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I am 21 and I don`t know exactly whats the next step for me in my life to get where i want to be.

I could study but i believe that studying will not get me where I want to be. Where do i want to be exactly? Well I want to work for myself and I am really interested in social dynamics/dating so the best thing I can think of is becoming some sort of coach, confidence or datingcoach or something like that. BUT: I feel like I am lacking the required skills ( I could for sure get these skills but it takes time, if I would guess maybe 2-3 years).

I feel like I am stuck with my situation I don´t want to get in a 9-5 hamster wheel, I want to be free and help people.

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I seriously don´t know what to do and need some external advice.