Girl flake after weekend together

DriedUpPlum · 2019-06-10T19:21:58+00:00

Sounds like she is busy till Sunday and you are becoming over invested in her too early.

you instinct is to lock her down ASAP. Her’s is to continue vetting you and getting to know you better before she emotionally commits.

The last thing she want’s is to date a guy for a month.. determine it’s not working out and then have an obsessive guy blowing up her phone for as long as the relationship lasted. Likely expletives and name calling involved.

She is guarding against a guy screaming at her for the 100th time “You shouldn’t lead guys along if you don’t want to be with them!!” yes, that is called DATING. Not being co-dependent partners for 9 months when it should have only lasted a week.

not-pEteRTrAcEy · 2019-06-10T19:26:23+00:00

She wants to get to the point bruv, she wants to smash. She doesn't want to keep talking or doing miscellaneous things. Suggest plans that infer they will lead to some sexy times and watch how quickly she confirms. Btw, sounds like you want to date her and she just wants to fool around.

Chrisanova_NY · 2019-06-10T19:34:11+00:00

Sorry, my guy. You busted.

Move on.

She came back to your apartment....... was even 3rd base achieved ?

It sounds like she was down, and now she is thinking you don't really find her that attractive.

AND/OR, you friend-zoned yourself by not trying to seal the deal on Saturday, and now she is propping you up as some form of use: Money, car rides, physical labor, etc...

3 dates should be the rule. Dont drag shit out for 5, 10, 15 dates before her pants come off.

And don't get hit with the "You have to go slowly with me". The bad boys never have to hear that stuff.

I'm not suggesting you be bad, but set limits on your time/money/resources.

drdavidbanner20 · 2019-06-10T22:13:59+00:00

She either is legitimately busy, or she wanted you to make a move and you didn't.

Title	Girl flake after weekend together
Author	englishdarasa
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	June 10, 2019 6:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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