Two days ago I instagram closed a girl while waiting for my buss. I had to hold up the bus because she was typing her username into my phone which is great because it demonstrated high value. We text later that night about books because she watched my instagram story of me on the beach reading a book with a beer. At a high point I said we should talk at the university the next day because I have a big gap between classes.

We meet up the next day at the cafeteria and one of her friends is there which I've noticed is common. I think girls do it because they feel more comfortable. I joke around with her and her friend and her friend eventually leaves. I think the girl I was on a date with told her to stay once which was a sign of dis interest. So when the friend eventually left I thought it was a good sign. I suggest we sit under a tree so we walk around to find somewhere to sit.

This is where I think it starts to go bad. I choose a bench where their weren't a lot of people so we could talk in private more. She started to give closed off body language. I think I should have relocated after but we stayed on the bench and continued talking. How do you move from small talk topics to more deep conversation?

When it was about the time for my class she suggested we walk over 15 min early so she wouldn't make me late. On the way I mentioned we could go to the beach together one day after class because we both end classes around the same time some days. She said we could and then we said goodbye. When you notice she is giving indicators of disinterest what do you do?

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Now the lay report:

After the class the other girl walked with me to, I met up with a girl who I had hung out with three times prior. We hadn't kissed yet because the first night she said she could tell by my body language that I wanted to kiss her and that she was too tired but she would want to another day. I said that's fine and we continued talking a little that night but I left shortly after because it was late.

We meet and then go hang out with a group of her friends at a park. Not what I was expecting but I get to meet new people and practice my spanish so no worries. When we are driving back I ask if she likes BigMouth on netflix and she says yes so I ask if she want to watch an episode. She said she was tired earlier in the night so I expected a rejection but she asked what time it was and said she could stay for an hour. We go back to my room and turn the tv on and lay next to each other. I put my arm around her and then whe physically escalate until we start kissing. I ask if we can take her shirt off and she says she's on her period and then reminds me when she showed me a meme about someone on her period earlier in the night. I say we don't need to have sex so she says she will but first I need to take my shirt off. We continue kissing and she starts jerking me off. After not lasting long the first time I had sex I trained to only be able to cum while I'm on my back and flexing my quads. She starts jerking me off harder so I cum and then she goes to the bathroom to wash her hands.

She comes back and we start kissing again and asks how many girls I've been with and what I felt with them. So we talk about that. She says she feels weird because of the age difference. I'm 19 and shes only 21 so I don't see it a a big deal. She says it may just be because she's on her period and feels weird. I said its fine and we can have sex another day.

Then she starts touching my chest and says now she's feeling in the mood and asks If I have condoms. I put one on and we start fucking. I didn't cum this time because you can't feel anything with condoms and I already came when she jacked me off. She apologized for it and I told her not to feel bad because I already came.

She goes in the bathroom to clean herself off because their is period blood on her. When she is done I walk her out to her car and she says see you tomorrow or later.

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Huge thank you to everyone on the sub who has given great advice!