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Should i break up with her?

Bloxerbadge · 2019-05-26T09:39:04+00:00

I dont think the relationship is going well. She is starting to get cold, i am trying my best to be the best man i can be, i read books, i meditate, I go to...

Bloxerbadge

May 26, 2019

1 upvotes

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Title	Should i break up with her?
Author	Bloxerbadge
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	May 26, 2019 9:39 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bt62qz/should_i_break_up_with_her/
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[–]Lyvewyrez 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I really try hard to make us work but I dont think it will,

wondering maybe it really is not the time for me to have a commited relationship

i cannot be the man that she deserves, i cannot be a strong centered man

Have a look at the things you're telling yourself. Look at all the negative energy you're carrying around and projecting. Women are very good at picking up on the energy you are vibing, no wonder she's backing off.

Ease up bro. You're only 21! You've still got so much in front of you. Find your centre, relax and stop feeling you need to be this perfect machine running 100% of the time.

Incidentally I don't know what this has to do with seduction. The problem here is your unrealistic expectations that cause you to hate on yourself. Correct your mistakes and the rest will fall into place. You've got the girl, you don't need to re-seduce her. You need to show that you are the man she fell for. It's ok to fear sometimes, but now it's time to stand back up and get on with your life, strive to be better.

[–]Bloxerbadge[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lyvewyrez 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

i wish I can on this instant be the person you want me to be, not carrying negative energy

Yoda said it right, back then, my friend and it's been true ever since. "Do or do not, there is no try". You ARE that man, you just lack the self-confidence to act upon it. You know what you need to do, you are just insecure about achieving it. You are not sure what it should feel like to be how you want to be, even though ironically you already are.

Think of it this, Rome was not built in a day. Clearly, with all the self-doubt and negativity you feed yourself, you're not going to allow yourself to wake up tomorrow and the centered man you are. Build up to it, one paving stone at a time. Have you heard of the Japanese Kaizen principle? Research it, start practicing it. Reframe your perspective from "I can't do this" to "I'm going to achieve this" "I fear this will happen" to "I don't care if this happens, I'll survive and get past it". Practice your self-confidence, it is like a muscle, you need to work it.

Stay strong my friend, believe in yourself like we do. As a last resort, I always find listening to a Tony Robbins video is a nice empowering boost if you're feeling down. Start every day feeling like you'll conquer the world and eventually, you'll do just that

[–]Bloxerbadge[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link