Picking Up Girls in L.A. | Easy Conversation Structure

gradcasanova · 2019-04-15T18:44:22+00:00

TL;DW:

In this video, I hit up the streets of L.A. with my friend (from How to Beast). We make some approaches and break down each one, so you can apply the lessons in your interactions.

We show the good, the bad, and the ugly here, as it's good to see rejections and break down what can be learned from them.

Here are some of the big takeaways:

When approaching girls in groups, it's key to talk loudly and slowly to command their attention, and also to involve the group in the interaction (so they don't pull your girl away)
Try and slow down the interaction at the beginning, otherwise it can be overwhelming for both you and the girl
Listen to what the girl says and relate back to build rapport
You're not going to connect with every girl, and some approaches will feel a little painful (like my last one), but that's okay. It still builds the muscle of overcoming your fear, and helps you build momentum for future approaches
Speaking of momentum, it can be tough to have a great approach if its your first one of the day. That's okay, approach anyway and get the nerves out, so you can be cool, calm and collected during your next approaches
Get in the habit of trying to pass shit tests. Even if what you say doesn't work, it helps you become sharper and prepares you for future shit tests with other girls

ThePurpleStuffedWorm · 2019-04-15T23:17:22+00:00

This was a good watch, thanks OP.

Man_highcastle · 2019-04-16T01:43:21+00:00

Couldn't watch the whole thing cause my internet sucks. I stopped at the 2nd interaction. I noticed it was a really short and basic interaction. I feel like it worked the way it, because of how attractive you are. Does the rest of the video give detailed breakdowns on sophisticated approaches?

popcornplayaa28 · 2019-04-16T01:49:34+00:00

Good video. It's all about keeping it simple and genuine.

pillowpaladin · 2019-04-16T01:56:03+00:00

I was actually pleasantly surprised. Great video! Video idea: How to pick up girls with a dog

401kisfun · 2019-04-16T02:03:38+00:00

Good watch and effort but the one thing all these in-fielders need to show is which girls actually did come through after the number exchange. I suck with women and I’ve had interactions this good or better (sometimes kiss sober, not drunk), and STILL got ghosted after when I reached out to meet up after. don’t need to be convinced by a pick up guy that they have fucked whose number they got, but I am very impressed if the girl accepts and actually shows up to a concrete invite after the day of the first meet up because that shows real interest. Particularly because so many girls ghost right after what appeared to be a genuine interaction.

BigTinBaltimore · 2019-04-16T02:20:38+00:00

So what is your motive and goal?

eclipsor · 2019-04-16T02:27:05+00:00

thanks for this! great tip about mentioning you just have a second or are in a rush. do you have anything on shit tests?

kroodboi · 2019-04-16T03:15:43+00:00

Just subscribed to the channel, great job guys I’ve done approaches like that before but after a bad break up I’ve gotten super anxious about it since but y’all showed it’s pretty simple and straight forward thanks man

InterstellarReddit · 2019-04-16T20:54:33+00:00

I think college campus approaches are far too easy. These people need to hit a an artsy part of town with bars and food with a huge diverse crown. Let’s say design district Miami or Wynwood. There, they’ll see how hard it is.

Gordon-G · 2019-04-15T23:37:30+00:00

Old used-up sour juice no longer worth the squeeze

Title	Picking Up Girls in L.A. \| Easy Conversation Structure
Author	gradcasanova
Upvotes	88
Comments	19
Date	April 15, 2019 6:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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