To keep this short: I met this girl, she was clearly into me. Had very interesting concersations. Basicaly: we really hit it off great! After a week i felt she became distant. Turned out she didnt knew how things were with her and her boyfriend/ex...

I didnt like this at first. So I held back. She initiated contact a lot, i thought she really liked me. We’re texting A LOT But I dont know if -im the guy she wants to date

  • im her backup, or shoulder to cry on
  • shes just not over her ex yet, and i should give her space and time...

I really like this girl! We have so much in common, things feel great! But I really hate the fact in which situation shes in...

Any advice? I know I just could let her go, but this girl is really great. How do I turn this into something more? How do I become more attractive to her?