7 Keys to a Better Quality First Date

ass_fungus · 2016-03-30T21:04:05+00:00

Public announcement: all the stuff on this dude's marketing-heavy website has been readily available and repeatedly mentioned on r/seddit and is also available in the sidebar to boot.

OffMyChestee · 2016-03-31T03:06:22+00:00

Hold hands, go for the kiss, invite back to your place; nothing here seemed risky or limited to a ONS.

Why is everyone trashing it? I'm assuming that we're all decent adults and will accept no for an answer.

makkafakka · 2016-03-31T07:35:40+00:00

Solid advice! This comment section is a wasteland though

I'll start some good discussion about it instead.

I liked the open ended questions part. some more examples of open ended questions I like

what's a perfect day/night/movie/party etc in your mind?
what do you find important/cool/charismatic/etc with /guys/friends/girls/a boyfriend/a FWB
describe your interests/style/temperament
how does your interests/style/temperament/whatevs differ from your friends/family/co workers/other defined group that we just talked about
what do you like that few people know about?
what do you think we have in common?
whats your perception about my style/looks/personality
what are you most grateful for in your life/this week/right now?
give me your life story in one minute

what do you guys think about these? and do you have any other examples of interesting questions that can lead to an interesting conversation?

desertdungarees · 2016-03-31T00:10:37+00:00

Be careful with this stuff, though fellas. The world is an increasingly crazier place. May no man face charges as a result of some first date frisk.

#gethertosay"yes"first

Watch-My-Six · 2016-03-31T02:55:20+00:00

What if your intention is to make a genuine connection with someone while taking the opportunity to determine whether or not this is someone you wish to see further?

Not trying to sound judgmental in any way, I just personally find one-night-stands to be virtually meaningless and largely unsatisfying, and honestly a little demeaning.

Am I to understand that the purpose of this sub is learning to illicit sex from random strangers? I was under the impression that it was more of a resource for dating advice...

crazycritter87 · 2016-03-31T01:57:16+00:00

This seems like 80% bullshit. If your goal is a one night stand with a possible sexual assault charge or to come off as an ego driven prick and get into a short relationship with a shallow, high maintenance, bitchy/ditzy/ or clingy 20 something... go for it.

7 Keys to a Better Quality First Date

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6 ask the right questions. In this section I talk about how to connect with her by asking the right questions and then listening and relating. Check it again if you missed it.

Title	7 Keys to a Better Quality First Date
Author	gradcasanova
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Date	March 30, 2016 5:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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