First, first date in six years!

lozboss · 2019-05-15T20:44:38+00:00

Good work mate. Getting back on the horse is always tough.

Remember to keep lining up dates with lots more women, options is key.

Coming up to the date: Don't over text, just enough to make sure she doesn't flake on you for another dude.

On the date:

Let her talk, asks questions and listen. You gain little value from talking and telling her your life story. You want some mystery so she has the curiousity to go on a second date.

When you do talk be flirty and set the tone early in (not right at the start). Keep it light hearted and fun and tease her a bit (activity dates are great for this like crazy golf).

Don't hand out compliments - she's not earned it yet.

During the date just be natural and loose, if touching is on then do it, if not then it's not - no drama.

After the date:

Don't follow up, make sure she does, if she doesn't then she's not interested and you next her for one of your many options. Man of value.

Good luck! Report back after.

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-05-15T21:54:01+00:00

Don't go in with any expectations. This will allow you to be more relaxed and avoid disappointments.

redfox180 · 2019-05-17T21:50:23+00:00

Didn't happen guys, she flaked on me. Went out with the guys instead and had a good laugh on to the next, thanks for the advice.

Title	First, first date in six years!
Author	redfox180
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	May 15, 2019 8:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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