4 Things She Needs From You Before Sex

Supernatty_ · 2017-04-12T22:41:14+00:00

1. She Needs to Feel Comfortable with You
1. She Needs to Feel that it’s Worth the Risk
1. She Needs to Trust You
1. She Needs You to Initiate it

recyclablebanthas · 2017-04-13T03:21:40+00:00

I went in not expecting to agree with it but actually found a lot to agree with. Good article about fundamental things here.

Points #1-3 were solid. Where I disagree is on the last one.

4#: She Needs You to Initiate it

Granted, it's totally more common for women to be comfortable with men initiating. But sometimes a woman will enjoy taking the bull by the horns.

It's not terribly common, but when those moments come, it really helps when a guy isn't flipping out internally because he feels like HE needs to be the one doing it and something is wrong if she is.

Here’s what you can do to initiate things:

Make the conversation more sexual

Throughout the conversation, you should infuse a few sexual innuendos and jokes.

This is not a basic thing. It's an extra stunt that guys with experience can pull off if he wants to add a little challenge and excitement to the process.

But the only thing that guys NEED to do to initiate is, as you say, make moves. Like physical escalation. Trying to finesse things with innuendo or finding some way to shoehorn sex into the conversation is completely unnecessary, and if done in a ham-fisted way, is actually one of the best ways to prevent actual sex from happening.

I don't know how many times I have seen guys post that they don't understand why sex wasn't happening because they talked about sex a lot with a girl. All the while the missing ingredient was that they didn't make moves.

omg_giraffe · 2017-04-13T03:10:56+00:00

I would put emphasis on her needing you to display sufficient value too.

As your categories stand, I would put her needing you to have high value within the "worth the risk" category.

Yankee_Fever · 2017-04-12T20:18:40+00:00

Your call to action buttons are the wrong colors lol

Bloody_Smashing · 2017-04-12T22:13:28+00:00

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Title	4 Things She Needs From You Before Sex
Author	gradcasanova
Upvotes	42
Comments	10
Date	April 12, 2017 3:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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