The last two relationships I had were with classmates. They both approached me, but I ended falling for them pretty hard. Anyway, they were both great experiences, but they both ended in a pretty similar way, they broke up with me.

I'm not gonna lie, sometimes I blame myself for it, but I realized that they were both pretty fucked up, each in her unique way.

Both of them wanted to get back together after a while, I got back with one, but she broke up with me again, and for the other I ended up saying no to her.

What I wanna know is, what made those relationships fail ? I don't really wanna get back into them, but I wanna know what happened, so I can fix it.

One more thing, I was talking with the one that I didn't get back with last week, and she said that she missed our memories together, but not me. What does that mean ? We had a pretty good time together, and I was overall nice with both of them, and sometimes maybe even weak with them. Could that be it ?

Also, for one of them, as I started learning about game, using techniques, being more of a man, and generally less clingy, she ended things. Could it be that she just liked the attention that I gave her, and as soon as I stopped she just didn't care anymore? If so, what can I do to avoid this ?