Went on a chill date with a girl, she tells me she needs a lot of space. What does this mean?

2019-06-05T08:07:40+00:00

“Give her a lot of space’

getyourlifeplease · 2019-06-05T11:05:40+00:00

That means she doesnt want to hear from you or see you regularly

LynuSBell · 2019-06-05T11:26:43+00:00

Ohh my! I lost a girl like this because I was needy... Let her come to you. If you don't here from her within 7 days or more, it's completely fine. Make sure to take the lead by offering her to join you to this or that event. But not all the time. She wants an independent man with a social life. Hopefully for you, it's only temporary (couple of months).

JxRomeo · 2019-06-05T12:27:11+00:00

Dont push so much wtf. Just be cool and dont try to hard

sinbad2011 · 2019-06-05T15:10:51+00:00

Go find another girl.

if you keep focusing on only one girl, you gonna have -0 girls in your life. you want that? or you want dates with multiple girls.

Manwe89 · 2019-06-05T16:57:58+00:00

No sexual attraction propably

WIA20XX · 2019-06-05T18:11:27+00:00

It could have a lot of origins (something went wrong on the date, even if she is shy/low energy) and we need more context, but in terms of how to play it - reduce your initiated contact with her.

Send a text that doesn't require response every couple of days. Better yet is to add her to your optimized and curated social media.

Drop her to the backburner, but you don't need to take the pan off the stove. Let it simmer. You basically don't want to scare the cat.

Title	Went on a chill date with a girl, she tells me she needs a lot of space. What does this mean?
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Comments	7
Date	June 5, 2019 8:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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