. Practice game by learning how to have a conversation but make sure it's not too plutonic and an interview style conversation. Spike her emotions and flirt with her. Compliment her sexually if it feels right. Physically escalate and calibrate based on her response (maxrsd has a great video on how to physically calibrate). Practice talking but remember you're trying to learn game so don't use wanting to learn conversation skills as an excuse to not go for the kiss. Pract…
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:02 PM
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No, an instant date is when you approach a girl get her logistics and if she has 5 min go on a coffee date. It's still a date but it happens spontaneous after you approach.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:51 PM
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Yeah your mindset on instant dates is wrong. Right now accept that you will mess a few up but that's how you learn to get better conversation skills. You fucking practice talking to people.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:29 PM
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During the first one you should have number closed. Also, practice getting her logistics so you can go on an instant date. Say that you don't have much time but we could get a coffee before I meet my friends in 15 min. This false time constraint takes the pressure off her because its only 15 min. ​ ​
/r/seduction08/04/19 02:08 PM
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If it's a gym setting I like to compliment girls on their posture or calf's.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:33 AM
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In my experience, girls are more likely to go on a date if it's some where public like a coffee shop or icecream. From there you can pull to your house by asking if she wants to watch a TV show. This gives her plausible deniability for her to not feel like a slut because she didn't come to your house to watch a movie and have sex. Instead she was on a coffee date and it spontaniously happened that you two went home together. This is better for her because she still gets to have sex with you but …
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:09 AM
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I went out yesterday and other girl did the same thing with taking selfies with my phone. I was going to post about that later. Plus I'm going to a event tonight with a fuck buddy so I'll make sure to post about that.
/r/seduction06/04/19 04:17 PM
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She didn't know you were joking because it is over text. For your bio put: Estoy visitando (the country you are in)! Height in meters, the country you are from, fluent in spanish and studying quantum mechanics. get rid of the stuff about drugs and vodka and squats and the descriptions of the pictures. Check out the tinder sub for more help. Your pics aren't good.
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:08 PM
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I've been on a few dates where girls bring their friends. My female friends say it's for security and because they don't feel comfortable meeting a stranger because if there is an awkward pause they want their friends to say something or keep the convo going. ​ Go on the date and be fun and engage the whole group while giving slightly more attention to your date at times and sometimes talking to her friends. Show you can be normal in a group setting and be fun. If you don't know how to do that y…
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:54 PM
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Try to avoid a fight but if you have to get in a fight. It will get broken up quickly. Learn a martial art so you can handle yourself. ​
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:46 PM
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Its literally her way of asking if they can go to his or her place and watch the fucking tv show.
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:43 PM
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You were way too needy right off the bat without even meeting. It's wired to ask a girl to be your girlfriend over tinder. ​ You seem sad because of the death in your family. That's ok to be sad but sit with those feelings and work through them. Don't seek outside validation to help with the pain. Jullin RSD has a happiness manifesto video on youtube which has a breathing technique to release trauma at the end. I would recommend you watch the video and do the breathing activity. https://www.yout…
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:40 PM
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In the future, you shouldn't say you don't want to be friends. Low abundance mindset. ​ Wait more time before you bring her back in your life. You need enough time for a personal transformation into an alpha. Wait at least a few months and work on inner game. The beauty of this method is that in a few months you will have met a girl whos hotter and has a personality that better fits you.
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:18 PM
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Watch luthifer with her.
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:44 AM
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Yeah pull to her dorm from a coffee date to watch a movie. I haven't had good quality matches with dating apps. But they can be a good suppliment. In my opinion it's way easier to approach daygame in colleges.
/r/seduction05/04/19 03:59 AM
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Move out.
/r/seduction05/04/19 12:42 AM
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Hangout on campus after class and talk to people. Go on a date and invite suggest you watch a movie and say her dorm is closer.
/r/seduction04/04/19 11:06 PM
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Most of them replied to low investment texts but didn't respond when I tried to set up a date. I wait a week or so send another few low investment texts and then invite them out again. If they don't respond after that I just delete them. I'll normally message them on tinder and then get their Instagram. Basically its so they can watch my Instagram story and see my phots which helps gain attraction.
/r/seduction04/04/19 11:03 PM
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You could try Instagram messaging her. Dating apps kinda suck. My example is I matched with 30 girls, 12-15 respond to my messages and I get them on Instagram. Then most stop responding or don't want to go on a date even though we matched on tinder. I've been on one date where we kissed a d still see each their occasionally bet haven't fucked. The two other girls looked nothing like their profile pictures.
/r/seduction04/04/19 10:58 PM
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Sit down take a few deep breaths into your diaphragm. Think about how one day you will be dead. Imagine being on your death bed regretting not being authentic because a bunch of other slightly more inteligente monkeys conditioned you that way. We're on some giant fucking space rock so just let go and have fun.
/r/seduction04/04/19 01:47 PM
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Seems like pretty typical approach anxiety. Go out with a friend. Give him 100 dollars and every time you approach you get 20. If you fail your friend gets to keep the money. Also you're thinking about a girlfriend way too early. Get comfortable with dating lots of girls and then pick one from that pool of abundance.
/r/seduction04/04/19 01:44 PM
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Their are many ways up the mountain
/r/seduction04/04/19 01:30 PM
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Yeah I should have used it as an opportunity to spike emotions. Thankyou.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:50 AM
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I almost threw up when I lost my virginity. Don't worry it gets better. You just have to power through and it gets better. It requires a lot of discomfort.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:46 AM
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Bruh how are you going to fuck fully clothed? Yes its weird as fuck. If you're too insecure work on inner game until you have a healthy image of yourself. It will also help getting girls if you actually get girls. My thought is you don't because someone who is successful with women wouldn't be asking if it's wears to not take their clothes off when having sex.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:44 AM
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Well did it work?
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:37 AM
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Go for the number close on the first interaction.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:36 AM
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You gave a lot of valid excuses. It's all about how much you want it. If you want to continue to follow the footsteps of your friends and end up like them that's fine. To each their own. If you don't want the life of your friends then change the way you act. Get better friends if they are holding you back. Move cities if you have to. Leaning in a rural city isn't going to work. Basically make a decision to commit or not. If you are ok with being just like your friends who have girlfriends or wiv…
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:29 AM
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Hey you made your bed so lay in it. You weren't enough of an alpha to study with her alone so you brought a friend. That communicated to the girl you aren't reproductive material because you need your security friend to talk to a girl. I know I sound harsh but it's true. Now the part where you can fix it. First learn how to use your power voice. Jason capital has videos on it and so does rsdmax. Stand with your feet shoulda with apart. Shoulder blades back. Breath into your diaphragm and when yo…
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:17 AM
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I'm all for killing yourself if you don't achieve a goal within your reach but in regards to dick size you can't change it without surgery so just accept it. Or get the surgery, wahtever works for you bro. It's better to get dick surgery than to die and if that doesn't work you can always kill yourself so there's that.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:01 AM
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I'm no expert but I thinks that's what they call gay.
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:52 AM
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U/bitxion, is that you?
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:24 AM
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Hey anything to last longer, right?
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:15 AM
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I agree with you that I should have said let's go back to my place. But with the taking off her shirt Tyler rsd says you should always get a yes at every stage. Since I'm mildly autistic I don't want just go for it and then have the girl say later on it wasn't 100% consensual. It's basically retard insurance.
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:14 AM
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It's basically to last longer. The first time I fucked I came way too fast so since then I trained myself to only come while on my back and flexing my quads. I can cum in another position if Its been a few days since I blew my load. But this tequnique allows me to last indefinitely especially with a condom since you can't feel anything with them.
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:12 AM
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Todd v talks about how you can have a good conversation but still make it man to woman. Like there is still an exchange of info but it's within the roles of I'm the man and am interested in pursuing you. It's something I still struggle with. I'm either super flirty and direct and with some girls it works great or I'll talk the boring beta exchange of info where it's like I'm talking to a dude.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:49 PM
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If that was one of the first things she said then you didn't have the right energy. You probably came on too strong so she tried to shut you down. If you were coming from the frame that you're just having fun talking to people she would get more attracted to you.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:25 PM
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https://youtu.be/7pBx4WhEeLk Do the hard stop or slow play instead.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:21 PM
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If you have the right Energy anything can work
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:14 PM
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Does it depend on the situation. I guess sometimes a sincere answer works and sometimes a joke answer. Because after I gave her the sincere answer she got turned on and wanted to fuck.
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:31 PM
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Definitely still learning. Read through my post history.
/r/seduction03/04/19 04:21 PM
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It's when you put what you learned into practice and start getting results. Which book did you read?
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:50 PM
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I've been watching Todd more lately. I like how the speaks deeply about a point in 20 min or less.
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:45 PM
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Todd is great too! Have you watched a lot of tylers self development stuff?
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:33 PM
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If you just called send a text today telling her who you are. I normally don't answer my phone if I don't know who's calling. The key is low investment. Hey this is X from the (where she knows you from)! Also use callback humor to something funny you said or she did. A week is a long time to wait and you also called. She probably forgot who you are. Once you get the number text later that day or she will forget who you are. The key is to maintain momentum. Is you had a great interaction and then…
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:42 PM
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Heavy but trur
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:40 PM
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Send a text
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:17 PM
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Yeah I've tried to surround myself with people way better than me. It hurts at times but it's necessary to get better.
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:54 PM
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Tyler and Jullian have tons of YouTube videos on self development and feeling worthy.
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:46 PM
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That's really creepy even if you get the girls permission. Literally what the fuck dude?
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:13 PM
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Is it worth hitting her up is the stupidest question. I didn't read the rest because the answer is yes. Hit her up.
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:06 PM
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It's when women and men shame beta males when they do something that appears alpha. Example: Beta male; you're really hot, you could be a stripper! Woman; ew you shouldn't speak that way to a lady! (She scolds him like a child -this is a shit test to see how the man responds) Beta; oh I'm sorry (after being shoved back in his beta male cage where he can't freely express himself.) What op has to do is be an alpha when these women make these comments. He can act like an alpha easily but it's best …
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:04 PM
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Said it better than I did. Op listen to this man. Ignore all the beta advice you're getting.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:57 PM
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I was under the impression it's the woman's job to define the relationship and it's the man's job to go out and pursue women to fuck. Keep doing what you're supposed to do and let the girls try to define the relationship. You can also talk to her about what she wants it she hasn't done that yet. Who knows she may be fucking other dudes. But if this not official it's not cheating in my opinion.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:55 PM
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How do the girls know you're small when you approach them? Exactly how big is your dick because you may be over exagurating how small you are. Upvote this if you want op to post a pic of his dick. Worst case scenario, it's 2019 so go to Japan and get the dick enlargement procedure if you really feel it's holding you back so much. Once you get a new dick you'll learn that it was all in your head.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:46 PM
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It's definitely a shit test to see if he waits for her like a good puppy dog. If you are on your purpose and dating tons of other girls youll find someone better or forget about the original girl.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:34 PM
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It will be easier to game other girls than to change how this girl sees you.
/r/seduction02/04/19 10:58 AM
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Sometimes the pick up gods bestow gifts for stepping out of your comfort zone!
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:33 AM
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I definitely use IG to market myself. Tyler rsd talks a lot about it and it's been successful. I just have to remember to take my phone out to find something or take a pic. I also have had success talking about different types of trees when I'm hiking and then girls who are into that respond well of I ask them out. As far as dates I use to ask girls if they wanted to come with me when I was already going to do something but found more success when I asked them if they wanted to get coffee. What …
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:44 PM
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Of this happens a lot you probably suck at driving.
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:42 PM
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No we were sitting and talking when she said I can tell by your body language you want to kiss me
/r/seduction01/04/19 12:52 PM
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Like you don't know how to take a good portrait style pic that shows how you look.
/r/seduction29/03/19 11:49 PM
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What was the face she made?
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:37 PM
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You could go out with her and cold approach others with her. Women's bitch shields would be lowered because they would assume you're together. Also just find another time set date. Abundance mindset bro.
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:15 PM
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You could go to a bar with her but tell her to bring a hot single friend. Make her your wing.
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:46 PM
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Game other girls until you feel a connection
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:08 PM
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Don't do it bro. Go to a bar and choose anyone else that's not your fucking probation officer.
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:48 AM
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I just read the title but dude nooooooooo it's not fucking worth it. Is she a coworker or your probation worker you get from getting out of jail.
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:24 AM
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The key is to get rejected so much it can't hurt you anymore.
/r/seduction28/03/19 09:02 PM
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I've read else where girls with shit test you by talking about what an asshole a guy is or say a guy is really hot. So it could be a shit test or she thinks of me as a friend. Asking her out and physically escalating will get the answer so I'll do that this weekend.
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:00 PM
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So it was a shit test. Did I pass by giving honest advice or should I have asked if he was hot and then said you should fuck him.
/r/seduction28/03/19 05:23 PM
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She's like a 7.5 overall and I've noticed we have a lot in common so I'm still deciding if I'll pursue her fully. Ill probably ask her out to see where it goes.
/r/seduction28/03/19 04:01 PM
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I've never used one but I think the benifitb of the ones who know what they are doing are they can help you with your specific situation. You'll probably figure it out faster with a mentor. You're basically paying for accountability.
/r/seduction28/03/19 03:11 PM
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I'm not looking for a wife but I am down for a girlfriend that I'm not exclusive with.
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:29 PM
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I thought it was a lighthearted way to laugh it off
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:28 PM
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Never got to the point of jumping off a balcony but I've had some nights where the negative energy is overwhelming. Borderline in tears. I know if I stick with it I will I prove
/r/seduction27/03/19 03:56 PM
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I said "are you just using me for my body!?!"
/r/seduction27/03/19 03:08 PM
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No nothing you did was fine and your plan for the next two message is so bad. Let me emphezise it again, nooooooooo. Stop sending buthurt texts. She's not into you so move on. When she booked you you should have not send any more butthurt messages. I want to help but besides telling you not to do what you are doing I don't know what to offer. General self development will probably be good for you.
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:01 AM
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I'm listening to the mystery method on YouTube and I like it so far.
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:11 PM
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My response was "are you just using me for my body" but yours is better. But should I ask the girl I'm into from school for her opinion.
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:45 PM
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Yeah it takes a while. I'd reccomend Todd v dating and rsd tyler on YouTube. They show infield footage and break down interactions to show the physical subcommunicatuons girls show when they are interested and disinterested. Also checkout the wiki for books my reccomendationnis the game because it gives a good outline for game and is enough info for you to get started and then when you run into specific problems you can ask on this subreddit after searching YouTube. Good luck man!
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:53 PM
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Hey, I value my time.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:28 PM
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A “disease” (hence the ‘itis) where a man is stuck on one girl and feels that she is “the one,” usually to the detriment of having any romantic relationship with her. The cure is to date other women until you find a better fit.
/r/seduction26/03/19 12:33 PM
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Focus on chatting with them first and figure out where in the interaction they lose interest. It's unlikely they were truthfully about having boyfriend's so figure out at what point the interaction went to shit. If the open went well was it because you have food game or came across as harmless/just a friend. Did it go bad when you tried to physically escalate or sexually compliment her.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:38 AM
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Tinder and social circle game can work.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:34 AM
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Not entirely sure what happened with the text messages you were talking about but it sounds like you have oneitis.
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:06 AM
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My thought is why should I take time out of my day to help her when I don't get anything in return. When I hit on her she does this beta male shaming attempt so it would come across as more beta to help. Why would taking rejection like a man include helping her with her fucking homework whenever she asks?
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:00 AM
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It would be way more awkward to wait til the last day of class. Read the wiki on approach anxiety. Approach 19 other girls before class to build momentum. Then be social in class and talk to everyone and be the fun person. Then include her in the conversation. Talk to her after class and try to set up an instadate after you chat for a little.
/r/seduction25/03/19 02:24 AM
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Super pretty and we have great chemistry! I'm still chatting with other tinder girls and putting them in my Instagram funnel so I have options if she flakes again. Hopefully in a few months I'll be making a post about how I built a Hiram from tinder and cold approach.
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:42 AM
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Not yet because my dumb ass didn't pull the same night. Looking back she definitely gave signs she wanted to fuck. I was away this weekend visiting my parents but I told her about this hookah bar and said we should go when I get back. I think she cancelled the movie plans we had because she was on her period. The night we madeout she was saying how sensitive she gets when her period is close. That's why she needed to take breathers in-between making out and nipple play. I found out that girls li…
/r/seduction25/03/19 01:26 AM
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You could be ugly or really hot which would explain why guys would not approach you in real life. But they could not approach you because your ugly. Their are rate me and am I hot subreddit a that you could post. You could also try engaging with your followers for instance on your story post a question or use the poll sticker or the pre made one "ask me a question".
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:27 PM
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Go on dates that don't require alcohol. And start building a social circle so you can game it.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:43 AM
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Why are you waiting until you are 18? You should get tinder but also keep doing cold approach, social circle game, and daygame.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:39 AM
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I responded "ok". The party actually fell through as well so I'm looking for someone to go to a hookah bar with.
/r/seduction21/03/19 09:55 PM
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She texted me back and said we should reschedule for next week.
/r/seduction21/03/19 09:21 PM
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I got her insta from tinder so she could be apart of my insta funnel and see my stories and posts.
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:43 PM
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In case she flakes I have plans to go to a party with friends. I'm planning on blowing them off to watch a movie and fuck the tinder girl. If she does flakes there's a possibility I will makout with a girl from my friend group and if not I'll still have a fun party on my insta story.
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:24 PM
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Why was the fun part bad?
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:06 PM
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We made out and we were pretty physical she was rubbing my dick and I played with her nipples under her hoodie. I don't think it's like starting new.
/r/seduction21/03/19 04:34 PM
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I should have gone for the pull that night.
/r/seduction21/03/19 04:33 PM
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Ok I texted her that I had fun yesterday and asked what type of movies she likes.
/r/seduction21/03/19 04:32 PM
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That does make sense but she said she had class at 6 the next day.
/r/seduction21/03/19 01:05 PM
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Do you feel like a big boy now that called someone a naughty word and then blocked them like a little bitch?
/r/seduction20/03/19 03:42 PM
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He wants to call her a whore for not answering a text. Can he really do better?
/r/seduction20/03/19 03:40 PM
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You went on an instadate and she lost interest over the date. Can't imagine why especially since you think it's good to call her a whore for not answering your texts fast enough. You sound like you should focus on the self development side of pickup. Best of luck.
/r/seduction20/03/19 03:39 PM
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r/sex or r/relationships would be better for this question
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:52 AM
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Dude you're asking us to fix problems that take months to master. It's like never showing up to class or doing the readings and then asking someone what you need to pass the final. My best advice is to read the book the game. You can also listen to the audiobook on YouTube in 3 hours. Incorporate as much as you can.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:58 PM
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The one I posted was with my arm around one girl. I guess it would come across as showcasing if I did that a lot but I'll start taking photos with girls in the background.
/r/seduction19/03/19 03:43 PM
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If she wanted to go out with you she would cancel her plans or say I can't tonight but let's go on x.
/r/seduction18/03/19 04:12 AM
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I appreciate the honesty.
/r/seduction15/03/19 05:42 AM
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Yes I'm serious. I thought she would take it as a joke.
/r/seduction14/03/19 09:36 PM
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I can see why you wouldn't waste your time if they want to go with friends. Why would you picking them up in your car be a requirement. Seems like it would be counter productive. Why are you looking for girls who make bad decisions?
/r/seduction14/03/19 08:27 PM
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One time I tried to open a girl by poking a girls forehead. It didn't work but o got her Instagram but she didn't want to go out
/r/seduction14/03/19 06:10 PM
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But she still responded well and reciprocated the physicality.
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:47 PM
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I showed up to meet her at 8. We talked a little first and then sat down with her friends. I chatted with them about weekend plans. It was actually her friends birthday and he was with his girlfriend so I tried to copy that level of physicality. She responded well and would put her hand on my leg so I did the same. I didn't find her super attractive so didn't feel naturally whitty and flirty like I am with hotter girls so I didn't hit on her verbally. At 930 I noticed her friend had his arm arou…
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:44 PM
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I listen to Kanye West's song "I am a god" for this mindset at least once daily
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:40 AM
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It doesn't matter. Just walk up and open if you're interested in her.
/r/seduction13/03/19 10:14 PM
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Psychedelics are therapy drugs.
/r/seduction12/03/19 05:23 AM
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It's probably your personality. Not getting girls is a symptom of the bigger problem but not the problem itself. I still think you should ask her to do something with you. She may reject you but it doesn't matter. It will be a good reference experience.
/r/seduction08/03/19 12:56 AM
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Care to elaborate
/r/seduction08/03/19 12:50 AM
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I've tripped on acid and shrooms. My biggest trip was 500micrograms. I just haven't done it in a club or social setting yet. I recently smoked at a party and then had a panic attack which I controlled with meditation. I think a small trip to slightly alter my perception in the club.
/r/seduction08/03/19 12:44 AM
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I've never tripped in a club but I will soon. Hopefully it will help me understand the club scheen.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:16 PM
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Props to dropping acid and having a breakthrough.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:09 PM
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You may be outcome dependent or leeching positive energy from people which would repulse people.
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:48 PM
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Your way shows that she has you by the balls. But try it out and make a post on how that turns out for you.
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:45 PM
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Ignore it. Ot say "we'll that sucks, let me know when you're free".
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:02 PM
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What is a one off?
/r/seduction07/03/19 01:40 PM
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Yeah texting daily and responding with large paragraphs to help her with her problems is how you put yourself in the friendzone. Take 3 deep breaths. Inhale into the diaphragm, hold then release. Say outloud that you are not her therapist and cannot help her solve her problems. By being her emotional tampon you are communicating you do t have anything going for you in your life which is naturally unattractive and that she has the power in the relationship. She loved the paragraph you wrote becau…
/r/seduction07/03/19 01:30 PM
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It doesn't seem like you are in an abundance mindset. Can you give an example of what you mean when you mentioned your efforts.
/r/seduction07/03/19 01:07 PM
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I've definitely noticed that. One time I invited two girls to eat lunch with me, I thought it would be wired but they competed for my attention and if I only talked to one the other would wait paciently.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:51 PM
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Why do you feel like that's your experience?
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:48 PM
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Exactly! You show intent that there could be a man to woman relationship but you could take it or leave it. We could go to the beach and have fun, and I would enjoy your company but if I go alone I'll be just as happy.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:42 PM
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Where did you get that from? You still gotta approach and invite girls to hangout but it's coming from a place of abundance so it's not needy and not chasing.
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:32 PM
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Then call or FaceTime.
/r/seduction07/03/19 05:09 AM
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Then the question is if you are truly free from outcome.
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:57 AM
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Is this your first time learning game? If so welcome! Ask her on a date. Don't have lengthy conversations over text.
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:55 AM
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I incorporate it into the conversation. We will be talking about hobbies and I'll say I love to hike, pull out my Instagram show her the picture I have and then say we should exchange instagrams. If she has been submissive and receptive to physicallity I'll hand her my phone and tell her to add herself. You can also grab her phone and add yourself if she is receptive to that stuff - definitely gage where she is because it can be really awkward if you grab her phone at the wrong moment. I usually…
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:48 AM
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Go up to her and complimented her in French. Instant conversation starter that can be moved to travel, food, accents ect.
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:37 AM
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Dude everyone's speaks English in Germany.
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:34 AM
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Use instigram stories to show you do cool shit regularly. Once in a while send a non needy invite to something you are already going to do. If she likes you she will respond or if she can't go one day she will sudgest an alternative. You can also send funny pictures or questions to girls to ping how much they like you.
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:31 AM
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Wait for the next update
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:14 PM
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yeah if you're a bitch.
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:23 AM
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Inner game
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:26 PM
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Next time I'll say "hagale pues" which means 'Go ahead". Yeah their will always be the guy who can kick your ass but even if you lose the fight (which will be broken up quickly) the guy won't fuck with you again just because their are easier targets. The people who do this are overcompensating for their own insecurities.
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:28 AM
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Thats easy because I have jerked off to myself in the mirror.
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:21 AM
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There are plenty of other girls without herpies.
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:37 PM
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Yeah I wrote that while taking a shit. Thanks for your advice!
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:35 PM
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What sorta closes do you guys wear. I'm still making my game clothes but I often wear a pair of red suade shoes when I go to clubs.
/r/seduction01/03/19 10:49 PM
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Lol I love a good shit post from time to time
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:41 PM
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I feel like she lied to me the whole night and our interactions before that. Even over text I told her she was the best girlfrieb ever (bc she said she had weed). She said we're not dating but said nothing about her boyfriend.
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:03 AM
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Betas think alphas are dicks. Going after what you want and having boundaries doesn't make you a dick.
/r/seduction01/03/19 12:24 AM
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While arching my back a s thrusting my hips forward dinner is served
/r/seduction28/02/19 10:34 PM
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Trying to control her from having sex with other girls when you would go out and fuck tons of girls (if you could) is beta. Since you don't have that as an option you revert to calling her a slur so you don't have to fix your current situation. It's cognitive dissonance at its finest. If you read this and think I'm a dick you won't have results until you have an epifiny that helpes you change your mind. Try psychedelics. If you're open to this viewpoint you're on the right path to getting result…
/r/seduction28/02/19 10:23 PM
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It seems like she has low self-esteem as well. If I were you I would meet her just to have closure and then forget about it. Do that immediately and them work on yourself. Game is mostly fixing yourself to be someone women are attracted to. And only a small portion knowing what to say.
/r/seduction28/02/19 10:03 PM
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If you stuck your dick in it it counts haha. You fucked up. Accept it and don't lower your standards like that ever again. Maybe get tested for sti's. Take some time to reflect journal your goals and what you're feeling right now.
/r/seduction28/02/19 05:14 PM
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If you stuck your dick in it it counts haha. You fucked up. Accept it and don't lower your standards like that ever again. Maybe get tested for sti's. Take some time to reflect journal your goals and what you're feeling right now.
/r/seduction28/02/19 05:13 PM
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I made the same mistake of imagining the perfect life with some girl who wasn't really into me. You are so attached because you are in love with your fantasy of this girl. I believe game should affect all aspects of your life. You should be motivated to get out on your own. I don't know your current situation but if you're a student there's not a whole lot you can do. But everyone can workout eat better and find something to do that relaxes them like meditating or hiking or anything g that gets …
/r/seduction28/02/19 05:05 PM
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You're whole minded about this situation is coming from a mindset of scarsity. I'd suggest that you stop talking as much as you do bust still keep somewhat in contact. If you are going to be around her location make plans to go on a date. To get out of scarsity start going to bars clubs and approaching during the day. Building a social circle is very important. Not only girls but cool guys you can hang and game with. Have hobbies that you would gumenuinly enjoy to do with a other friend or alone…
/r/seduction28/02/19 02:11 PM
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Why do you prefer that to day game?
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:28 PM
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Rewires itself. Spellchecker. Basically your brain is programmed to stay in its comfort zone to avoid pain if that's how it was shaped by an abnormal childhood. So what you have to do to break through is make your comfort zone so painful that you have to adapt. So approach and get rejected so much it stops bei g painful and you snap out of the pain avodance mindset.
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:52 AM
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That was my theory. How do I build that emotion connection in my social circle and especially in shorter day game interactions.
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:28 AM
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Am man. Is that a force thing because I never saw the movies.
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:26 AM
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Before I went out last weekend I told myself nobody can fail as much as you do without improving eventually. I got my first kiss close that night. Make staying in your comfort zone so painful your brain requires itself.
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:09 AM
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I'll have to try that. I asked this one girl to go out and she never responded. To be honest I was butthurt because she gave good IOIs. My friend told me she was probably low self-esteem and doing it for the validation so I stopped contacting her and stopped hanging out. Theb when we bumped into eacher at uni she seemed more interested. I will ask her out again and see what happens. Any tips on building investment when we hangout or talk in school or a social setting?
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:27 AM
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I really fucked up with one chick by sudgesting other date ideas (multiple days a week - I know right) when she already sudgested an alternative for next weekend. Won't saying "let me know when you're free" be like a balls in your court approach? Does that work?
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:12 AM
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Get in the habit of number closing/instrigram closing. Also escalate if she gives positive signs like hugging you.
/r/seduction26/02/19 07:49 PM
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Was tod a part of rsd ? What happened
/r/seduction24/02/19 11:06 PM
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Well, shit just got real. I guess it's going to help me fully commit to game.
/r/seduction24/02/19 11:04 PM
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I watched a Todd V dating vid the other day! I think Tyler and Max especially are better but the whole RSD crew is amazing. In my opinion the best in the world because they also put out general self development and trauma healing which is the root of many problems with success with women.
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:25 AM
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I did MMA for a little. He was a bit shorter than me and definately weaker. Looked like he didn't lift at all. But his confidence was rocksolid. He just held eye contact after threatening me.
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:21 AM
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I didn't know it had a name haha I was warned about people killing other guys for messing around with their girlfriend or wife and its in the news from time to time.
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:58 AM
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I feel like it would be bad to make fun of someone as a joke but I have made a joke before and then nudge the girl or put my hand on her arm.
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:56 AM
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I should have give a goodbye hug. Good tip on their fingernails and makeup and hair.
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:55 AM
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Thank you! I watch a lot of tyler RSD videos and he said the results you get once in a while will become your average in a few months of gaming. So now my average is number/social media closing and approaching. So soon I will be able to physically escalate and set up instant dates which is what I should have done.
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:50 AM
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What helped me is counting down from three and on one you do the thing you need to do. So in your head say three, two, one and on one just do it without thinking. I just made it so painful for myself that its less painful to approach and be rejected than to not approach at all. Your brain will try to keep you in your comfort zone but if you just make it unbearable it will adapt.
/r/seduction23/02/19 11:24 PM
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I needed that. Thank you!
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:03 PM
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To each their own. Their are books in the wiki. Rsd Max is good too.
/r/seduction21/02/19 11:30 PM
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I think it’s important to plow through a bad set. It would teach more than just ejecting. It’s not a friend zone situation where cutting her out of my life would help. I’m still currently gaming multiple other girls. I was thinking to send low investment messages and the calling or video chatting for a little to have a gradual transition to going on a date.
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:55 PM
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I love Tyler. I don’t think there’s a need to throw out the set.
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:47 PM
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Watch all the Tyler rsd YouTube videos
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:59 PM
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After reading your replies I definitely could have handled it better. Thankyou!
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:50 PM
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Nah this is a self improvement sub. If you fix the underlying problems of self hate and self sabotage, your results with women will improve exponentially. And you will be on your path to living a fulfilling life where girls are a bonus but you also kill it professionally, spiritually, physically and emotionally.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:44 PM
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I'm currently developing a guide to heal past traumas like this. I will post a rough draft that will hopefully help some people.
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:18 AM
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Great video by the way!
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:57 AM
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I tried to say it in a funny manner with a smirk on my face and then joked about age of consent. I said there's no age of consent in Colombia (the country we were in) so she wouldn't have raped me. I was selfamused through the interaction but since she never gave any positive physicality signs I decided to go talk to other people. The interaction was only 10 min so I didn't lose too much time.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:56 AM
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When I physically escalated she just let it happen and never reciprocated or gave a hard positive response. I hugged her and she didn't hug me back but she didn't pull away.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:52 AM
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I should have been more clear. She said she would help me pick out a girl for me to go talk to. She seemed adamant about staying with her friends. I think she was amused by me.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:50 AM
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That was hilarious to read!
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:42 AM
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Telling her probably won’t work. She would answer logically when attraction comes from emotions she feels. Game her by physical escalation and hitting on her. If she responds we’ll keep escalating. If she doesn’t try spiking her emotions and trying again. Be ready to let the friendship go if it doesn’t workout. You deserved the relationship you want and if someone isn’t interested in the same thing, have the selflove to walk away.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:41 AM
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Bringing it up makes you seem like a needy chode. Text to spike emotions and then make plans. Don’t have a conversation over text; that’s how you put yourself in the friend zone. Props for approaching and getting a number!
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:32 AM
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The solution is to switch arms...
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:28 AM
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Probally kicking the shit out of him would work.
/r/seduction09/01/19 01:02 PM
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I have had great success following Tylerrsd as well as everyone from rsd. The newbie guide is a good place to start and is avalible on their website.
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:45 PM
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What is bad about that one?
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:03 PM
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I’d say slow down on your internet usage or find some where with WiFi.
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:11 PM
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How do I fix it? Or is it not worth it?
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:51 AM
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Maybe the girls can sense you are needy and that turns their attraction off.
/r/seduction12/02/18 03:49 AM
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"This dick" make sure to point to your dick while saying it
/r/seduction12/02/18 03:47 AM
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Meditate on the experience. Mediation is basically the practice of acceptance and letting go. So sit down in a comfortable spot and meditate on your interaction when you got rejected. Accept that what happened happened and there is nothing you can do about it now. Take the time to really process the event. Once you do this and you have learned all that you can learn from your experience, stop thinking about. If you catch yourself thinking about it, take note of the reason why but don't dwell on …
/r/seduction12/02/18 03:45 AM
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A good haircut and facial hair can help you look older. For instance I have a baby face so having beard stubble 3-4mm helps me look older. Same with a good haircut that works for my face shape.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:35 PM
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If you start grooming better you will be more confident. Get a haircut, shave, wear some nice clothes and start working out.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:29 PM
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