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Here's the TL;DW: ​ A lot of guys feel like it's really difficult to get a girlfriend, or even just meet and date girls they really click with. The video shows you why this is the case, and what to do about it. They choose the wrong venues - you need to think carefully about the venues you frequent. Ask yourself, "What type of girl do I want, and where does she hang out?" Otherwise, you'll bang your head against the wall trying to meet girls that aren't into you They lack courage - most guys don…
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:46 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: A lot of guys think you need to have money to get girls. But back when I was broke and living with my parents, I had great success, and in this video I show you how I did it. Have a vision - just because you're broke right now doesn't mean it has to be that way forever. Have a vision of how you'll scrape yourself out, and take massive action towards that vision. Women love to see this kind of potential. Own your situation - don't lie to try to impress girls. Own who you are, bu…
/r/seduction17/09/19 03:15 PM
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Go to the main walking bridge, tons of opportunities
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:31 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ I give you the most common reasons guys get nervous around hot girls, and how to fix each one. ​ Lack of control - heart beats fast, nervous jitters, sweaty palms, etc. All these enhance the nervous feeling. Instead, try to take a few deep breaths, calm the noise in your mind, and just start walking towards the girl (instead of overthinking) ​ Lack of reference experiences - If you haven’t talked to hot girls, it’s going to be nerve-wracking. Need to go up, start more convers…
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:35 PM
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Again this is just not actionable at all and doesn’t mean anything
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:26 PM
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And how are you going to achieve real confidence if you don’t push your comfort zone? That’s just not actionable advice and it doesn’t mean anything
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:20 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ There's an inner game and outer game to overcoming approach anxiety, and both are covered in the video. ​ Inner game: 1. Be conscious of your excuses - Be conscious of excuses that pop into your head the next time you see a beautiful girl. Write them down and ask yourself if they're really just BS stories you're telling yourself about why you CAN'T go for what you want (hint: they almost always are) ​ 2. Realize You MUST face it - How do you get over the fear of climbing a mo…
/r/seduction17/07/19 01:30 PM
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How are you going to fairly critique it without giving it a chance? Dude has people on from literally all across the board, and manages to get them opening up and talking like no one else I’ve seen. He just keeps it real as fuck
/r/seduction12/07/19 08:37 PM
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Lol yeah I listen to them every week. It’s definitely played a part in my sense of humor, and it also keeps me informed about sports and general internet stuff, which is good for conversations too
/r/seduction12/07/19 08:32 PM
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LOL yeah bro I wasn't talking about politics. He's great at conversation. Chill out
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:35 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Cut down your phone usage - this helps you focus more, especially during conversations. It seems like a small distraction, but all those times you check your phone really do add up. ​ Meditation - helps calm your thoughts and be present in conversation. Your best convos will come when you're most present. Women can sense that presence ​ Listen to podcasts - specifically, The Joe Rogan Experience and Pardon My Take. Both are great for listening to how intelligent people hold c…
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:22 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ You take it too seriously - You make the date too formal either through the idea (like going to a nice dinner) or the way you act around her ​ You don't get her invested - You don't make an emotional connection, and she doesn't feel like she actually knows you ​ No sexual tension - You're too platonic and fail to break through and make things sexual ​ Failing to lead - You don't lead her and make a move in the right timeframe, and miss your chance ​ Pushing it too far - Tryin…
/r/seduction09/07/19 02:16 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Lot of guys freeze up when a girl looks at them or checks them out. Here, I lay out some simple steps you can take to go from that first look, to having an awesome approach and closing the deal. ​ Get more girls to look your way - First thing is you need to catch more eyes. To do that, work on your style (2 of my favorite clothing brands are Essentials and Alphalete - both have great fit), hit the gym and strength train 3-4 times a week, and work on your posture. Also, increa…
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:05 PM
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Yeah. Wanting to fuck a girl doesn’t make her a fuck doll. What are you even talking about bro.
/r/seduction27/06/19 01:46 AM
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Get your feminist white knight bullshit out of here. That statement doesn’t even deserve a response
/r/seduction27/06/19 12:49 AM
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After doing this on hundreds of first dates I promise you this is not the case
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:37 PM
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That's why you don't go to a fancy dinner on the first date
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:35 PM
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It's my girlfriend. I don't hire women for demos LOL
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:34 PM
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I feel you but like I said in the vid, I still have my fair share of ticks and that hasn’t stopped me from having very good success with girls
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:39 AM
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In that case just admit it and own it
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:30 AM
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Yeah bro? And what are your "non-naive" tips?
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:20 AM
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Watch the vid. That point starts at 5:30
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:01 AM
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I didn't always do these and I didn't do well with girls. I've also taught guys these things and it's helped them dramatically improve. If you want to be more physically attractive, go to the gym, improve your style, and get a good haircut
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:51 PM
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Thanks yeah it’s key
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:11 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Body language is key when talking to girls. These tricks will help you move your body the right way so that you can be more attractive around women. ​ Taking up space - Standing wider and sitting with your legs further apart. Helps you seem more masculine and confident. ​ Body control - cutting out nervous ticks and learning to relax yourself. First, recognize your ticks (like licking your lips), then work on the opposite positive behavior to reinforce it (like relaxing your …
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:34 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Lack of eye contact - Afraid to hold eye contact with a girl. Eyes dart away, always first one to break eye contact ​ Being too reactive - Explaining yourself to women, failing shit tests, and getting upset when she leaves ​ 3. Lack of Presence - You’re not 100% in the moment - your mind is off in some other world ​ 4. Being Too Easy - Willing to jump all over a girl just because she’s physically attractive ​ 5. Moving Too Slow - Taking too long to lead her or make a move ​ 6…
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:14 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ We hit the streets of Mexico City to chat up some Latina girls. Here are some of the big lessons: ​ Approach like you already know her - this helps her open up from the start ​ Keep it fun. Don't allow her shit tests to give you an overreaction - maintain your cool. ​ Don't let initial awkwardness cause you to eject early. ​ When going for the number, seal it by planning for a hangout. I.e. "We should go for a drink this week." Then when she agrees, get the number ​ Talk more…
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Sexual communication - Communicating on a man-to-women type of level. 2 things you can do are to escalate phsyically throughout the interaction, and talk with a lower-pitch ​ Being grounded - Feeling like you’re enough. Not trying to take value, but instead give value. You’re okay with or without the girl. It's a mindset, but it plays a big part in your overall vibe and women can feel it ​ Taking charge - Lead the girl instead of hoping to get lucky. You probably won't "luck"…
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:38 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Meeting hot girls doesn't have to be difficult (and you don't need to dedicated 10 hours every week to day game). Practicing these habits will help you meet more of them in your everyday life. ​ Reframe "Going Outside" - Instead of seeing it as just walking out the door, see it as an opportunity to meet hot girls. Keep your head up, look presentable, and be ready to take action if the opportunity presents itself. ​ Say "Yes" to Life - Get in the habit of saying yes to new opp…
/r/seduction22/05/19 01:23 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ Avoiding these 7 approach mistakes will help you hook a girl's interest and get her attracted. ​ In the vid, I provide examples and some advice on how to fix each mistake. Here are the mistakes: ​ The hesitation: Waiting too long to approach her. You either psych yourself out and don't approach at all, or you're overly nervous when you do approach her and it screws everything up ​ The quick ejection: leaving the approach too quickly because you don't think she's interested. ​…
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Here's the TL;DW: My friends and I have field-tested these conversation starters on girls across the world. They make it easy to get the interaction started and give you a good chance to hook her interest. The innocent question - example: "Your drink looks awesome! What is it? - Great for guys with approach anxiety, not a big risk of rejection The group approach - example: "Ya'll look like fun. How's your night going?" -best to use on groups of girls with open body language and good energy The u…
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ My friends and I have field-tested these conversation starters on girls across the world. They make it easy to get the interaction started and give you a good chance to hook her interest. ​ The innocent question - example: "Your drink looks awesome! What is it? - Great for guys with approach anxiety, not a big risk of rejection ​ The group approach - example: "Ya'll look like fun. How's your night going?" -best to use on groups of girls with open body language and good energy…
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:43 PM
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yeah please just use names given in video to be safe. Never know what can happen when you throw random variables in
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Just add it in at the end of each text, with different angles
/r/seduction11/05/19 04:58 PM
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I feel you man. But if you’re still sweating a girl you met at a bar last month, that’s a sign that you need to be meeting more girls
/r/seduction11/05/19 04:57 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ I've used this 4 text structure to convert phone numbers into dates for years. It keeps things simple, makes you stand out from other guys, and helps you get the hang-out. Here are the texts: ​ The intro text: "Hey Amanda, it's Dave." - send this right after you get her number (while you're still with her) so that she knows who you are, and you're sure there wasn't a mess up entering the number. ​ The follow-up text: "Hey Amanda, fun meeting you last night + Callback humor fr…
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ I outline 7 movies that will inspire you to be better with women, and a stronger man overall. I also highlight one of the biggest lessons from each one. ​ 500 Days of Summer - big lesson: Appreciate the great times you have with a girl, instead of trying to hang on for dear life because you're afraid you'll lose her. This will help you approach your relationships from a state of abundance ​ Braveheart - big lesson: Don't let your fear win. At the end of your life, you're goin…
/r/seduction07/05/19 02:26 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ I've been in "the game" since around 2012. Shortly after I began, I filmed an approach video (which funny enough, ended up going viral on YouTube at the time). ​ In this video, I look back on that approach and point out what I did well, but also what I really screwed up on - all from the lens of where I now, 6 years later. You see the good, the bad, and the ugly, and there's a lot to learn from it. ​ Some valuable lessons here on teasing, banter, and making the move. To recap…
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:14 PM
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Thanks bro!
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:16 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:31 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ These are the dating truths I've learned from the past 8 years in the "game". ​ Action always beats inaction - if you're afraid to do something (like approach a girl), you should probably just do it ​ Conversation is key - if you've got good conversation skills, you won't hesitate as much to approach girls because you'll be confident that you can keep the conversation going. You'll also be able to tease and lead girls easier ​ You're the average of your 5 best wingmen - the b…
/r/seduction23/04/19 02:56 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ At some point, we all get hooked on girls who don't like us back. ​ It's a huge emotional drain and prevents you from meeting other girls. In this video, I share the 5 steps I've taken to get over it in the past: ​ Make one final move - Lay it all out on the table one last time. This assures that it's definitely done and she doesn't like you back. It gives you peace of mind that it's time to move on. ​ Stop agonizing over it - Accept that it didn't work out and let it go. It'…
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:02 PM
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Hey man I actually don’t even write the girls number in my phone. The point is to show what can be learned from the approach, versus trying to impress you with a girl following through. Plus, a girl following through doesn’t necessarily indicate the strength of the approach. Girls confirm and flake for different reasons and sometimes the most solid interactions end up flaking for the most random of reasons
/r/seduction16/04/19 02:07 AM
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Thanks man appreciate it. First step for that vid will be that I have to find a dog hahah
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:58 AM
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Keep in mind: There’s a lot more that goes into an interaction like that than just the way You look and the words You say. Also, there’s a few rough rejections in there that are broken down too.
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:52 AM
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Thanks bro, exactly
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:51 AM
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Thanks bro appreciate it
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:25 AM
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Very useful feedback
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:25 AM
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TL;DW: ​ In this video, I hit up the streets of L.A. with my friend (from How to Beast). We make some approaches and break down each one, so you can apply the lessons in your interactions. ​ We show the good, the bad, and the ugly here, as it's good to see rejections and break down what can be learned from them. ​ Here are some of the big takeaways: ​ When approaching girls in groups, it's key to talk loudly and slowly to command their attention, and also to involve the group in the interaction …
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We all have stories man. You’re not thinking hard enough. Also, you just have to listen to what she says and then try to dig deeper into different topics she mentions. You can also relate something back from your own life
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:27 PM
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I’m guessing most of your conversations aren’t also an active pose for a YouTube thumbnail
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There are no friendships. Just people with common interests. Once those common interests goes away the friendship usually does too
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:38 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ I give you a rundown of some good ways to keep a conversation going with a girl (while also making it flirty and fun). ​ 1. Actively listen and relate - don't just wait for her to stop talking so you can blab on. Listen in closely, as everything she says can be used to help build the conversation ​ 2. Turn off your filter - a lot of guys hold themselves back when talking to girls. They stop themselves from saying a joke because they're afraid it won't be funny, or avoid dropp…
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Awesome man, sounds like you made some serious progress. Keep it up, and soon enough you’ll have a lot of game + even more approach invitations
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:44 AM
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Hey guys, in this vid I break down 7 tips for getting hot girls to approach you. I also demonstrate them in the video to help you better understand. Here's the TL;DW: The two ways girls will “approach” you - She’ll actually come up and say hi, which is great - She’ll give you an “approach invitation” which means she’ll make it obvious that she wants you to talk to her (by doing things like checking you out, standing next to you, etc). This is more common, because it allows her to avoid social re…
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:41 PM
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Joined basically a pickup community in Boston that was focused on self-development. Those kinds of things are a lot less popular now though. In the time since, I've met more cool guys into pickup/self-development by jumping into communities I'm passionate about and socializing (like online biz and traveling)
/r/seduction19/03/19 03:33 PM
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In this video, I show you how I got good with girls. The hope is that by sharing my journey, I can helping you accelerate progress on your own path. ​ Here's the TL;DW: ​ I opened my mind - in order to get good with girls, you first have to believe its possible ​ I was honest with myself - I admitted to myself that I really didn't know what I was doing, so I set out to try and find a group of guys who could help ​ I found those like-minded guys - I connected with a group of guys in the biggest c…
/r/seduction19/03/19 02:40 PM
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In this video, I show you 5 ways to prepare for a first date that give you the best chance of getting laid. I also demonstrate what a good date looks like. Here's the TL;DW: ​ Get the bachelor pad ready - Clean it up and stock the liquor cabinet. That way, you can ask her back to your place for a drink, and when she gets in, she won't be turned off by the mess. ​ Charge up your sexual energy - When you've got good sexual energy, you'll communicate sexually and avoid the friendzone ​ Have a conti…
/r/seduction14/03/19 01:30 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction06/03/19 09:56 PM
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Yeah good points man
/r/seduction06/03/19 09:55 PM
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Awesome man glad to help. Yeah I imagine ballroom dancing is much different lol but I’m sure it helped you develop some rhythm
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:50 PM
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Sick burn bro
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:36 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction06/03/19 06:20 PM
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Yeah man it’s a huge help, that was a big turning point for me
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:19 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:09 PM
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In the video, I demonstrate how to dance solo, as well as with a girl, and how to ask girls to dance. Here's the TL;DW: ​ Dancing solo helps you have more fun and get noticed by girls (learn the two-step as a foundational move) Avoid these 2 creepy ways to ask a girl to dance: The long staredown, and the creep up from behind and grind One of the biggest keys to dancing well with a girl (and building sexual tension) is to use push pull. Don't be all up in her grill the entire time - use spin move…
/r/seduction06/03/19 02:42 PM
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TL;DW: ​ In this video, I talk about a question a lot of us have probably wrestled with over the years as we've worked on ourselves, bedded more women, and had crazy experiences. ​ Should you get a girlfriend? ​ For a long time, my answer was no. But over the past year, my stance has adjusted on this question, and I've seen things from both sides. ​ The bachelor life is awesome, but having a girlfriend can be just as awesome if you go about it the right way. ​ In the video, I discuss this in-dep…
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:05 PM
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Thanks bro yeah this is very true
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:09 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: ​ In this video I show you 6 habits that will change your life and make you better with girls. In the video I show you demonstrations to better explain each habit. ​ Approach without hesitation - Stop hesitating when you see a girl you want to talk to. Instead, start walking in her direction and make the approach. ​ Gym discipline - when you've got a built, muscular body, women notice, and you'll see it when you look in the mirror. To achieve this, you need to build a steady gy…
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:38 PM
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Whether or not your let yourself go shouldn’t depend on the quality of girl you’re dating. If it does, you’re already screwed
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:12 PM
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We all know it sucks when a girl goes cold on you - but a lot of guys don't know the real reasons why it happens. In this video, I shed some light on that and show you how to stop making the mistakes that drive girls away. ​ Here's the TL;DW: ​ You're too predictable - Sex becomes routine, and you get stuck doing the same thing every day. Sure, routines, can be good, but you need to spice it up by infusing some adventure Neediness - Maybe you feel like you want to hang with her more than she wan…
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:27 PM
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Haha I got you
/r/seduction22/01/19 09:30 PM
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In this video, you'll learn the myths that most men believe about women. If you believe these, they'll hold you back in a big way. Here's the TL;DW: ​ She's not "that type" of girl - AKA she's not the kind of girl that would sleep with you quickly, whether it be on the first night, or within the first three days. A LOT more girls are open to this than most guys think. ​ Women don't like sex as much as men. Women enjoy sex, watch porn, and they have high sex drives. The idea that men crave sex mo…
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:22 PM
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Thanks bro!
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:11 PM
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This video outlines 7 ways for men to crush it in 2019 - both with dating, and with life in general. ​ Here's the TL;DW: ​ Do the Thing - We've all got something we're waiting to do, and we know we should do, but haven't done it yet. Could be to start a biz, a youtube channel, etc. You're always gonna have 100 excuses about why it's the wrong time or why you can't do it. But it's time to cut the BS and get in done. Approach and Learn - Most guys don't take the time to consciously try to improve …
/r/seduction17/01/19 02:59 PM
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If you don’t know what you’re doing, then looking for advice is not overthinking. Matter fact, avoiding advice will just make your problems worse because you’ll be trying to “just let it flow” or whatever in the wrong way. If most dudes took good dating advice the world would be a much different place
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:29 AM
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This is such a losers mentality
/r/seduction09/01/19 01:52 AM
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Next time will try to break through LMR better
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:25 PM
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Yeah man stand up comedy is a big key
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:01 PM
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For sure
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:00 PM
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In this video, you'll learn 5 hacks to improve your banter (which is key to flirting with women). I also include demonstrations in the video, so you can see exactly how to apply it with girls. ​ But here's the TL;DW: ​ Understand what good banter is - don't insult or be competitive. Instead, build her up and joke about doing things together in the future. ​ Feed your brain - to be witty and quick, you've got to be mentally sharp. And for that, you've got to feed your brain with good sleep, good …
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:09 PM
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Lol nice man good way to fit your style. And yes for sure on the checking time - checking your phone is a distraction in itself, so just using a watch alone will save you time and increase your productivity
/r/seduction03/01/19 06:44 PM
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Amen brother. These dudes are not understanding that point enough. It’s the sign of a high level man. Plus - boys use their phones to check the time. Men use their watch. The little things add up
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:28 PM
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Here you go: https://youtu.be/fy9l4jeB-yw
/r/seduction03/01/19 01:52 AM
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Haha thanks for the amazing insight
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:47 AM
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Unless you’re a goblin you can turn yourself into a good looking guy by hitting gym, getting better haircut, and improving style
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:00 AM
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Lol just completely missing the point. Those things obviously help but it’s also important to get the details on point - makes everything easier and helps you make a better first impression
/r/seduction02/01/19 11:59 PM
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iowaska * it's a type of psychadelic
/r/seduction02/01/19 08:15 PM
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To say a vibe doesn’t help is hilarious... and also, look at 90%+ of successful guys and I can tell you they probably wear a watch
/r/seduction02/01/19 07:56 PM
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If you still don’t realize that women pick up on the little things like this, then you’re probably not getting too many girls
/r/seduction02/01/19 06:36 PM
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Doesn’t have to be crazy. My friend where’s a necklace won’t ayowaska on it and girls love it. I prefer wearing watches because it really doesn’t cost you much for a quality one these days, and it’s simple for anyone to get
/r/seduction02/01/19 05:46 PM
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Demonstrated in vid
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:54 PM
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Made a whole vid about my process for getting a good crew: https://youtu.be/NIhhTDDWK7I Aim to add value to people, put yourself out there, and improve your communication skills
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:30 PM
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Probably still not enough to help you attract women
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:28 PM
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Hard to explain but I demonstrate In vid
/r/seduction02/01/19 03:49 PM
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Here's the TL;DW: Your style - Basically, you want to make sure you’ve got clothes that fit well, are good quality, and represent you well. ​ Your accessories - The details are important too - that's where accessories come in. Watches, hats, sunglasses, etc. ​ Your posture - Good posture makes you seem more confident and attractive ​ Your scent - Wear deodorant, shower everyday, and wear a nice cologne ​ Your hands - Clip your nails every few days and use lotion so your skin doesn’t crack ​ Your…
/r/seduction02/01/19 02:52 PM
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Some girls will try to take advantage of you... And unless you know the signs to look for, you might not even realize it. In this video, I show you how to stop it. You'll learn the 10 biggest signs that a girl is using you. Here's the TL;DW: You have something she wants She makes a lot of demands She never offers to pay for anything She's needy when she wants something She doesn't actually listen to you She doesn't value your time You haven't met her friends She holds out on sex She doesn't give…
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:13 PM
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I say nothing about faking high status vibes. Pretty clear you’ve got quite the negative outlook
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:08 PM
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You literally highlighted the exact same excuses I mention in the video. Focus on what you can control. I know plenty of short guys, minorities, and traditionally unattractive guys who do real well
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:58 PM
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I think you need to take a harder look at #7
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:51 PM
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All good reasons as well, thanks for the input
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:17 PM
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Here’s the TL;DW: I lay out the 7 most common reasons why guys struggle to get the girls they really want. 1. They Take Rejection Personally A girl doesn’t reject you, she rejects your approach. Taking it personally will make you bitter and hinder your progress. 2. They Blame Women Women are attracted high quality guys – and if you’re not a high quality guy, or you don’t approach them in a way that signals you’re a quality dude, then don’t expect her to be attracted. Instead, improve yourself. 3…
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:21 PM
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You’re playing it far too safe man
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:31 PM
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Fortune favors the bold bro! Hilarious typo though 😅
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:21 PM
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If you know how to run a great first date, you'll get laid A LOT more, stop getting ghosted by girls you like, and give yourself a ton of confidence. This video helps you avoid the mistakes that'll turn girls off, so you can crush it on first dates. Here's the TL;DW: 1 - Try to make it "too fun" The date idea doesn't need to be some crazy, over the top thing. The fun should come more from the interaction between you and the girl than what you're doing on the date 2 - No plan If you go in with no…
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:06 PM
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TL;DW: I've been traveling around the world for the past 4 years - here are my insights on the best countries to meet beautiful women. 7. Bangkok, Thailand - Cheap country, lot of Western influence, and very receptive girls. Just watch out for the ladyboys! 6. Kiev and Odessa, Ukraine - Some of the most beautiful women in the world are from here. Girls are open, fun, and inviting. Best place to live in Kiev is by Independence Square 5. Medellin, Colombia - Some of the sexiest Latina girls, and t…
/r/seduction24/08/18 01:29 PM
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TL;DW: I hit the beach in Okinawa and give some tips about how to pick up girls at the beach. Look good (make sure you've got a well-fitting bathing suit, hit the gym the day before/do pushups the day of to get a pump going, etc) Have a mindset of fun (Go in with a mindset of having fun instead of trying to take, take, and take from the girls) Approach in a chill and relaxed way (beach approaches don't need to get too crazy - just make sure you've got the right energy for the environment, and fo…
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:44 PM
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TL;DW: A lot of guys do creepy stuff without realizing it. i used to think I was a cool dude in college, but a lot of girls knew me as the creepy guy until I figured out what i was doing wrong. In this video, I highlight the behaviors that women think are creepy, and how to avoid/fix them. These are things I've corrected in my own behavior, and they've made a huge difference. 1. Over-complimenting (instead of dishing out lots of cliche comments, pick and choose when you give compliments, and be …
/r/seduction17/07/18 01:07 PM
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Hash maybe if you’re talking to fives bro. I’ve yet to see a video with actual hot Japanese girls. This ain’t Southeast Asia
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:06 PM
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6 feet
/r/seduction14/07/18 01:14 PM
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As I say in the video, I prefer to open from in front and get their attention 5-10 feet away. But the bridge was packed and it was hard to tell when cute girls were coming until the last second (while simultaneously getting a good angle for filming), which is why I had to do some from the side. Even so, still worked fine though once I was warmed up
/r/seduction14/07/18 01:14 PM
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TL;DW: In this video, I hit the streets of Osaka, Japan and approach some girls. I break down each approach, and tell you what I did well, and what I could've done better. Some big takeaways are: Overcoming the language barrier is easier than you think Warm up a bit and shake off the rejections at the start Lead the girl, even if it's something as subtle as moving her a few steps Take initiative when asking for the hangout Talk slower, especially at the start of the interaction Overall, some rea…
/r/seduction14/07/18 11:08 AM
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TL;DW: To be truly confident around hot girls, you've got to feel like you're the kind of guy who deserves hot girls. I was able to go from insecure to extremely confident in a short time by following the 3 steps I describe in the video: Step 1: Awareness and Adjustment - be aware of the thoughts that go through your head when you see a hot girl. If they're negative, work on replacing them with empowering thoughts. Step 2: Visualize your interactions going well with hot girls. Basically picture …
/r/seduction10/07/18 01:09 PM
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TL;DW: In this video, you'll learn how to ask a girl out so that you have the best chance of 1) getting the date and 2) getting laid on that date. Here are the 5 steps I lay out in the video: Seed the date when getting her number (bring up the potential date as a reason for getting her number) Don't wait too long (don't wait more than a day or two to ask her to hang out. Do it while you're still fresh in her mind) Have a plan (before you ask to hang out, have a plan in mind for the date that giv…
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:06 PM
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Sounds like this is coming from a dude who has never gotten laid in his life
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:31 PM
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TL;DW: I break down 7 big mistakes men make, and tell you how to fix each one. Not lasting long enough in bed (it's not about lasting for a certain amount of time, but having full control of when you finish) Rushing into it (don't start jackhammering away. Start slow, have good foreplay, and allow for buildup) Too many positions (Don't switch positions because you feel like you're supposed to - only switch when you have the urge to. Switching too much ruins the rhythm) Low sexual confidence (get…
/r/seduction29/06/18 01:04 PM
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I wrote a book about this that has gone on to become an amazon best seller. Basically I wanted to make it easy as possible for Any to pick up the book And have the tools be great at sex and really all stages of hooking up. If you want to check it out, you can find it on Amazon. It’s called “The Hookup Handbook: 28 sex fundamentals to give her mind blowing orgasms”. I also have a post on my blog you can read for free, called “how to fuck a girl: the 7 fundamentals of mindblowing sex.” Search it o…
/r/seduction28/06/18 03:42 AM
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Will do man!
/r/seduction27/06/18 09:39 AM
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You strongly implied that. No Thanks for the very constructive feedback/hate.
/r/seduction27/06/18 02:09 AM
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2 of my last 5 videos are approach videos. I also have over 7 approach videos on my friend how to beasts channel. Do your research before calling me out. I’m also in over 10 approach videos for simple pickups project go. They flew me out to LA specifically to film me.
/r/seduction27/06/18 12:57 AM
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Thanks but it’s possible for anyone to do. Have a few vids about it on the channel if you’re curious. I’m not Any smarter than any of you, just took some of the right risks and ignored the haters along the way to make it happen
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:36 PM
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Wrote a few best selling books and other online business stuff so I can live wherever I want to
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:31 PM
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TL;DW: Approaching groups of girls has always been my strong point. In this video, I lay out the 5 steps you can use to successfully approach a group of girls (and get the one you want). Acknowledge the group (Don't just focus on the girl you like - aim to win the group over too so they don't feel like you're trying to steal their friend away) Match the energy of the environment (don't try and have deep conversations on the dancefloor, use high energy instead, and vice versa for more relaxed env…
/r/seduction26/06/18 12:34 PM
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I mean, when it’s a dude approaching me about drones, I’m 1) worried that it’s going to draw more attention to it and 2) annoyed that it’s distracting me from the shot. If a cool dude approaches a girl and adds value to her life, she shouldn’t feel any of those frustrations. If she does, then you’re doing it wrong
/r/seduction26/06/18 02:24 AM
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I have over 7 In field videos online among different YouTube channels, putting what I talk about into action. You’re talking shit In a Reddit thread.
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:34 PM
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First off if you’re making out with a girl for an hour, wtf are you doing? The goal here ain’t to get a kiss bro. That’s a way to kill the tension and weird her the fuck out. Why don’t you leave the advice to the dudes who actually field test and get laid. You can sit on the sidelines, maybe you’ll learn a thing or two you fucking virgin
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:17 PM
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Yeah bro let’s see you put that on camera
/r/seduction19/06/18 04:07 PM
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That’s creepy as Fuck. You don’t need to try and get all weirdly sexual with it. Just be a normal dude, get her to agree to a hang out, and make it happen. Guys like this dude are why pickup has a bad name.
/r/seduction19/06/18 03:59 PM
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You watched two seconds of the video and then dropped a bs comment. Sick feedback bro.
/r/seduction19/06/18 02:25 PM
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I go direct right after bro. Sometimes I like to use that opener to gauge 1) how cute the girl actually is up close 2) what type of energy she has and 3) if it’s a girl I’d actually want to talk to. Cringing says more about you than it does about Anything else bro. You probably weak AF
/r/seduction19/06/18 02:22 PM
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Sorry bro. Can’t help but feel bad for guys who cringe when they see other guys go up and approach girls
/r/seduction19/06/18 02:12 PM
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TL;DW: My friend and I approach girls on the streets of Berlin. We break down each approach with lessons you can learn from it. Approach 1 (Not every approach goes as well as you want it too, but it's good to get out there and shake off the first-approach-jitters) Approach 2 (Use your own uniqueness to your advantage) Approach 3 (Look for opportunities to break out of small talk) Approach 4 (Work in some teases on the girl)
/r/seduction19/06/18 12:10 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction15/06/18 07:18 PM
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Never too late to change your life man
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:54 PM
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For sure man - whether its approaching girls or starting a business endeavor - putting yourself out there is going to look bad sometimes. But you gotta do it if you want to succeed
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:14 PM
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For sure man - most people are too scared but like I said, the path to success usually isn’t pretty
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:04 PM
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TL;DW: My friends and I have managed to have a lot of success in our twenties, both with business and with women. These rules can help you do the same. Surround Yourself With Awesome Friends (This will inspire you to level up your life, be around quality people, and be happier. Also doesn't hurt to have a great wingman) Don't put yourself in a box (Just because you or other people classify you as the shy guy, the nerdy guy, etc, doesn't mean you can't break out and become your own person) Build …
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:18 PM
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I don’t speak German ha
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:12 PM
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No but one of them is to stop bragging / get the fuck off of your high horse so maybe you should take that advice eh?
/r/seduction13/06/18 06:26 AM
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Why are you living under a rock? Also, you don’t need to know pop culture to bring the fun. You can be observations about the current situation or make jokes like I mention in the video, that require nothing but awareness in the moment
/r/seduction12/06/18 11:31 PM
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It’s next to my apartment. Easy, quick, reliable meal
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:37 PM
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No worries man my job is to just break things down from that early perspective so that guys at any level can get something out of it
/r/seduction12/06/18 07:53 PM
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Thanks for the input but there’s nothing actionable there. Sure it might make sense for you once you’ve already accomplished those things and look back in hindsight, but it doesn’t do anything for guys who are still learning. Each one of these things is something a guy can pick up and work on right away, and that will actually help him with girls
/r/seduction12/06/18 07:24 PM
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It's the most in-depth point of the video. If you want to skip to that part, it starts at the 9 minute mark. This link will skip right to that point: https://youtu.be/4l5lpDreb3w?t=9m2s
/r/seduction12/06/18 04:59 PM
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Thanks bro! And right now I literally just use a trimmer but I need to get some other stuff for it to keep it looking fresher ha.
/r/seduction12/06/18 04:58 PM
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Ah that’s a shame, safe travels though!
/r/seduction12/06/18 04:11 PM
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hahah well I'll probably be there again next Sunday!
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:54 PM
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Lol yeah I was there on Sunday. Too many people there to take drone shots though and I started raining pretty hard. Very cool park and market though
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:49 PM
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TL;DW: Look fresh (Ok this one a bit more obvious but guys still don't do it enough. I'm talking about good hygiene, style, well groomed hair and beard. Don't look like a scrub) Approach her (Yes, girls want you to approach them. So go up, say hi, and brighten up their day.) Bring the fun (Too many boring dudes out there. Tip for this is to use self amusement. Examples are included in video) Be dominant (Make the plans, lead her, invite her home, and overall just go for what you want.) Pass her …
/r/seduction12/06/18 02:51 PM
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Nice job man!
/r/seduction11/06/18 07:46 PM
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Sure man send them over
/r/seduction11/06/18 06:56 AM
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Yeah man just keep in mind: I’m guessing you want as many people as possible to see those ideas. And for that, you need to look at it from an objective marketing lens and ask yourself how the book is going to stand out, why people care what you have to say, etc. That’s a lesson I learned after writing my first book (the one that failed.) people gave me that same advice and I didn’t listen. Second and third time around you better believe I did listen though, and now I travel the world and do what…
/r/seduction09/06/18 07:09 PM
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Honestly man as someone whose written 3 books; 2 of which were massively successful and support me to this day, and one book that was a big failure, I’ll tell you this: This book idea is far too general. There are already a bunch of books like it. Its better to hone in one topic (the way I did with conversation In my book “Conversation Casanova” and with sex in “the hook up handbook”. And also to figure out your own take and spin to it. Otherwise it’s basically just going to be a bunch of inform…
/r/seduction09/06/18 06:50 PM
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Awesome man! Keep it up and let me know if you have any other topics you want me to cover
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:25 PM
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Thanks man. Fuck the haters! These sour ass dudes ain’t getting laid whether they watch a hundred vids or read a hundred articles!
/r/seduction09/06/18 03:22 AM
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Did y’all watch the video or are you just hating? Also, I add in the tl;dw every time so that anyone can get value from the post even without watching.
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:25 PM
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TL;DW: I adventure around and show you the 7 best places you can meet women. Social classes (Salsa, cooking, improv) Cool parks Hip cafes Chill bars and lounges Tourist attractions Upscale shopping streets Social Sports Hope ya'll enjoy the vid, and if you have other favorite places to meet quality women, drop them in the comments below!
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:53 PM
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Thanks bro yeah I honestly think it would help you - has helped a lot of dudes out. I Have plenty of free stuff on my channel as well that can help out too.
/r/seduction06/06/18 08:34 AM
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Thanks bro!
/r/seduction05/06/18 10:48 PM
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Thanks man! Yeah the breakdowns were fun!
/r/seduction05/06/18 05:07 PM
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Thanks bro!
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:22 PM
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Just go about your day, and when you see a girl you think is cute, go for it. It also helps to put yourself in position to make that more likely. For example, go hang at a cafe in a popular part of the city. That way, you're a lot more likely to run into attractive girls you can approach.
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:40 PM
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I hit the streets of Germany with my friend and we approach 4 different groups of girls. I break down each approach, and coach my friend with tips after his 2 approaches. Biggest lessons from the video are: Speak with certainty Close strong Use some fun banter First two approaches are kind of warm ups / learning experiences, and the last two approaches are the ones we did best. Another thing that's worth noting: We switched locations for part of the vid - specifically for the third approach. And…
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:22 PM
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Your existence is a waste of time bro
/r/seduction05/06/18 11:27 AM
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Bro you’re shutting yourself down with BS excuses and poor logic. Take your head out of the sand pit, stop making excuses, and start taking action
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:15 PM
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Lol this is some of the most flawed logic I’ve ever seen
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:44 PM
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Lol there are plenty of sexy, single, non divorced older women. You should make it a practice to go not by what you hear, but by what you experience from taking action, and perhaps by the direct experiences of other people you trust.
/r/seduction29/05/18 03:01 PM
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TL;DW: Hot older women are fun, usually great in bed, and usually pretty down to get with younger guys if you know how to make it happen. Here are 7 tips to hook up with hot older women: Be comfortable dating girls your own age (This will give you confidence and help you to learn how to deal with different types of girls in different situations - knowledge you'll need to get older girls) Get in shape (Older women want the muscular young guy who will show them a good time, not a fat slob) Go to v…
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:26 PM
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The point of having cool friends isn’t to get validation from others. Cool friends add depth to your life, make it more enjoyable, and help you elevate to new levels of success. (As opposed to shitty friends who are negative, sap value, and bring your life down). There’s a reason for the saying, “You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.”
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:23 PM
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TL;DW: Having great friends makes seduction a lot easier. You'll meet more high quality girls, have a cooler lifestyle, and be a happier person. My friends have helped me to have a ton of success over the past few years - but a lot of people have trouble making friends as adults. So in this video, I lay out the tips that worked (and continue to work) for me: Develop your conversation skills (this will help you connect with people) Go to meetup groups and social events Put yourself out there (app…
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:21 PM
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Thanks man !
/r/seduction22/05/18 10:33 PM
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TL;DW: In this video, I highlight mindsets that can make you a better man. I've used these mindsets to go from a broke, insecure dude to a guy who travels the world, is financially free, and is extremely confident with women. Hope they can help you as well! Mindset #1: Life is too short to play it safe (most people live like they're going to make it to a million years old) Mindset #2: I will plan my success so that it's a probability instead of a possibility (plan things right to give yourself t…
/r/seduction22/05/18 08:23 PM
3

I keep it real ha
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:31 AM
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Also, not all are as obvious as you think - and some may even seem like signs of disinterest if you don’t know what to look for
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:56 PM
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It’s explained in the video with examples given to illustrate
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:22 PM
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TL;DW: She's receptive to your touch She follows your lead without question She stares and smiles at you She doesn't flinch at sexual innuendos She gives you bedroom eyes She licks or bites her lip while looking at you She talks less and gives shorter answers She gets in your personal space and is comfortable with you in hers She asks about your living situation Her friends leave the venue, but she decides to stay with you If she does one or more of these things, that should tip you off that she…
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:10 PM
2

Thanks bro!
/r/seduction16/05/18 12:37 AM
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Appreciate that man!
/r/seduction15/05/18 10:06 PM
5

Thanks bro!
/r/seduction15/05/18 05:45 PM
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Tl;DW: Let the Humor Flow Naturally Tease Her Absurdify (Make a normal topic ridiculous) Bring yourself into the joke Use callback humor Making a girl laugh can be powerful IF you do it at the right times and in the right way. This video shows you how to do it without being a goofball - but in a way that actually attracts her.
/r/seduction15/05/18 01:21 PM
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Get outta here with that shit bro. Fucking sour puss. Improving with girls helped me completely transform my life. Now I travel the world, do what I want to do, and have complete freedom. But it all started with first improving with women. And so, I like to help guys to do the same, so they can make massive improvements not just with women, but in their lives in general. Of course there will always be pieces of shit like you to hate on that - but there are always haters no matter what you try to…
/r/seduction11/05/18 09:53 PM
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Be more sour. You can’t
/r/seduction11/05/18 06:43 PM
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By the way; those editorial reviews are short snippets of the actual reviews. The full reviews are a lot longer than that.
/r/seduction11/05/18 06:33 PM
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I don’t mention this topic in the video in that context
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:12 PM
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Yeah bro I faked hundreds of reviews. Caught me in the act. Un fucking real. Look at Models by Mark Manson on fake spot - it has a D rating. I’m sure he faked all his reviews too.
/r/seduction11/05/18 04:39 PM
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Oh I know bro haha it still blows my mind sometimes though. You try to provide value and people just nitpick and get aggressive
/r/seduction11/05/18 04:21 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/Conversation-Casanova-Effortlessly-Start-Conversations-ebook/dp/B01MF66ZJE
/r/seduction11/05/18 04:20 PM
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Also over 20,000 people who have bought my books and used these exact types of topics with lots of success. The amazon reviews are there for anyone to see. Keep hating through bro
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:28 PM
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Talking about dreams is one small example of the many I gave. And by that I mean talking about things she wants to do in her life, what she’s excited about, etc. It’s another way to get to know her that most guys probably don’t use. I swear these keyboard jockey haters on seddit are unreal
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:26 PM
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All are outlined in the first minute
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:33 PM
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Every topic I’ve mentioned I’ve used on hundreds of dates with great success. Otherwise I wouldn’t talk about it. Field tested beats theory
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:26 PM
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TL;DW: In this video, you'll learn 7 things you should do in your conversations with women. Use the right topics (a good topic helps you connect with her, push the things forward, and/or handles the logistics) Avoid bad topics like politics, religion, and cool shit that you own Know when to change the subject (and try and do it before the topic dies out) Listen to what she says and relate back with things from your own life Talk about yourself the right way (focus on emotions rather than stats a…
/r/seduction11/05/18 01:21 PM
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Glad I could help bro!
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:37 PM
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He’s in this video
/r/seduction08/05/18 10:26 PM
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I explain it in the video but “want but don’t need her” is like, you’d like to have her, but you’re okay if it doesn’t work out.
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:16 PM
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TL; DW: Neediness is one of the biggest attraction killers. Here's how to stop it: Have a mission outside of women (otherwise, women will be your only mission and you'll crumble if it doesn't work out with one girl) Want, but don't need her Be okay with it not working out Hang out with confident guys Don't fake who you are to try and impress a girl I've lost girls to neediness before, but have worked on these things over time and now I no longer run into the problem. Hope this helps you guys!
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:20 PM
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Especially the keyboard jockeys on reddit 😂
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:31 PM
2

Thanks man
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:18 PM
4

Thanks bro I appreciate that!
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:01 PM
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Actually bro I’ve been all around the world and lived in 15+ different countries. I’ve compiled these points from first hand experiences with hundreds of women from difficult cultures, continents, and interests. If the girl is into food and movies then fine - find that out on the first date and use to go on future dates after you’ve hooked up with her. And try not to get too mad online
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:42 PM
4

Haha on serious note what’s most common type of first date guys ask you on
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:22 PM
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You drive a hard bargain
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:11 PM
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Let’s just cut the BS and meet at my place
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:07 PM
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Drinks on Thursday?
/r/seduction04/05/18 04:57 PM
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Thanks man yeah I’ve only made like 30-40 vids so far so I’m still developing my own style and trying new things. Love the simple pickup guys as well - funny enough I actually worked with them and I’m a part of their project Go program
/r/seduction04/05/18 04:28 PM
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I mean when it comes to video, energy is important. My energy is always higher in videos. Same personality though. If you want to see what I sound like when I talk to girls then you can see it in this in-field vid from last week: https://youtu.be/ImnSsLuytSw
/r/seduction04/05/18 04:18 PM
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TL;DW: Avoid BS first date plans (like dinner and a movie) Structure the date well (try to meet at a venue nearby your place or her's) Adjust your assumptions (assume she IS the type of girl to want to hook up on the first date) Get physical from the start (hug her when you first see her) Connect with her by asking open-ended questions Flirt with her (one tip is to agree and exaggerate. Example is given in the video) Push things forward (invite her home/make a move) These tips are meant to help …
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:44 PM
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Not to hate man but the point here is that it’s okay to do some different things style wise. For example when I wear this kind of shirt to the club, the girls will basically approach me touch the rips and stuff. Makes things super easy.
/r/seduction01/05/18 06:20 PM
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Haha awesome man!
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:49 PM
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Really? Because the girls in this video certainly didn’t mind it: https://youtu.be/ImnSsLuytSw (It’s an in field video where I pick up 2 girls with this same shirt.)
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:48 PM
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I mention the one I use in the video (scentbird) that sends you pretty much any designer cologne you want for $15/month. I’ve bought super cheap shit in the past and it sucked - the higher quality stuff makes a big difference
/r/seduction01/05/18 01:05 PM
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TL;DW: Assume girls are attracted when you approach them Improve your scent Take control of your body Sexy smile beats the friendly smile Nail your body language A lot of guys claim to be "not attractive" enough to get hot girls. But truthfully, every guy can improve his looks - and these tips will help you get started right now.
/r/seduction01/05/18 12:20 PM
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Thanks man! Appreciate it
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:36 PM
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Haha great attitude
/r/seduction27/04/18 05:01 PM
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Thanks bro, appreciate it!
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:30 PM
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TL;DW: You've got a weak approach You can't hold a conversation You're boring Your vibe is off You're out of shape You don't create sexual tension You play it safe You don't lead the interaction She has a boyfriend She's busy or having a bad day Along with these reasons, I give a tip on how to fix them so you can have a better approach the next time.
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:08 PM
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Sure those things help but guys who look good can still get approach anxiety
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:11 PM
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If you watched the video you’d see that I connect it with the learning experience too - hence the story of door to door sales. “You either make the sale, or you learn something that will help you get closer to the next sale.” And I’m not saying a guy should get all energized bunny excited. I’m saying most guys focus on rejection - but if instead you keep the potential positive outcome in mind, it’s easier to overcome your fear and make the approach go well
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:26 PM
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TL;DW: If you're afraid to approach a girl, it's usually because you're afraid of rejection or looking stupid. But instead, try and shift your perspective so that you're more excited about the idea of connecting with her, rather than the idea of getting rejected by her.
/r/seduction20/04/18 02:50 PM
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Thanks man no worries
/r/seduction18/04/18 04:42 PM
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Hey man - you need to confirm the date otherwise of course she's going to forget. Hell, I forget dates sometimes too. I made a short video about how to do this the right way - check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4z-Pyx-SX60 If you follow the steps in that vid, girls like this should flake A LOT less. I don't think her flaking was a shit test. I think she likely just forgot. From here, you should probably try and set up another date and then make sure you confirm it the right way. …
/r/seduction18/04/18 03:49 PM
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Maybe you should’ve done that before adding your passive aggressive comment
/r/seduction18/04/18 02:48 PM
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Ha I mean there are a lot of guys who say that kind of thing seriously to pretty much anything, so it’s not easy to decipher when it’s a joke
/r/seduction18/04/18 05:06 AM
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Tip #0: go to the gym, wear stylish, well-fitting clothing, and get your grooming on point. Stop complaining and start improving
/r/seduction18/04/18 04:55 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction18/04/18 02:58 AM
1

For sure thanks bro!
/r/seduction18/04/18 01:23 AM
1

As said in the video, you bridge the conversation. Ask an opened ended question, make an Assumptive statement or simply ask “what are you up to” and go off that
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:52 AM
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There are severa conversation starters in the actual video and I demonstrate them too. So I’m not sure what you mean
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:39 AM
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It’s a saying. You don’t actually have anything in your back pocket. It’s like having them in mind
/r/seduction17/04/18 10:43 PM
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For sure man! Thanks for checking it out
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:01 PM
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For a lot of guys it’s not that easy - and also is difficult to keep the conversation going once they start it. Hence it can be helpful for them to see the fundamentals and also see how they look when demonstrated
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:55 PM
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TL;DW: Don't hesitate Get her attention before you start talking Have some conversation starters in your back pocket Nail your body language Bridge the conversation to another topic I also demonstrate the tips with a girl, so you can see examples of each one.
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:10 PM
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They’re all good man I have pretty much every kind of shirt and they fit a muscular physique very well. The joggers are awesome too (I’m not a sponsor or affiliated with them in any way lol).
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:02 AM
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I actually always used to wear v necks just because I liked the look - but in the last few months I've shifted over to shirts from brands like Alphalete. More athletic style and just overall a cooler look than the v neck. I feel like that style is becoming outdated
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:59 AM
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I disagree man. Beginner guys will see this and take it as they need to talk about themselves 100% of the time. That's how you end up bragging, trying too hard, etc. You know how many girls complain that they can't stand going out with guys who talk only about themselves? A LOT. Better to talk about yourself less at first and get the girl to open up to you. The more she talks about herself, the more connected she'll feel to you. There have been studies that have proven this. Obviously listen and…
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:58 PM
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Tl;DW: Ask open-ended questions to get to know her Ask flirty questions to get her attracted and make the conversation fun Make assumptive statements/guesses about her Use the conversation threads to bridge the conversation Use the environment I used to run out of things to say with girls a lot - but doing these things helped end the problem and now I'm never at a loss for words.
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:26 PM
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You can get that info here: https://www.amazon.com/David-Perrotta/e/B00RRCFMKW/
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:42 AM
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I make YouTube videos and I’ve written a couple of best selling books about dating and sex that continue to sell lots of copies every month. And in terms of traveling, you can’t go wrong if you’ve got solid fundamentals down. Most guys don’t have those fundamentals though
/r/seduction10/04/18 10:57 PM
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I don't really have a choice. The most I'm usually in one country is usually 3-4 months, and it's annoying to consistently find short term leases. And the airbnbs I've stayed in around the world have been wildly different. So I'm not really sure what you mean there
/r/seduction10/04/18 10:51 PM
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I live in different countries all around the world and I’m constantly moving around. So, I stay in a different Airbnb every month, so technically I’m not really moved in anywhere
/r/seduction10/04/18 10:27 PM
1

That's a very interesting and specific rule of trust that you have there
/r/seduction10/04/18 09:59 PM
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Premiere. And yes obviously I know how to sync up audio and video. I'm saying it's automatically synced up so I don't need to mess with it. And that's the way I talk in real life except with slightly more energy
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:15 PM
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How am I trying too hard? Also, the mic is part of the camera so that sound is automatically synced up. Try loading it on a different browser.
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:10 PM
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Nice man I can see that working well
/r/seduction10/04/18 05:01 PM
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TL;DW: The "Take her with you" date The ice cream date Drinks at a bar (try to find a bar with cheap drink specials) Exploring (farmers market, walking, etc.) Live music For first dates, the cheaper and simpler, the better. These dates will make it easier for you to connect with the girl, and won't make you break the bank (especially if you're going on a lot of dates).
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:14 PM
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TL;DW: The "Take her with you" date The ice cream date Drinks at a bar (Try and find one with cheap drink specials) Exploring Live music Hey guys - lot of dudes think the first date has to be a super fun idea or some sophisticated thing. But the cheaper and simpler the better. This makes it easier to connect with the girl, and it also makes sure you don't break the bank (especially if you're going on a lot of dates).
/r/seduction10/04/18 02:46 PM
1

Great point man - I’ve noticed the same thing
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:14 PM
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Of course man!
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:03 PM
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Tl;DW: Immerse yourself in the experience Control your breathing Use less sensitive positions Don't thrust all the time Get in shape Realize it's not a big deal if you finish too quickly from time to time Go multiple rounds I used to have a lot of trouble with lasting long - but once I put these things into practice, the problem quickly went away. This is a big cause of sexual anxiety for a lot of guys, so hopefully it'll be of value to ya'll!
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:24 PM
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TL/DW: 1. Dress well 2. Know your logistics beforehand 3. Go with a good crew 4. Be social right away 5. Talk loudly 6. Don't get hammered drunk 7. Make women notice you 8. Bring the energy and fun 9. Get physical 10. Lead her I’ve met a lot of girls from bars and clubs around the world, and in this video I highlight my biggest tips for you guys. If you can nail these, your nights will be a lot more fun and you’ll improve your chances of bringing a girl home at the end of the night. Hope ya’ll e…
/r/seduction30/03/18 06:34 PM
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Hey guys - here's the TL/DW: Nail the first text Nail the second text Use her name Use Proper Grammar and Punctuation No dick pics Don't be needy Give her something to work with Use the occasional bitmoji Ask her to hang out Control your emotions I've used these rules for years to convert phones numbers to dates. Hopefully they can help you guys out as well!
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:58 PM
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It’s my home base. I’m usually here but often travel around the world as well and stay in different places for a month or two at a time
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:57 AM
1

Thanks for the tip!
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:20 AM
1

nice man do you have a link to any specific ones you love?
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:00 AM
1

For sure!
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:16 AM
1

Nice man will have to try that
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:15 AM
2

It’s explained in video. Candles, oil, incense
/r/seduction06/03/18 07:38 PM
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It’s in there. #8 as stated in video
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:33 PM
5

Yeah man warm lighting is very key
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:07 PM
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TL/DW: Cleanliness A "Chill area" A comfortable bed Warm lighting A music speaker A good music playlist Beer, wine, and liquor Spare toothbrushes Massage tools Condoms by the bed Hey guys, I credit my bachelor pad with helping me hook up with a lot of girls. If your apartment is set up the right way, you have a lot better chances with every girl you bring home. So, I made this video to help ya'll get your bachelor pads on point as well!
/r/seduction06/03/18 03:08 PM
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When I was a door to door guy I would flirt with House wives like it was my job hahaha
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:48 PM
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I also have a best-selling book on Amazon about how to talk to girls. It's called Conversation Casanova if you want to check it out (Has over 100 5 star reviews).
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:27 PM
2

I was a door-to-door guy for 10 months and that definitely helped
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:02 PM
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Ask open-ended questions, actively listen, relate back to the other person with stories from your life, make assumptive statements like, "You look like you're from X city"
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:48 PM
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TL/DW: Take more risks Work on yourself Improve your conversation skills Travel Say "yes" to life A lot of guys are afraid of being boring around girls. In this video, I cover some ways to be more interesting and be able to captivate anyone. Hope you guys enjoy it!
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:16 PM
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Aware of our blessings? Bro, I was a shy, scrawny kid with terrible acne who didn’t so much as hug a girl until 10th grade. Going from there to here took a lot of work - it didn’t just magically happen. And anyone who chalks it up to “blessings” is making an excuse for themselves. It’s Unreal some of the stuff I see on seddit sometimes.
/r/seduction24/02/18 01:44 AM
1

Haha okay bro. Sorry for putting all that effort in to edit the video
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:09 PM
1

Helicopter shots? Bro... it’s a drone shot. they’re not that expensive.
/r/seduction23/02/18 05:13 PM
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Hundreds.. maybe thousands. LOL. You know there’s a lot that goes into filming - the actual interaction is usually the easiest part. You need to get the right camera angle without the girl noticing; good audio, etc.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:11 AM
1

Amen to this!
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:09 AM
2

I’m filmed with Simple Pickup and I’m also on their project Go course...
/r/seduction22/02/18 07:54 PM
1

Exactly man! Finally someone realizes haha
/r/seduction22/02/18 05:30 PM
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That’s because we work on ourselves and our style because we know it’s important. We understand that improving your looks is a step that you shouldn’t ignore. Neither of us were naturally great looking but we took a lot of steps to improve that area. Steps that you can take as well.
/r/seduction22/02/18 05:12 PM
1

Most guys don’t have these things down let’s be honest
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:05 PM
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TL/DR: Passion Style & Grooming Fitness Social Intelligence Self Reliance Traits like these make you a naturally attractive man, and allow you to not just attract high quality girls, but keep them around for the long term.
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:51 PM
1

Thanks man!
/r/seduction17/02/18 10:20 PM
1

You can also find me in about 10 videos from simple pickup’s project go picking up American girls. Also, I’ll have an approach video out next week.
/r/seduction17/02/18 07:29 PM
4

Hm. Well you could watch the video or read the TL/DR
/r/seduction17/02/18 03:18 AM
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Haha from now on make it a point to just say hi to girls who do this! In this situation you can say something like, "Hey, I know this is random but I feel like we keep passing each other on campus and I had to meet you. I'm [your name]." Then continue the conversation from there
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:21 AM
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You say that like it's something you have no control over. You can improve your style, get a better haircut, hit the gym, and work on your charisma and conversation skills. That alone will make any guy relatively good looking. Of course if you're looking like a slob you probably won't get these signs. I used to be a scrawny dude who wore baggy clothes and got 0 girls. I worked on myself and now that's changed in a big way. There's nothing stopping you or any guy from doing the same.
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:08 AM
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TL/DR: She makes herself obviously approachable She draws attention to herself She stands or sits near you for no reason She makes a simple request She makes eye contact and smiles Video has examples of each sign. Sure, you should approach a girl whether or not she gives you signs like these. But if you can recognize these signs, your approaches will go a lot smoother and women will react more positively from the start.
/r/seduction16/02/18 09:03 PM
1

We both get drastically more girls than you
/r/seduction15/02/18 12:09 AM
6

For sure! Great point man
/r/seduction13/02/18 07:02 PM
3

Thanks for the love man!
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:58 PM
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Thanks bro. Yeah, How to Beast is the man - you'll see me in a lot of his videos over the next couple weeks as well ha
/r/seduction13/02/18 03:53 PM
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TL/DR: Change your body language (take up space) Take fast action (don't hesitate to approach her) Be curious (try and learn 2-3 things about her) Don't put her on a pedestal (realize she's just a normal girl) Live a life that excites you (so that rejections from girls don't affect you all that much)
/r/seduction13/02/18 02:28 PM
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Hey guys, This is a quick video about a text I use to set up a date - It's best to use when the girl is kind of cold to you or unresponsive. It's been field-tested many times between my friends and I. It works well, so hopefully you guys have some success with it.
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:34 PM
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https://youtu.be/4z-Pyx-SX60
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:25 AM
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Sure man... Realize your dream girl is everywhere Let go of the girl who got away Be Okay with being alone Know what you want in a woman and don’t settle Get sexy (work on your style, fitness, haircut) Become a better conversationalist Get active Talk to strangers Use online dating (but don’t rely on it) Ask her to hang out
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:40 AM
2

Exactly man. But haters gonna hate
/r/seduction24/01/18 12:27 AM
1

Thanks man!
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:00 PM
3

I live in Mexico City. The whole video is in Mexico City. My ex girlfriend is Mexican. Nice observation though
/r/seduction23/01/18 06:46 PM
3

Thanks man. Yeah every time you try to create something, there will be haters. Some people are just sour and negative - it’s all good though
/r/seduction23/01/18 06:27 PM
3

For sure man! Great mindset to have about it. Thanks for watching
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:32 PM
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Actually, YouTube now requires around 4k watch hours to be eligible for YouTube revenue, and I don't have that yet. Just trying to add value in an entertaining way with videos. Thanks for hating though, bro.
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:24 PM
0

Thanks man! Keep it up
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:07 PM
7

haha kudos for thinking for yourself man
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:02 PM
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People learn in different ways. Also, covering this topic through video allows me to express the points more clearly and help the audience to get a better grasp of it.
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:54 PM
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Lol yeah man I don't think any of us want a sexless relationship - that's not what I'm implying in the vid.
/r/seduction19/01/18 08:50 PM
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For me, I like to connect with girls - it always makes the sex better. If I enjoy a girl's company, and she doesn't want to have sex the first night, I'm okay with that. I've dated some awesome girls who weren't down the first or second night. Had I just walked away and said, "No sex? then I'm OUT!", I never would have had those awesome experiences with those great girls.
/r/seduction19/01/18 08:34 PM
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I'm one of the guys in the video. Have lived in several different countries under development, including some in Asia, South America, and Mexico. I don't have a problem doing this kind of stuff anywhere I go...
/r/seduction16/11/17 07:53 PM
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It's explained in the article...
/r/seduction08/09/17 12:42 PM
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I tend to just not kiss very much in public either, but in some cultures (especially Latina cultures) this can cause women to straight up reject you. Which is why I recommend doing the first type of kiss if you're in public. You kiss her, but you do it in a way that progresses the interaction instead of making it come to an early conclusion. I've seen the anti-slut defense happen to a lot of guys when they feverishly make out with girls at the club, and it used to happen to me as well when I did…
/r/seduction08/09/17 11:23 AM
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It keeps her wanting more, doesn't validate her, and allows you to maintain control. Which is more powerful than being the guy trying to make out with her for 10 minutes straight on the dancefloor, which is what I see a lot of guys trying to do. It also gives her room to rationalize going home with you. If you've just teased her a few times with normal kisses, she can think, "I'm just going home with this guy to get a drink and then we'll see what happens." But if you've been sexually making out…
/r/seduction08/09/17 11:14 AM
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The regular kisses I talk about are more for when you haven't had sex with a girl yet and you've just met and/or you're hanging out with her for the first time. And so in this case, they can be a powerful tool for building sexual tension
/r/seduction08/09/17 10:56 AM
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I've been with over 200 women in the span of around 5-6 years so that abundance of experience definitely plays into it
/r/seduction16/08/17 09:58 AM
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For sure man! Great insights.
/r/seduction10/07/17 06:23 PM
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Definitely man. Listening and relating is key!
/r/seduction10/07/17 05:00 PM
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Conversation Casanova: how to effortlessly start conversations and flirt like a pro
/r/seduction02/06/17 12:07 PM
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Yeah man, that's the motto. Need to go for what you want in life while you're here. Otherwise, what the hell are you doing, right? Glad you like the saying.
/r/seduction02/06/17 04:34 AM
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Haha fair enough. Point taken, and good point on your part
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:08 PM
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Where do I ever say to put her on a pedestal? Also, look in the top 5 also bought on Amazon for models. You'll see my book.
/r/seduction01/06/17 10:26 PM
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Haha thanks man. Yeah I worked with them for a bunch of vids on project go in LA - was a lot fun. They're an awesome group of guys
/r/seduction01/06/17 07:37 PM
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Of course man. These are the fundamentals. I approach girls with this stuff in the gym all the time.
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:49 PM
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Thanks for reading man! And thanks for the awesome addition unknown_poo! Nice name too ha.
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:48 PM
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I speak Spanish now but even when I didn't speak Spanish, it didn't matter. I date both locals and travelers of all types. My experience and that of all my friends who are good with women points overwhelmingly to more success when you bring a girl home on the first date
/r/seduction20/05/17 01:05 AM
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I live in Mexico City and bring most girls home on the first date. Have tons of success with it. Also have lived in 5 other countries in last 3 years and have never had an issue. In fact I'd say results are always better when I bring the girl home on the first date
/r/seduction20/05/17 12:38 AM
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Yeah that's the goal ha. Good luck with the progress!
/r/seduction19/05/17 08:23 PM
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No problem man. And yeah, actually I have written stuff about getting over anger and/or frustration. Check these out: -How to Genuinely Love Women -How to Avoid Bitterness When a Girl Rejects You
/r/seduction19/05/17 07:26 PM
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Hey man, Here are some posts that can help you if you're "starting from the bottom": -How to Have a Sexy Vibe Around Women -How to Make a Great First Impression Around Women -How to Lead Women (And Why Most Men Suck at Dating) -4 Things She Needs From You Before Sex -How to Fuck a Girl: The 7 Elements of Mind-Blowing Sex Also, since you already have my book, make sure to pay careful attention to the mindset section and the flirting section. Those will both help a lot in terms of approaching dati…
/r/seduction19/05/17 06:20 PM
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Won't lie, this made me LOL ha. Good one
/r/seduction19/05/17 03:15 PM
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For help with that, check out this post: A Simple “Flake-Proof” Method For Setting Up and Confirming Dates
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:38 PM
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Not if you listen to her responses and relate back to her with things from your own life.
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:07 PM
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You can also just ask, "What do you find sexiest in a guy?" I use this on just about every single date I have, and I bring about 95% of those girls home afterward. Don't knock it until you try it.
/r/seduction01/05/17 06:39 PM
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Just checked mobile multiples times and it works - maybe try again?
/r/seduction21/04/17 04:05 PM
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Haha my product is not really an improved lifestyle - it's more dating based and that's part of it. But I sell products through it, and I also have a best-selling Amazon book about flirting and conversation that sells a lot of copies
/r/seduction21/04/17 04:01 PM
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It was a process of a few years, but I started traveling after 6 months. And as for the girls, do you think I'd be here if the girls weren't sexy? Hahah
/r/seduction20/04/17 08:32 PM
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haha I'm assuming you probably haven't been to Mexico. There are tons of light skinned girls, and tons of super hot girls. Many people have the wrong view of Mexicans, and especially what Mexican girls look like. A lot of guys come down here and are absolutely shocked at the talent
/r/seduction20/04/17 07:58 PM
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yeah it's a cool city. And well the blog is a business ha that's how I'm able to travel
/r/seduction20/04/17 07:57 PM
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Thanks man - glad you liked it!
/r/seduction20/04/17 07:42 PM
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I've been traveling around for a few years and settled on this spot for most of the past year - love it over here. You ever been?
/r/seduction20/04/17 07:35 PM
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The more comfortable with you they are and the more they feel that you won't judge them, the more open they'll be. This is a conversation I have a lot with girls after the first time we sleep together, and they're usually pretty open about it.
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:25 PM
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Very true man - and very underrated
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:16 PM
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True, but some risks have to be taken. Try starting off slow and upping the level of dominance bit by bit like I mention in the post. That way you can get a sense of just how open she is. You can also talk about what kind of stuff she likes in bed after the first time you have sex.
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:15 PM
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Haha awesome - good luck!
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:14 PM
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Meditation helped me A LOT with being able to last longer. 10 minutes a day made a big difference. Try to focus on your breathing as well as immersing yourself in the experience. And if you have to, try going multiple rounds with women so you can laugh it off if you finish to quickly the first time, recharge, and go longer the second time around
/r/seduction20/04/17 05:08 PM
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All good points man. Funny thing is now that I live in Mexico City, a lot of the girls don't understand dirty talk in English ha. So I've been trying to figure out the dirty talk lingo in Spanish. It's been interesting. By the way, if anyone knows some good Spanish dirty talk, let me know. My Spanish is at a lower intermediate level
/r/seduction20/04/17 04:59 PM
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Thanks man - I try to cut through the BS
/r/seduction20/04/17 04:07 PM
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Depends on the country and the quality of the place. For an Airbnb for a month, it can range anywhere from $500 - $1500. In countries outside the USA you can usually find some in the cheaper range, whereas USA will be a bit more expensive in most places. If you're interested in working online, traveling, etc, check out this post I wrote about how to do it: http://postgradcasanova.com/how-to-quit-your-shitty-job-and-achieve-freedom/
/r/seduction23/11/16 04:03 PM
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Haha well I run the blog, write books, and consult businesses
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:32 PM
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As I say in the article, literally search "Chill Vibes". That's what the playlist is called.
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:30 PM
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I rent month to month. Travel a lot, like right now I'm in Mexico. But a lot of airbnbs offer discounts when you stay for a month
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:42 PM
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Nice addition man - haven't thought about that but definitely a good idea
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:37 PM
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For sure man good point here. I've been living in strictly airbnbs for the past few years so they've all been predecorated for me ha
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:58 PM
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For sure man good point here. I've been living in strictly airbnbs for the past few years so they've all been predecorated for me ha
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:58 PM
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Nice list man. I actually keep it even simpler. Just get a simple vodka like Smirnoff, soda water (not a big fan of sugary drinks or sugar in general), and some limes.
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:55 PM
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Nice list man. I actually keep it even simpler. Just get a simple vodka like Smirnoff, soda water (not a big fan of sugary drinks or sugar in general), and some limes.
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:55 PM
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1) very rarely will a girl flat out tell you she's not interested in those words 2) By assuming attraction, you can get through her initial coldness and get her to open up more easily
/r/seduction05/11/16 02:20 AM
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I've lived in 5 different countries and countless cities in the past few years. I've used these conversation starters in each one more or less, and I've never been laughed at or ridiculed. Don't knock anything until you try it.
/r/seduction20/10/16 04:25 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:57 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:57 PM
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Awesome man, glad you got some value from it!
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:54 PM
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If you look like a lost idiot, it's because you're saying it like a lost idiot. That's not how it should come off. You should always approach women with some intent behind your words. When you approach as a confident dude, she won't think you're a lost idiot no matter what you say. Usually, she'll be intrigued.
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:51 PM
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I always try to add as much value as I can - hence why there is around 1300 words before said "plug".
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:49 PM
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I see what you're saying but the point of these conversation starts is not because women are scary. The point is that sometimes guys get anxiety about approaching women, and these conversation starters help them work through that anxiety, start the conversation, and give them a chance to show their personality to women like you. Of course it's going to be a bit strange when you're reading dating advice for men though, same way as it is strange for men when they read dating advice for women. It a…
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:44 PM
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where are you from?
/r/seduction19/10/16 07:20 PM
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Yes but also look at how difficult most guys find it to approach a girl and start a conversation. Just because it's simple to do doesn't mean it's easy. And quite frankly it doesn't matter what girls think of these kinds of posts. It's not for them. But there's also a reason why the "dating advice for women" industry is about 100X bigger than the dating advice for men industry
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:35 PM
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Thanks man! Yeah there will always be haters no matter what you do. Hope you take some action and get some good use of the content!
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:30 PM
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Get her on Snapchat. Then, post high value Snapchat stories. If she likes you, she'll watch them. Through that, you'll basically be keeping in touch with her without having to keep hitting her up all the time
/r/seduction30/09/16 03:47 PM
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True true. But if you add up the rounds of drinks plus the bowling, you're talking maybe $30-$40 which turns into a pretty expensive date if she doesn't offer to split it
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:12 PM
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Hahah good luck man! There's a natural ice cream place near my apartment that combines any ingredients you want and makes it into ice cream. Took a girl there for some wine ice cream the other day. 2 birds with one stone hahah
/r/seduction29/09/16 04:03 PM
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Exactly man. Overall I just think it's a little too "cute" for a first date. It's not really necessary. It's better for after you've already slept with a girl.
/r/seduction29/09/16 03:37 PM
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I've had some fun bowling first dates. But I've also had some expensive bowling first dates. If you're in a big city, bowling can run you a lot of money - especially if you're at one of those bowling/lounge combination places. I've had first dates like that where I spent $50+, which is why I didn't put it on the list. Aside from that, I also think it's a better second/third date option
/r/seduction29/09/16 03:04 PM
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Agreed man. You shouldn't hammer these techniques constantly. Weave them into the conversation here and there, and they'll be powerful. But if all you do is use these techniques, she'll get frustrated. Good stuff!
/r/seduction23/09/16 05:37 PM
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Thanks for this explanation man. Nailed it exactly
/r/seduction23/09/16 05:36 PM
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Thanks for the love man! Will do. And let me know if you have any specific dating/conversation questions and I'll try to cover them in a future post
/r/seduction23/09/16 05:36 PM
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Damn man I feel your pain. But yeah acceptance is your only option - the only thing that will keep you sane. So, I wish you luck on that journey and in your next steps!
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:55 PM
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Nice man. Good luck moving forward
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:54 PM
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Love it man. Great point!
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:54 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:53 PM
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Damnit you got me hahahah. This is why I'm not a grammar expert
/r/seduction08/09/16 02:53 PM
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Of course you get over the first one man. People say you "never get over the first one" don't have any control of their mental states. You can always control how you respond to situations. Sure, it takes a little time - accpeting it is the first step. But every time I've thought, "Fuck, I don't know if I'll meet another girl like her," I've always met a better girl. Be careful of the stories that you tell yourself.
/r/seduction07/09/16 07:10 PM
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hahaha yeah you can do that too. But I will say I've gone on my share of benders like this and it doesn't usually end with you feeling much better.
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:31 PM
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Nice man. Hope this helped!
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:30 PM
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Haha thanks for pointing out the type-o
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:30 PM
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No problem man! Hope you got some value from it.
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:28 PM
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Yeah man that's one of the downsides of dating girls you work with. Perhaps consider getting another job if this is really wearing on you. Or, just try to keep contact with her at an absolute minimum.
/r/seduction07/09/16 04:29 PM
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I actually filmed an example with a lot of these questions. You can check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtyfDZI9xh4
/r/seduction23/08/16 07:56 PM
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You should definitely dive into at least a few of these on a first date. As for when exactly you should use them? You should weave them in throughout the conversation. You can start within the first minute, and bounce in and out of these topics throughout the conversation. If you feel like you're running out of things to say, you can pull one of these out of your back pocket. It really depends on the conversation - you need to calibrate a bit to the girl you're talking to. If she's really open a…
/r/seduction23/08/16 07:10 PM
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Awesome man! Good luck
/r/seduction23/08/16 06:54 PM
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The key is to weave them into the conversation. Obviously you don't need to go into all the topics. Just one or two can lead to a great conversation. But yes - add your answers after she tells you hers. The conversation should be a bit of a back and forth. For example, if she tells you about how she loves snorkeling, you can relate back a story about how you tried it one time and loved it too. Specifically, you loved the adventure of it and seeing all the different fish and experiencing nature. …
/r/seduction23/08/16 06:19 PM
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Exactly. Start with the end in mind. Your goals and desires can always change. The important thing is to keep taking action and getting better.
/r/seduction13/08/16 12:44 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. Have a good day
/r/seduction13/08/16 12:42 AM
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Yeah man that's an important realization to have. Great point
/r/seduction12/08/16 07:57 PM
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Nice man. Great job thinking through this and taking the actionable step of writing it down. Once you know the type of women you want, it's a lot easier to meet them. You know what to look for and focus on.
/r/seduction12/08/16 06:14 PM
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Thanks man! Glad you enjoyed the article. Keep crushing it :)
/r/seduction12/08/16 05:40 PM
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Nice man! You can use this to take some action.
/r/seduction21/07/16 02:25 AM
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That happens sometimes man. There's a lot of scenarios where the girl could decide to not text back. Maybe your vibe was a little bit off. Maybe she was nervous about seeing you again. Maybe something happened in her life or she's super busy. The point is, you won't get a great response from every girl even when the initial interaction is great. So don't sweat it, keep doing what you're doing, and look for opporunities to learn something new.
/r/seduction20/07/16 07:29 PM
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Thanks for the love man! Hope your situation works out for the best.
/r/seduction15/07/16 12:09 AM
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No problem man. Yeah it's painful when you have that realization. But when you face the truth and decide you're not going to settle for someone who isn't sold on you, it's powerful. Powerful, and necessary for you to move on and have success in your life. Good luck man!
/r/seduction15/07/16 12:09 AM
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Your welcome as always!
/r/seduction15/07/16 12:09 AM
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Yeah man it can happen pretty easily, sometimes without you even realizing it. Important to be aware of your feelings and the reality of the situation, and know when it's time to cut ties and move on with your life!
/r/seduction14/07/16 05:58 PM
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There are a lot of signs women can give you. Knowing the signs will help you know when to make a move, and also to know when to walk away (so you don't waste your time if she's not into you). Here are some signs women will give you: 5 Signs She Wants You to Make a Move 10 Signs She's Just Not That Into You
/r/seduction11/06/16 06:11 PM
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Haha well usually man, the tell-tale sign is whether or not she's still having sex with you. If she's having sex with you less and less and showing more and more of these signs, then things are probably coming to an end.
/r/seduction10/06/16 08:48 PM
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Of course man. It can go both ways.
/r/seduction10/06/16 08:46 PM
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Yeah man it happens. We've all been there. It's always important to step back and assess your situation, so you can try and remove yourself from the emotions a bit. When you do that, you often realize how much you were rationalizing a situation (i.e. "I know she didn't text me back, but that's only because X!"). If you catch yourself making excuses for her disinterested signals, it's probably time to move on!
/r/seduction09/06/16 07:54 PM
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Haha thanks man. Yeah not a big fan of stuffing my website with ads. Try to lay things out in a way that's easy for people to consume the content, with minimal distraction
/r/seduction09/06/16 07:49 PM
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Hey man, glad you liked the article. Yeah that really is one of the most important points to understand: Just because a girl is into you at one time, doesn't mean she'll be into forever. It's tough when you have a great time with a girl, only for her to go cold. We've all had it happen. In fact, I've actually written two articles covering pretty much the exact situation if you want to check them out: Why She Goes “Cold” After You Make a Deep Connection Lessons from a One-Night-Stand: Do You Like…
/r/seduction09/06/16 05:30 PM
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Yeah man - here are some of my best articles in this area: How to Tease a Girl the Right Way Connect With Women Instead of "Rapid Fire" Approaching How to Quit Your Shitty Job and Achieve Freedom Using Social Momentum to Crush it at the Club
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:48 PM
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I'm 25, with a "head count" over 130+ My results are typically: when I go out, I bring a girl home 50-60% of the time I can usually get 1-2 dates from a night out I haven't had a dry spell of more than a week since I can remember (and this is over 2 years of world travel, so not many "regular" girls) I break down a lot of my experiences and knowledge on my blog. But I'll give you some basics here: Assume Attraction. Most guys assume women aren't attracted, and their reality follows suit. But whe…
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:08 PM
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Nice man! Yeah the great thing about chemistry is that it's usually mutual. If you're feeling it, she's probably feeling it on at least some level as well. Keep crushing it!
/r/seduction02/06/16 05:40 PM
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Thanks man! For a while, it was really difficult for me to meet women I had chemistry with. But once I started putting the pieces together, I realized I could actively meet more of these women. What's more, it's awesome when you have chemistry with a girl. I'm in this situation right now with an awesome girl, and it feels great. It's a lot more fun to hang with girls you have chemistry with than to have empty sex with girls you don't care about!
/r/seduction02/06/16 05:04 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction02/06/16 03:58 PM
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haha my man! Yeah I've lived in Medellin, Colombia for 6 months (out of the past 12). It's interesting here and a great place to live - but the women, although beautiful, don't seem to have much substance to them. This has been the experience of most of my friends as well. Sometimes we need more than just a pretty face and some nice curves :p (sounds crazy, but it's true!).
/r/seduction02/06/16 03:32 PM
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Thanks man. Yeah I used to struggle with the same thing - it's an important distinction
/r/seduction02/06/16 02:12 PM
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Thanks bro! Yeah I try to lay it out in a way that adds the most value
/r/seduction27/05/16 06:19 PM
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Just keep it cool and try to scale up the sexual tension on date 2
/r/seduction26/05/16 11:52 PM
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I hadn't seen this - but it actually is a pretty good example of what I mean. Nice value add!
/r/seduction26/05/16 11:48 PM
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Cool man. Like I said in the post, keep doing you. There are always exceptions.
/r/seduction26/05/16 10:47 PM
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So your experience is that when you intensely make out with girls for minutes at a time, they 1) are more likely to go home with you and 2) more likely to go on a date with you?
/r/seduction26/05/16 10:34 PM
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I did consider that. Then, after experimenting and pulling 100+ girls, I found that this kissing strategy was far more effective than making out.
/r/seduction26/05/16 10:29 PM
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It's the same man. I've lived all over the world and can attest to this.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:27 PM
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hahaha yeah man. It's really weird when it happens and you don't understand why. It took me a while to figure this out. e Some people say, "Whatever bro I'll just kiss her when I want." That's cool, do you. But understand that by doing that, you're going to hurt your chances of seeing her again and of bringing her home. It's better to be the mature guy in control of himself, who leads the interaction and doesn't succumb to all his urges like a kid in a candy store.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:26 PM
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Yeah man, I literally used to make out with girls every chance I got. Then, I'd be scratching my head as to why they didn't return my texts or want to hang out again, and also didn't want to go home with me. (Now, sometimes I don't even kiss a girl before I bring her back!) What I've experienced is that this strategy by far works the best
/r/seduction26/05/16 06:08 PM
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You have the right idea man. But you definitely want to be scaling up the tension more quickly. It's much better to scale it all the way up the first time and close the deal than to gradually escalate it over 3 meet ups. Attraction has a window, and that window closes. So moving fast is key.
/r/seduction26/05/16 05:31 PM
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Thanks man. This is some advice I wish I'd gotten years ago, so I wanted to get it out there
/r/seduction26/05/16 03:53 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction12/05/16 04:17 PM
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To put it simply, it's basically go out, have fun, and get into fun adventures. Be open to opportunities, and don't let success with any one woman determine the happiness of your night. I like this topic though and I'll definitely write a full post about this soon. Thanks for the idea!
/r/seduction12/05/16 04:17 PM
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When you see a girl you're attracted to, you'll naturally be thinking sexual and happy thoughts. Does that not make you want to smile?
/r/seduction12/05/16 04:16 PM
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Exactly man. The wrong smile will through the whole "sexy vibe" equation out of whack. Nicely put
/r/seduction12/05/16 04:15 PM
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For sure man! That's the thing - It's really hard to just "be confident" if you don't have any positive reference experiences. So guys with low confidence avoid social situations, then their confidence gets lower and lower and it's a vicious cycle. Instead, it helps to be aware of these mindsets, "fake it till you make it" in real social situations, and allow yourself to develop the good reference experiences. Then gradually, you won't be faking it anymore. You will become the confident, sociall…
/r/seduction11/05/16 08:10 PM
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You're right about that man - we all have those attributes and potential. But it can be hard to bring out due to social conditioning BS. Here's to helping guys get to that next level. Thanks for the love!
/r/seduction11/05/16 07:39 PM
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Thanks man. If a guy can implement even a few of these things, he'll instantly come off as more of a "sexy man" and less of a friend-type - which is something I think a lot of guys struggle with.
/r/seduction11/05/16 05:44 PM
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Dynamite Circle. But there are digital nomads all over the world in "hubs" like Ho Chi Minh City, Chang Mai, Berlin, Barcelona, Austin, and more, plus where I'm currently based in Medellin, Colombia. Basically a ton of dudes who love to 1) do work they care about and 2) party and talk to girls
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:03 PM
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It's not about acting uninterested. It's about being patient. And this means being present in the moment and avoiding future projections with the girl. It means allowing things to unfold without trying to force it, or constantly worrying if things are going the right way. Hope this clears that up.
/r/seduction21/04/16 05:49 PM
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Hahah thanks! Over here blushing. Glad you like it!
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:05 PM
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Yeah man, that wasn't necessary. All you had to do was set the time and place for the date. Lead her with the texts man! And when you have the opportunity to close, take it - don't let it slip by sending some BS unnecessary texts
/r/seduction21/04/16 02:33 AM
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Happens to the best of us man. What did you say to her? What do you think was the "straw that broke the camel's back"?
/r/seduction21/04/16 12:24 AM
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Thanks for reading man. You make a good point. But one of the things I've noticed is guys usually get really invested after making some sort of connection, and I thought the title conveyed it. It was a bit tricky trying to pick the right title for this one, but I'm glad you liked the article
/r/seduction20/04/16 11:58 PM
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Haha what happened man?
/r/seduction20/04/16 10:24 PM
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For a few reasons: -Better physical appearance (i.e. more in shape/muscular, better style etc.) -more confidence -more reference experiences -better awareness of my environment
/r/seduction07/04/16 05:46 PM
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Good point man! I'll definitely write a follow up to this with some solid ways to get more approach invitations
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:57 PM
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Thanks for reading man! You mention some good points. But the thing is, it's hard to do these things when you're in the "approach machine" mindset. You can't help but think of the next approach, it's hard not to wear yourself out, and often you do garner negative social proof because your approaches aren't as effective
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:51 PM
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I don't agree that girls who give you approach invitations are more desperate. If you see a girl you like and approach her, does that make you desperate? It's the same situation here, except reversed. In terms of whether it's "seduction" or not, this is semantics. You still need to be a cool, attractive guy to get the girl. Why not go for a girl who you will naturally get along better with? Doesn't this make the process more fun, smooth, and easier? I also disagree that you won't get approach in…
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:49 PM
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Wrote a blog post on this in the past. Here are 7 Questions to Ask a Girl on the First Date: What are you passionate about? What do you find sexiest in a guy? What’s your dream job? What’s one thing I wouldn’t guess about you? If you could wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would it be? Tell me about your most ridiculous adventure What kind of things make you laugh the hardest? Notice how they are all open-ended
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:30 PM
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Thanks man, but be careful about waiting around for a girl. 1) It usually never works out and 2) It fills you up emotionally, so you don't have mental space to open up to and connect with new women It's better to focus on yourself for now by: 1) Getting fit/staying in shape 2) Working on finances/career 3) Gaining knowledge 4) Making great connections If it happens with this girl in the future, it happens. But don't wait for it. Move on with your life and keep becoming your best self. I promise …
/r/seduction04/04/16 05:33 PM
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Sounds like you're probably not ready to settle with a girl yet. I don't think I am either, and that's fine. But when you do meet an awesome girl, and you are ready, it can be worth the sacrifice. But it will be just that - a sacrifice. Your desire to sleep with other women will never go away, but the trick is to focus on the awesomeness of the relationship that you have, and how much you appreciate your current girl. It's also a possibility to create some sort of openness in the relationship, w…
/r/seduction04/04/16 04:55 PM
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Also, there are a lot of quality girls out there. It's worth noting that women think and feel differently than man. What you basically described above is a relationship with a guy friend. What are the needs that you feel like women can't meet?
/r/seduction04/04/16 04:52 PM
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Sounds like you tend to focus on all the things you don't like about women (i.e. a Seinfeld complex) rather than what you do like. And when this happens, usually the things you don't like tend to come to the surface more.
/r/seduction04/04/16 04:46 PM
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There's not enough investment for it to be truly risky. She's only been on one date with you. It sounds like you either didn't connect with her or weren't able to communicate with her on a sexual level, hence why she only saw you as a friend. If you'd like, walk us through the first date and maybe us Sedditers can help you point out where things went wrong/what you can do better for next time
/r/seduction04/04/16 04:41 PM
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No problem man. I think this is a trap that a lot of us get caught up in. So it's good to step back and ask yourself, "Shit, what am I actually doing right now?!" People let their lives be run by "ideas" of things. They like the idea of being rich, the idea of having that sexy girl, the idea of growing a business, etc. And then, when they achieve that thing, they aren't happy, because they never really wanted it in the first place.
/r/seduction04/04/16 04:28 PM
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What about women do you hate dealing with?
/r/seduction04/04/16 04:25 PM
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As a rule of thumb, you should pretty much always approach as soon as you make eye contact/she notices you looking at her. If you're out at night, sometimes you can play a little eye game where you both know what's up for a few minutes, glancing at each other across the bar. But usually, you don't want to wait more than a few seconds to a few minutes to approach a girl after this.
/r/seduction04/04/16 02:53 AM
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Thanks for reading man. Glad you got the message of the blog
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:48 AM
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thanks for reading bro
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:47 AM
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/r/seduction31/03/16 04:47 AM
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6 ask the right questions. In this section I talk about how to connect with her by asking the right questions and then listening and relating. Check it again if you missed it.
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:45 AM
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Are you saying you're not interested at all in sex on the first date? Is there an issue with trying to give yourself the best chance for sex, while also connecting with her and having a good time? The point of all of these "keys" I talk about is that they allow you to have a good time with the girl, they attract her, and they make the date fun, while also leaving sex on the table. You don't need to force sex or have a one night stand if you don't want to. This is just the natural progression of …
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:44 AM
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Because I thought you were attractive and I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't introduce myself."
/r/seduction01/03/16 05:16 PM
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You never liked her - you liked the idea of her. It's good that you realized this now
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:37 PM
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Hey, I just saw you and I wanted to meet you for a minute. What are you up to?" "Oh wow, thanks! I'm just on my lunch break/on my way to work/ etc." Ask a few open ended questions about her, maybe like what she does for work and what she likes about it. Then after a minute or two, say "I need to go, but you seem like fun. Would you want to hang out some time?" If she says "yes", then take out your phone and tell her to put her phone number in
/r/seduction01/03/16 01:59 PM
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What kind of failure are you afraid of? Approaching girls?
/r/seduction29/02/16 08:28 PM
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That's why you meet up in a place where sex can't happen. As a caveat, I met up with her in a situation where 1) I could only see her once in the same city, so even if I wanted to get her back it wasn't a real possibility logistically and 2) nearly one year after the last time i'd seen her. If it's been more recent for you, and you live nearby her, it may not be the best option for you. That being said, it is great to see the girl you've been imaging in her person, because it makes her real and …
/r/seduction19/02/16 06:07 PM
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Haha I will say that good eye contact is only mentioned once in a one bullet point - and it is an important part of keeping the emotions on a high level. But thanks for your input and explanation. I agree leading is more than just planning to get her home, which is just one example I used. How else would you add to the definition?
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:00 PM
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How hard are you escalating on these dates before you get back to your place or their place? And keep in mind, a lot of what you said has to do with managing her emotions. If she's feeling good, she's a lot more likely and willing to go back to your place and see where the adventure goes, whether it's sex or something else.
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:28 PM
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That's pretty much exactly what I say about leading and why it's a gift... "Instead of waiting around and hoping, you can control the outcome. Sure, things won’t always work out the way you’d like, but at least you KNOW – unlike the guys who are afraid to lead and never go for what they want in the first place."
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:19 PM
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Exactly man, good stuff!
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:17 PM
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You might not have a specific planned out destination, but you're doing what you want to do and she's following you. In a way, your destination is just to have fun, and you're taking the girl with you on that journey. That's still leading
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:16 PM
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1) Every girl is "that type" of girl who will sleep with you. Don't get caught up stereotyping girls in your mind, and not making a move on them. I wrote a post about this a while back http://www.returnofkings.com/58304/5-reasons-she-is-that-type-of-girl 2) There's nothing wrong with weekend dates. And if girls don't want to stay out late, then meet up with them earlier 3) Don't try to make out until your back at your place. Instead, keep the tension going and give some light kisses if you want.…
/r/seduction21/01/16 11:35 PM
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No problem man! Always trying to add value here. What about it resonated with you?
/r/seduction21/01/16 11:03 PM
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It depends man. Usually big cities will have the most attractive girls. So, if you're in a small town, try expanding your reach to 25-50 miles out and you might have more luck
/r/seduction22/12/15 11:11 PM
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I wrote an extensive post on this: http://trippadvice.com/a-step-by-step-guide-for-attracting-older-women/
/r/seduction22/12/15 08:58 PM
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hhahah how did it turn out?
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:25 PM
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Thanks man. Always trying to add value here with comments/good articles
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:42 PM
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Good points man. All that signals you are nervous - and that will make the girl nervous and uncomfortable too
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:41 PM
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It can go either way - but just from experience, I've seen not kissing work better. For example, last year my buddy and I were on a double date with two new girls. He was all over his girl the whole time, making out with her, getting physical, etc. I gave my girl a few pecks on the lips. If you were watching, you probably would've said my friend would get laid, and I wouldn't. But I ended up having sex with my girl, and he brought his girl home - but he could never take it further than kissing. …
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:28 PM
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This seems counter-intuitive, but I try never to make out with women at the club. When you make out with a girl, you give away your power, so-to-speak. 1) She no longer has to question if you like her so that takes some fun away 2) It's like giving away the end of the movie before you get there. You just kind of ruin the surprise for her, 3) She gets the validation she needs from your kiss and doesn't need much more and 4) it kills the sexual tension. If you want to bring more women home, stop m…
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:16 PM
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hahah I've been called out on that way too many times, and I still forget. Nice one
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:00 PM
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Have you ever been called out by a girl or a friend for another annoying behavior? List it here - there's a good chance many of us do something similar - and we'd be better off adjusting. For reference, here are a few more "annoying" things girls have told me they find annoying in guys: -Agreeing with everything -Not showing personality -Not relating -Talking too much about yourself
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:27 PM
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You can still look into their eyes when you're sitting beside them you know. Hah
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:34 PM
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haha I feel you man - but be patient with them and you might be surprised at what you find
/r/seduction16/12/15 01:39 PM
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Thanks! Glad you dig it
/r/seduction16/12/15 01:38 PM
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what up hah
/r/seduction16/12/15 01:38 PM
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It all depends on your tone when you ask the question. They shouldn't come off as interview-y
/r/seduction15/12/15 10:14 PM
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it's up now
/r/seduction15/12/15 09:39 PM
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Good point - the purpose of these questions is to have better conversation and connect on a deeper level - and in order to do that, you need to share things about yourself too. Don't let the conversation get too one-sided, because then both of you will get less value and have less fun
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:55 PM
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Exactly. It's not 21 questions where you rattle them off one by one. But by working a few in here and there, it can make for a much more interesting conversation and fun date. I've been on many first dates and I've never gotten a bad reaction from any of these questions
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:42 PM
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Exactly man. Was about to say the same thing
/r/seduction02/12/15 02:14 PM
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Got you covered on this one: http://trippadvice.com/a-step-by-step-guide-for-attracting-older-women/ Here's a basic outline of the steps: 1. Get Comfortable Dating Girls Your Own Age 2. Go to Venues with Older Women 3. Approach Confidently 4. Lead Unapologetically 5. Overcome the Age Difference 6. Keep a Steady Head
/r/seduction02/12/15 02:12 PM
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/r/seduction04/03/14 09:55 PM
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