using a throwaway here, but ive been a member of this community for quite a few years.
Title sort of says it all, but theres some other things im curious about...
- Was there an "aha" point where you felt comfortable cold approaching during the day!?
- Did you ever Have any set backs from hard rejections?
- After you felt comfortable approaching during the day, Do you feel the constant pressure from yourself every time you see a beautiful Woman on the street to go talk to her, now that you know its possible to make that connection??
- Was there a video that spelled out how to approach best for you?
- Was there a moment that you said fuck it, or a point where you were tired of being scared of approaching the pushed you to actually do it??
- any other advice for someone who wants to overcome this fear or suggestions would be appreciated
I really would love to learn day game, mostly for the purpose of overcoming my own fear, But I also feel for me that meeting women during the day would give me the best chances to meet/attract the types of women I'm truly interested and attracted to. (bars and clubs aren't really my thing anymore)
For years I've wanted to have the balls to approach women in public during the day. It happens over and over again, im going about my day, a beautiful woman walks by or is in a shop with me and I get caught of guard, never say anything and then feel regret for a few hours after. Im sick of feeling this way. I'd Rather get rejected and called a loser or laughed at, than deal with this regret anymore!
I'm just at a point in my life where I need to know I at least tried and tried hard, even if it means getting rejected. But I am really struggling pushing through the fear. Ive only ever done one day cold approach and it went pretty well, and ive talked to some girls on the street and its gone pretty well, but never asked for their number or info or shown any romantic interest.
I've had pretty decent success with women at work, parties/ singles events .... ( I don't sleep around but I get to the point of knowing when a girl is interested and often times I'll leave it at that just to avoid shitting where I eat etc) So I feel pretty comfortable in situations where it feels socially acceptable to chat a girl up or flirt. I live in a major city and theres such an abundance of beautiful women walking around that I feel like the general vibe is that men don't approach strangers on the street ( I know this a bit of a BS story im telling myself in a way)
any advice would be appreciated! thanks for reading!
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