So I believe I have come a way from not approaching at all but I still feel like I'm not putting myself and my interests completely out there. My current game goes like this I approach without any outcome dependence by assuming I just want to meet her I usually just say hi, then I proceed to get to know her and laugh a bit, when the moods up I ask for dates, number etc. Backstory: I had done 0 approaches before going on my first ever business trip, during the trip I met a lot of girls at my hostel, bars, etc and started to approach even though I was really awkward at first. I managed to get one hot girl on a date, tried to kiss her but she rejected it and I kinda didn't bother from there. Then the next day is my biggest breakthrough appearance wise but I still feel like I let myself down, basically she is crazy hot, I went into it no intentions, and came out of it with her number, snap, and a planned "we'll do something tomorrow night". We ended up meeting randomly later that same night and spent like 2 hours talking laughing and we played a couple board games at a cafe. At the end of the night we both seemed happy and agreed we enjoyed the night and are looking forward to tomorrow but that's it. I don't know if I am over analyzing but I feel like I didn't get sexual enough, didn't kiss her, I refrained from that due to not wanting to be too abrupt since we just met this day. But I'm also unsure how I'd do it without it being cringe or trying too hard. However what I did do, is I joked with her had her laughing, I smiled cheekily and maintained adamant eye contact, she smiled a lot and she did not keep eye contact she kinda looked straight ahead when talking to me but would often glance into my eyes but look away shortly after. This was maybe my 8-10th approach but she was by far my hottest and I enjoyed it a lot, now afterwards I'm second guessing my game. What can I do better? I'd love to express myself confidently and dominantly sexually but I'm not use to it. I'm also not sure what that's like to even get use to it. My goal is to reach that point that I am confident and dominant with women. Any tips are very welcome.
TL;DR approach hot girl, got her number, snap and made plans to meet up tomorrow but I feel like I left out too much sexual intention/game
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