Me and my LTR have been together for 5 years now, discovered the pill 6 months ago. Had a moment recently where she assumed that she could spend 200$ on house supplies and expects me to pay back 100$ of it without first consulting me on the price. She told me that I owe her 100$ via text and I told her that We'd talk about that later on Friday when we saw each other (this is about a 2 day period she'd have to wait). She then gives me the silent treatment for two days, and when I tell her I'm not going to pay her back as she did so without my consent, she gets mad, starts crying that I made her 'stew' and feel like shit for 2 days (when I was letting her hamster spin in her own mind). How should I respond to her comment that I made her feel like shit hamstering? Ignore it? (if I concern myself with it, then I legitimize it, right?) I'm not sure how I can ignore it when she keeps hounding me that I need to understand that I made her 'feel bad'.