28/m here. My friends and I frequent a dance club that attracts the late 20s-early 40s crowd. It’s a great place and fun is always had by all.

Every time I go, and I mean every single time I go since we’ve started going, I wind up dancing with good looking older women. And seemingly 60% of the time they seek me out on the dance floor. I’m an average looking dude, definitely no giga Chad, just a guy who likes to dance and I try to exude confidence. So on with my milf problem then....

Case in point: last week we went and I was dancing with a woman in her 30s. She went to go get a drink and another woman in her 40s came up literally immediately. You can tell she was past tipsy and she was real handsy and necky with me. Previous woman came back, told her “aw man you stole my man” and left the area, but stayed close by and talked to me whenever she could.

So anyways, despite these women showing obvious signs of attraction, grabbing places that would make your grandmother blush, ranging from shit faced to stone cold sober, etc, when I try to close at the end of the night a lot of the time it winds up as a “you’re too young for me” kinda vibe.

So TLDR:

I’m a good guy with good intentions when it comes to women and dating, but I’ll be honest, I’m not trying to get into a relationship with an older drunk woman I met at a club at 1 am. I’m trying to smash.

Question 1: How have you passed the “you’re too young for me” shit test personally? Question 2: my house is 20 minutes away from the spot but in the same city. How would you propose I phrase the “let’s go home together” question?