How do i make an emotional connection with someone?

eagerlearner732 · 2019-06-13T23:42:27+00:00

Ask questions and listen to her look into her eyes be genuinely interested in what you ask.. For example if she says she’s a good dancer or anything 1) ask her why does she like dancing so much 2) how did she develop her interest in dancing 3) How does it feel when you dance

Generally talking about her dreams, interests and introducing fantasies in conversations is how you connect. This is how I personally do it. Good Luck

recyclablebanthas · 2019-06-14T03:02:22+00:00

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I have never understood how to connect with a woman.

When we're younger, we often get fed a lot of bullshit about how male-female relations should work. Buy flowers, pay for dinner, yahda yahda.

Let's roll it back and look at the very basics of human interaction.

Person A talks.
Person B listens.
Person A finishes talking.
Person B thinks about what Person A said.
Person B follows up with Person A on what they said.
Rinse and repeat.

Now look at how people often end up talking.

Person A talks.
Person B is thinking about what they want to say while Person A is talking so they don't register everything that's been said.
Person A finishes talking.
Person B says something like, "Cool, cool," and then launches into what they were thinking about saying, revealing that they didn't listen to what Person A said, or didn't care.

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So often, the big gap here in connection results because we aren't listening as actively as we NEED to be. We might be thinking about something cool to say or the "right thing" to say. But all that pales in comparison to just taking the information they are giving away for free and following up on THAT.

Connection requires active listening.

Madhouse221 · 2019-06-14T06:05:39+00:00

VULNERABILITY! What creates true emotional connection is the ability to be vulnerable around each other. Share something about yourself not many people know and allow them to do the same without judgement. Breńe brown got really popular after giving a TED talk on the subject if you want to learn more.

DonnaTurner · 2019-06-14T13:41:04+00:00

BE VULNERABLE. This is an important risk to take to get the reward. And even if it backfires, every relationship you enter is either a blessing or a lesson.

MilitantSound · 2019-06-14T02:21:45+00:00

Watch a horror film with someone

alltime75 · 2019-06-14T04:30:43+00:00

It’s a two way street. If you’re doing all the talking and she isn’t interested or vice versa then it’s one sided.

folasanmi · 2019-06-14T02:21:05+00:00

Figure out what both want and try and screen girls that are compatible with that path

Title	How do i make an emotional connection with someone?
Author	Vkkkredditt
Upvotes	12
Comments	8
Date	June 13, 2019 11:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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