I've decided to leave this sub; not for any negative reasons, I just don't need it. Before I leave, it's only fair that I contribute.

This sub was first introduced to me (in a roundabout way) through 'The Game' by Niel Strauss and I was happy to find see how far this community has come since then.

You guys were the first (and only) 'self improvement' gurus that I implemented and it works! (Read the books) From the ages of 16-19 I grossly misused the techniques and tips. After the age of 20, I wised up and figured out a few key things. Here's what I understand;

Focus on Character, women will come.

Build a your Character; Wat-ya-talkin-abeet?

Take a look and build yourself from the ground up. You should treat yourself like a video game. So no matter what level your on: hating on your character or getting fucked off about your XP level won't improve things- going after missons will.

So take a look at yourself, weighing up strengths and weaknesses and pick your mission. From there you can improve everything.

Missions can be anything:

Want to look cooler? - Get money, research some styles, go shopping (online or in person)

Want to get in shape? - Research some icons (Ross Edgley is mine), follow plan.

Want to have a social life? - Hit up existing mates, reach out to old/new ones. If struggling- research and replan.

This sub taught me to reflect and work on things which is the main lesson. So celebrate every victory, be kind to all (yourself too) and build YOUR character.

Thank you for help.