Just found this, worth watching if you struggle with self esteem/self love✌️

game_ovr · 2019-03-13T14:45:42+00:00

I watched a video from Charisma On Command on "Why Don't Feel Good Enough". In it he gives a piece of advice to say "I love you and respect you just the way you are" in the mirror until you feel like you mean it. And holy shit did that do wonders. I have since wrote that phrase down and similar phrases at my desk and in mirrors to remind myself to keep loving myself.

Toxic_and_Masculine · 2019-03-13T17:52:45+00:00

That was heart wrenching.... Tears streamed from the well of my heart as I watched this. I've felt the exact same way of the protagonist of the film for most of my life. Treading neck deep in an ocean of self hate and sabotage.... I've felt like a waste of skin, an unworthy nobody, a cruel mistake , a loser.....and no amount of false charm, confidence or physical fitness could ever repair that defect... Worse yet, I have fulfilled all of those labels and prophecies 100% of the time further entrenching these thoughts and feelings into my psyche. So much so that I am actually used to that background noise as my operating system. Thank you so much for posting this powerful POWERFUL message, I had no clue I needed to see that, but I'm so glad I did 🙏🏽

Stonecoldfreak1 · 2019-03-13T15:42:04+00:00

Thought I was logged into the wrong account. Thumbnail and subtitles make it look like she’s getting him off.

game_ovr · 2019-03-13T14:04:12+00:00

It's a nice scene. The manic pixie dream Girl who tries to inspire you and fill you with self confidence is a fantasy though.

Digital_Native_ · 2019-03-13T19:18:46+00:00

Wasn't planning on crying today, but thanks.

SyrusDrake · 2019-03-14T01:28:07+00:00

"Now, you need to fill the empty shell."

This is something that has come up in my last therapy session. I think I've come to a point where I don't habitually mentally beat myself up anymore all the time. It took over two years. But now I think I need to go from "not being mean to myself" to "being kind to myself", which I feel is going to be even harder...

Acidblack24 · 2019-03-13T17:40:33+00:00

This is actually one of my top 5 favorite movies. Angel-a worth a watch. I think it's amazing.

shain98 · 2019-03-13T17:57:21+00:00

this is so beautiful

Gregory-76 · 2019-03-14T02:02:55+00:00

Deadass - thanks for posting. bought it on iTunes and watching as soon as I finish cooking.

Skexer · 2019-03-13T21:47:19+00:00

That was brilliant, thanks for sharing.

FancyNarc · 2019-03-13T22:25:55+00:00

Wow, I’ve heard really good things about this movie. Gonna have to watch it now. Thanks OP

Visualize_ · 2019-03-14T05:06:02+00:00

I probably would have cried or something if I watched this about a year ago. I was pretty broken before. My self image was shit and I constantly felt lost. I've came a long way in just a year and I know I have a lot more room to grow but this still resonates with me because there's a certain aspect about myself I know I want to change but something isn't clicking and I'm getting frustrated with my lack of progress in that area. I think it's super important to accept for who you are in the current moment and be happy with every step toward being the person you want to be. I felt like I should be at a certain point with where I wanted to be, but I was being over critical in the fear that perhaps I was being complacent and not pushing hard enough and not taking enough risks. Realistically I could have taken more risks but I realized how counterproductive it is to beat myself up which haults progress. Everyone has their own path and maybe my progress is slower than others but that's okay as long as I am living everyday slowly improving myself and trying to be the best person I can be. There's ups and downs but even becoming 1% better at something will add up over time

mystic0608 · 2019-03-13T16:02:15+00:00

Watched this on mute. Was still amazing to watch.

smokeytheghost · 2019-03-13T16:24:10+00:00

Thank you. This really helped me.

zaratustra27 · 2019-03-13T16:31:50+00:00

It's from a movie by Luc Bessom Angel-A https://g.co/kgs/rXyzKw

VintijVibez · 2019-03-13T22:55:38+00:00

I had this meditation track playing in the background and it made it that much more epic...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTB0wYZTXxw

IloveOWgames · 2019-03-13T23:25:43+00:00

instructions unclear lol

frenchiveruti · 2019-03-14T02:51:47+00:00

Thanks for this video.

Trowawaycausebanned4 · 2019-03-14T03:37:33+00:00

What is this from?

Gregory-76 · 2019-03-15T23:30:34+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/AexTMnc.jpg

Ranatronix · 2019-03-14T05:05:44+00:00

I'm argentinian and i saw this scene in a spanish PUA forum for first time. The movie is excelent.

Title	Just found this, worth watching if you struggle with self esteem/self love✌️
Author	Rhayx
Upvotes	500
Comments	44
Date	March 13, 2019 10:51 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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