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[–]Kenic_In_MD 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To stop being needy you need to have an abundance mindset, have hobbies, and stop giving so much of a fuck. You're giving this one girl so much power over you.
[–]DamagingDoritos 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When a girl is into you, she’ll make time to hang out with you. She will initiate contact with you. If you ask her out and she’s busy, she’ll let you know a time she’s free and reschedule.
The goal isn’t to “game” and wear a girl down until she finally caves in and dates you. Who wants that? The goal is to constantly keep meeting new people (should be easy at college), stay unattached, and look for someone you have mutual attraction with who puts in as much effort as you do. When you encounter it, it’s obvious.
Someone who wants to see you will be excited to hang out with you when you ask. If she isn’t, cease contact and move to the next one. If she’s actually interested, she’ll get back in touch.
[–]runningwiththebulls1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I needed that. Thank you!
[–]DarkArtsPUA11 7 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
forget about this entire situation. once you've completely cleared this from your mind go on youtube and start watching rsd tyler videos. report back aftward
[–]runningwiththebulls 7 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
I love Tyler. I don’t think there’s a need to throw out the set.
[–]DarkArtsPUA11 7 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
if you've been watching rsd videos and have been cultivating their mindsets and teachings then you would know what to do here
the answer is simple: this one particular set means nothing. you need to think bigger. i don't think you've watched enough videos
[–]runningwiththebulls 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it’s important to plow through a bad set. It would teach more than just ejecting. It’s not a friend zone situation where cutting her out of my life would help. I’m still currently gaming multiple other girls. I was thinking to send low investment messages and the calling or video chatting for a little to have a gradual transition to going on a date.
[–]DarkArtsPUA112 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I was thinking to send low investment messages and the calling or video chatting for a little to have a gradual transition to going on a date.
... dude just don't do this. listen to yourself. why are you still so desperately hanging onto this one girl? the more you so desperately hang to this, the worse it will get. look, it's not going to work out. that's the best mindset to adapt. because now you're free to think about shit that ACTUALLY matters. don't cut her off or eject or anything. just dedicate your efforts to girls that are down. focus on running volume and changing your offer proposition. again you are thinking TOO SMALL. the more you insist on picking and picking on this god damn one girl, the more you are fucking yourself over
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