I’ve recently been going out a lot and I met some really cool people. They’re such great people and I have fun every time we hang out. However, for some reason I have this mentality that women should only be pursued for relationships and not for making friends. The girls I met are quite attractive but I don’t see myself having a relationship with them. I enjoy spending time with them.

I’m really uncertain as to whether this is healthy behaviour. A friend of mine has been heavily influenced by the alpha and beta debate and seems to insinuate the fact that alphas should not allow for that friendly relationship.

What I know for certain is I have no feelings for these women, I just have fun spending time with them. We’re usually a mixed group (in terms of males and females) and get along pretty well.

I got along so well with one of them that she actually started teaching me guitar.