Struggleing with life game balance

erect_sean · 2019-04-01T02:09:41+00:00

Well it depends on what your goals are and how your dating life is right now. For me, when I started I went out hard mostly because I had a non existent dating life and I wanted to get that fixed. As I started seeing improvements I slowed down and focused on other areas of my life. I guess my advice is don't take anything to the extremes, make game part of your life but don't let it be the center of your life.

Also remember some people may hate on you because you're being proactive. It happened to me when I started being more serious about my nutrition. I don't know if this applies to your friend but it's something to keep in mind.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-04-01T05:34:56+00:00

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I was talking with a friend of mine and he bluntly pointed out that it appears that I spent too much time thinking about girls and trying to game them. He's right, I am almost always doing something that I think will help with game.

It's way more sustainable if you manage to create a social life for yourself that places you in front of more new girls, on a regular basis, while also providing a good core group of regular, real friends.

This is a better way to game in a holistic way. Joining groups or clubs that attract new people on a regular basis, etc. Then it's more than game. It's hobbies, and friends, etc., with new girls on the side.

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From posting to my Instagram story or setting up dates. I need balance.

I mean, if you're trying to use your IG and other social media accounts to basically market yourself to girls, then I'd advise cutting that out. It's a rat race that one can never win because someone else always has a more winning account and the whole thing is largely fake and lacking in substance anyway.

Setting up dates is all good and well, but your social life should be pretty full even if all your dates fell through for the next week or two.

If you would have little to do without dates for the next week or two, then you might consider some adjustments.

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How do you guys manage your life goals with game and a social life? Do you set a specific hour to message girls and then a specific time period to do day game and then night game? How do you manage your time?

I multitask. You join several different social circles revolving around regular social events and activities. (I can give some examples if you like.)

Then you're having your social life, and gaming at the same time.

Going to clubs and bars, is not the same thing as what I'm talking about, btw.

Title	Struggleing with life game balance
Author	runningwiththebulls
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	April 1, 2019 12:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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